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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Jerewise332(m): 3:25pm On Mar 31
Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

So what do u mean in essence
Shouldn't men marry again?
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by OriginalZombiE: 3:25pm On Mar 31
xynerise:
Kids of these days won't understand how marriage works. They are so used to their fun style dating culture

Adults of nowadays don't understand how society has changed and the dynamics of marriage isn't the same as it was in their youth.
They're so used to having their "good" wives take care of them that they have failed to see that culture has drastically changed.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Oracleforce: 3:25pm On Mar 31
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER

What is the ratio of those women who are taking some financial responsibility for the home? Probably 15-20 percent and such woman will bad-mouth their husbands so that their children will hate those men...
Average women always use marriage to achieve their future dreams. ..and after the dreams have been achieved, they either kill the man or dump him

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Walkee: 3:25pm On Mar 31
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER
lol I pray. Children are 100% guaranteed profitable investment for women. No matter what, children will always appreciate and take care of their mother when they make it even if she was irresponsible. If a man shows the slightest form of irresponsibility he's clearly gone and will be abandoned by his children in his old age. Whatever a woman does in marriage she reap the profit 1000x in the future.
There's a song in my Esan dialect that women normally sing in ceremony. The translation of the song is, "in the morning I'm married to my husband, towards the evening, my children are now my husband whom I'm married to"

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by xynerise: 3:26pm On Mar 31
OriginalZombiE:


Adults of nowadays don't understand how society has changed and the dynamics of marriage isn't the same as it was in their youth.
They're so used to having their "good" wives take care of them that they have failed to see that culture has drastically changed.

Culture didn't change. People changed.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Saao(m): 3:26pm On Mar 31
The worst is that if u want to get out of it, the church wont allow you or people around you, that it's a sin to walk away. Men gain nothing from marriage except suffering and disgrace from the women. To me it's better not to marry than to put yourself in perpetual suffering. No wonder Jesus and Paul never married.

May God help the men.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by YourJesus: 3:28pm On Mar 31
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER


Give us the ratio before typing nonsense
Verily verily I say unto you your sense of reasoning is in coma

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by igbosoupkitchen(f): 3:28pm On Mar 31
Freestainworld:
your Logic's doesn't make any sense, since sex is cheap, go and start sleeping with prostitutes so you can be happy, as for children, I don't expect you to get married not to talk of having babies so you won't be in financial slavery since you are Island, if they hadn't given birth to you, would you have been here reasoning like a toddler.
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Nnatuu: 3:29pm On Mar 31
Well...

This is the reason I have been contemplating on starting a wife renting business. Because this people are of no use staying permanently in a mans house.

Their original intention is to use your prick born and turn you to donkey from then on till you’re dead. That’s when they relax to enjoy your efforts!

And what does the man benefit...nothing but the title, “head of the house”

Head Kor Foot Ni!

Mtcheeew!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by faste: 3:29pm On Mar 31
Some men married into fortune and theiq lives change,it depend on luck.Others are love and care,emotional security and lonliness,name yours.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by spiritedtete: 3:30pm On Mar 31
Marriage is a chioce... I got married for legacy and continuation of my bloodline.. it is not same for others.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by deltateam: 3:31pm On Mar 31
Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

Oga if you want to marry, do. If not gerrouta here mehn.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Excesslove222: 3:32pm On Mar 31
What a man gains? Let me list a few:

He gains coming back home everyday to a well prepared meal.
He gains children that bear his ancestral name.
He gains a prayer warrior.
He gains a listening ear to all his life problems.
He gains someone to brainstorm and plans his future with.
He gains someone to help him raise his children.
He gains a “home”

Even if you insist children are a woman’s gain...they still bear the man’s name, if they become someone in the future, nobody would remember their mothers surname.

I can go on and on...

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 3:32pm On Mar 31
Freestainworld:
your Logic's doesn't make any sense, since sex is cheap, go and start sleeping with prostitutes so you can be happy, as for children, I don't expect you to get married not to talk of having babies so you won't be in financial slavery since you are Island, if they hadn't given birth to you, would you have been here reasoning like a toddler.
U startd greatly , bt ended poorly.
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by isthatso: 3:33pm On Mar 31
Kestolove:
all those men supporting d op are loosers who don't have the means to get marry so they tend to discourage those that want to marry...May God count us among those that will marry

"means to marry" aka finances........ and that at the end of the day is the be all and end all of Nigerian marraiges.


if a man has money he will have peace, if he doesnt he wont.......whether he is married or not. it is not marraige that brings peace to a man but money!! Modern marraige only has benefits for the woman and the children.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by galax1: 3:33pm On Mar 31
How many homes have u seen this ,it's one in a million homes and very few women,I think u critically need to read on d valid points made by the poster ,that's because so many women have turned men to general producer of all expenses even in this hard time ,no helping or assistance to the man.The bible intended for a woman to be a helper
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by deeva2: 3:33pm On Mar 31
HE WHO FINDS A WIFE, FOUND A GOOD THING AND OBTAIN FAVOUR FROM THE LORD...OUR TRADITION AND RELIGEONS SUPPORTS MARRIAGE..ITS NOW YOUR CHOICE
Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by michaelpop50: 3:35pm On Mar 31
maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

More money from where?

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by emorse(m): 3:35pm On Mar 31
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER
Such homes are the exceptions ma'am. Not the norm. I'm sure if most homes become like that, it's the women that'll be asking the question the op asked.

Anyways, I'm only reading comments as I pass by.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by isthatso: 3:37pm On Mar 31
maureensylvia:
Alot
More money only if you have a good wife and there are not many around
Better sex wrong
Good health only if you have money and a good wife and they are scarce these days
Less depression very wrong
Should I continue? please do


Meanwhile read my signature

if you analyse the whole situation, a man's happiness in life is down to being in good standing financially, not down to being married. No matter how "good" a woman is (and those are scarce) you will see hell if you are not financially buoyant. If you are financially bouyant, you will get all the benefitss of marraige without the aggro because no Nigerian woman will leave a man who is financially bouyant even if you have 2 or 3 women!!!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 3:37pm On Mar 31
gudvibz:
Truth be told same can be asked of some women. I mean if u truly are honest you'll see that there are homes where women are the financial backbone yet you don't hear them crying or screaming for the world to hear.

I have seen homes where the men where just figure heads ,the women do everything yet the man takes the glory and they aren't dead.WHAT DO U SUPPOSE THE WOMAN IS GAINING FROM SUCH OGA POSTER
Lies... They whole world will knw it if the woman becums the breadwinner. She is likely turn the children against. U CN ONLY GIVE INSTANCE WHERE WE CNT REACH.

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by SmartPolician: 3:37pm On Mar 31
toprealman:

OP are you from a broken home maybe a polygamous family?

Answer his questions

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by richie240: 3:39pm On Mar 31
aroundtheearth:
With the right woman: lots.
I concur but......ever tried finding a pin in a hay stack?
cool

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 3:39pm On Mar 31
Freestainworld:
Maybe your mother vomited you from the mouth, idiot
I HATE IT WEN PEOPLE AREN'T CONSTRUCTIVE. HE ASKD A SIMPLE QUESTION WHILE U ARE HERE TALKING ANOTHER THING

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by igbosoupkitchen(f): 3:39pm On Mar 31
Escabado:
If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000

If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery

If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.

Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.

Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men



So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .

If you married a bad wife and this is your situation,or you are a product of the type of marriage you have stated please let us know ,,then modify the topic to be about you rather than generalize.That way we can sympathise with you .

What you give is what you get, you may need to check yourself and be a better husband or child so that your situation can change for better

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 3:41pm On Mar 31
Cerebrocrust:
Everything.




Don't you guys have work to do?


Just come online to talk about women. Seriously appalling
WE ARE HERE TO LEARN. U CN STILL PROVE HIM WRONG

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by DEMZEE(m): 3:42pm On Mar 31
Cutehector:
He who marries a good woman obtains favour from the lord.


Men who are wailing married bad wives. Sorry

There's nothing like a good woman

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 3:42pm On Mar 31
maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature

Rubbish!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 3:43pm On Mar 31
Nicoddemus:
If you want to want to marry make sure you're marrying a helper. Sound it like trumpet into her ear until she understands. If she can't get it my brother jakpa. A woman that can't help financially, intellectually is useless

200% correct!!!!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by Akuruoulo(m): 3:43pm On Mar 31
maureensylvia:
Alot
More money
Better sex
Good health
Less depression
Should I continue?


Meanwhile read my signature
U even made more sense more than those ones talking trash

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by ibedun: 3:44pm On Mar 31
Youngmoney21:
Unlimited subscription to unmetered Kpekus

You are heading for poverty!

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Re: What Does A Man Stand To Gain In Marriage by yeman1(m): 3:44pm On Mar 31
I enjoyed my marriage for one year when we just married. Then my mother in law came to visit, then things changed. As I'm telling u now, marriage is nothing to me. I cook myself, wash my clothes myself, doing house chores myself, even fuvckin set,, she go dey deprived me . Sometimes two months nothing nothing... So tell me .. na like this I go dey look till I die ?

I bought everything full for house , food and drinks and other miscellaneous.

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