Kate06:


Man. Most people are happy they found such loyal and honest people and just because of 100k, you can't turn yourself loose & act like a kid.

It has been destined it will happen this way, so let it be and do not disturb the old man and his wife pls.

I want to tell you something today, just pretend as if nothing happen and sow that as a seed, believe me, your next project will be *10 of what you sow. Its working for me because I am also a freelancer.

I have made over #1.2m in 3 months from 2d animations and Website developing. For the custom website development, i am not a pro in that cos it needed coding, so I outsourced at #150, 000.

So, if you are that good, lemme have your contact so if i have my next website development project, i will let you know.

I do give to people as am led to and its unconditionally. Sometimes, when am in a restaurant or grocery, people come to ask for favors and I give. I do see God bless me more after such gestures.

So, leave it that way. Atleast, you can still manage till another income comes in and next time, use your siblings acct instead.

For the 100k, count it as a pride price for your gf.

Sixfeetbelle:


You make it sound like they purposely spent money they didn't know the source but I think you're looking at this issue from only one view. Let me give you other views.

1) If the alert came in form of SMS, it wouldn't state clearly who the money is from. Same way, if the money is from someone and they're expecting money from someone, it's easier to mistake the two. It doesn't matter how much they spent it or that they spent it even. My dad calls me sometimes to handle his transactions for him. That's what pensioners are like. They don't crosscheck bank transactions as critically as younger generations do.

2) The mistake of the transfer is from you and you only and you need to understand that before throwing blame on other people. You took the account number yourself. You sent the money yourself, and though you claim you didn't verify the beneficiary, I find this rather hard to believe. My app verifies names before you can send money. Always. But I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Since the negligence came from you, now imagine if the money had entered into a stranger's account, what would have been your line of action? Harrass them for a mistake you made or beg that they return the money? Get angry and distrustful at the person for a mistake you made or pray and be hopeful they send the money back? The reason you're acting this way is because you know the person the money went to, so you're flexing muscles and calling them distrustful and lacking in integrity.


I would have advised you on what to do, but I think I should leave my advise for your girlfriend and her family instead. She should find a way to pay you back your money and then end things with you. Save her family's integrity from an arrogant man. People like you are very condencending in real life and she'd be a fool to continue anything with you.

Esthered:
Dear OP, please exercise patience with them. You don't initiate Transactions without verification of beneficiary before inputting your PIN. If by Tuesday, no show from them, visit your bank and complain of erroneous transfer.
Please be careful next time, you're lucky it's someone you know. If it weren't, it may have been difficult as recall of funds no dey easy.
If I were in the shoes of your babe, I'll try to raise the money and save them the shame. Why is she putting it on them?
It happened I agree but in their situation, they need the money. I'll look for ways to raise and repay you. It's her fault so she should take responsibility.
You are also indulging her. I pray that she doesn't give you the account number of a stranger next time.
What if the dad was deceased and the account has a deceased freeze on it, would you be disappointed in the family?
This should even let you know the kind of woman you have and the extent she'll take responsibility for her acts than leave you to go haywire blaming the wrong people and having issues in the future.

iskalamong:

Another angle.
I love the way you introduced a new perspective into the narrative.
Nice logical reasoning from you!

I am impressed!

Iskalamong!

grossintel:
So one of my clients wanted to transfer 100k to me for a subsc 40k and ssomething I can dash anyone right now.

FashionCapital:

I sent you a mail sir.please check

grossintel:
Okay, I'll respond.

grossintel:
Okay, I'll respond.

FashionCapital:


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