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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 9:53pm On Apr 05
pansophist:
There should be an option G, which is that at the heat of the moment, tell my wife to go inside the room, so I can have a conversation with my mum first. Afterwards, see my wife later to hear her own part. When things are calm, bring them together and iron things out. Simple.

Lol...I will think about it
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by fattprince(m): 5:06am On Apr 06
UwaMmebii:
Hmmm my mum first before any other person oh, u can call me mummy boy but I don't care! I can kill for her sake, if u cross her lane u don sign ur death waranth be that.
I didn't say this oh. I only said I wouldn't put my wife over my mum. They curse me pass 1 thousand times. Including mummy's boy but I still no care. Mum over anything.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 1:08pm On Apr 06
fattprince:

I didn't say this oh. I only said I wouldn't put my wife over my mum. They curse me pass 1 thousand times. Including mummy's boy but I still no care. Mum over anything.

Your choice.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by sanyablaze(m): 7:58pm On Apr 07
Lol
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Heathrow44: 8:03pm On Apr 07
Scenario 1. Answer B
share the answer to every1 for expo

Scenario 2. Answer B
Share the answer to every1 for expo


I would rather be a daddy or mommy's boy by siding them, then be a fool by siding a manipulative animal, any woman that comes into my life should know very well that my family comes first! B4 her if u don't like that, geerrra outta way ok! Any woman that comes into my life and her first tactics is to divide and rule, create infightings among a peaceful family is simply asking for war and she would see herself off the door!
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 8:08pm On Apr 07
omaclarry:
my first statement will be 'everybody go to ur house, we go talk later'
grin

Street is Military.. Na Una be the recruits...
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Duplexxx: 8:12pm On Apr 07
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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by demmymoney(m): 8:16pm On Apr 07
D AND E
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by frozen70(f): 8:19pm On Apr 07
onlyfacts:
Tough one.

I'll rather be the Judge.

I will also like her to be the judge too in my case.

Nobody is above mistake.

If you make mistake as a husband apologise to your inlaws, no need to drag your wife's loyalty to you into it.

Same thing as a wife, if you make mistake towards your inlaws, apologise for it, no need to drag your husband's loyalty to you into it.



My view though.











You have said it all
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Prime1(m): 8:19pm On Apr 07
At first, will cool them down and resolve the issue, make everyone have peace but if the situation comes up again, na to become vilian be that oo. that way, everybody go get sense.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Casham: 8:19pm On Apr 07
I will only sit down and listen to both so I can give them a fair hearing in the presence of the other (so no one feels cheated or misunderstood). Then I silently walk away without a word. I will come back later to meet each of them separately to point out their faults in the dispute. I will never tell you what I think of the other person's argument. Done that many times before and it worked every time.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by nenyeRitta(f): 8:21pm On Apr 07
dont marry atall
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Juliearth(f): 8:21pm On Apr 07
Divide and conquer! Isolate both parties and privately call off their bluff or commend them. Afterwards bring the erring parties together and call for a ceasfire.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Taiwo20(m): 8:25pm On Apr 07
Since you have been informed ahead.

Get home, eat your food and go to sleep.

Don't let people add to your stress

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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by stevonth: 8:25pm On Apr 07
i and my wife are currently having a very very huge misunderstanding that has threatened our marriage of 6years with two beautiful kids. not withstanding, there was an act she displayed that marveled me alot. I and her mom got into a huge quarrel ( she has done something against my wish and i was not happy ). So i angrily left the house and i vow not to comeback that day cos i thought my wife connived with her mom to disobey me. So i was at this junction with my friend gisting and immediately my wife sighted me, she quickly came to were i was standing and hugged me. So i dismissed my friend and we walked home together and as we were walking i told her what has happened at home and how i suspected she had a hand in it too. She began begging me for forgiveness that she wasnt aware of her mother's act. She assured me that she will get to the root of the matter and i said nothing. when we got home, i went to our room but she stayed in the sitting room to confront her mom about her actions. Mehn! the way she scolded her mom got me amazed and after that she came to me and gently with little persuasion asked me to apologize to her as well for some wrong words i used on her. i did not refuse oooooo! She handled the situation well enough....

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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by jaxxy(m): 8:28pm On Apr 07
I am unapologetically option F.

I don’t like stress or bullshit. Don’t care who u are ooo. Lol
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by McSquishi(f): 8:37pm On Apr 07
needanswer:
Tough questions about relationships, can you answer it. The rules are simple. Whatever options you picked in scenario one, you must pick in scenario two, you can't switch, so are you ready?


Scenario 1

Let's imagine you are married to a woman you love. You get along fine with her and your family. One day in your absence she gets into a verbal exchange with your mother while you are at work.

She calls to inform you before you return so you can have her back cause you are her husband. So as you get home, you wife is outside to welcome you and lead you inside, your mom is waiting for you patiently in the living room, as soon as you walk in she begins to call out your wife in your presence while your wife nudges at you to confront her on her behalf, what will you do?

(A) confront your mom and defend your wife as a lover boy?

(B) side with your mom as a mommy's boy?

(C) become the CONFUSED FELLOW and try to BEG EVERYONE like you were the cause of the fight and be seen as a weak man?

(D) rebuke everyone including your mother and wife and become the NEW VILLAIN as the disrespectful man?

(E) Ignore everyone and be termed disrespectful and insensitive, as the heartless man?

(F) Try to know who is wrong in the situation and BLAME THAT PARTY ALONE, and be seen as A JUDGE and not a CARING SON or LOVING HUSBAND?


Scenario 2.

You have been married to your husband, who has been such a blessing. One day you go to the market and before you can come back your husband calls you on the phone and started complaining bitterly about the heated argument he and your father just had at your back and that it is still on going. You quickly rush home. At the door your husband is waiting for you, in the dining room your dad is waiting for you also. And as soon as you walk in with your husband he begins to tackle him again in your presence, while your husband nudges at you to confront him on his behalf, what will you do?

(A)confront your dad and defend your husband as a lover girl?

(B) side with your dad as a daddy's girl?

(C) become the CONFUSED FELLOW and try to BEG EVERYONE like you were the cause of the fight?

(D) rebuke everyone including your dad and husband and become the NEW VILLAIN?

(E) Ignore everyone and be termed disrespectful and insensitive?

(F) Try to know who is wrong in the situation and BLAME THAT PARTY ALONE, even if it's your husband or father?

Seun
Rocktation

F. mostly but mixed with B. and some A.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Cutehector(m): 8:38pm On Apr 07
Will go into my room, lock my door and sleep. Mchew.

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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by skillsinnigeria: 8:41pm On Apr 07
Foolish thread
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by IAMPEDRO: 8:48pm On Apr 07
needanswer:
Tough questions about relationships, can you answer it. The rules are simple. Whatever options you picked in scenario one, you must pick in scenario two, you can't switch, so are you ready?


Scenario 1

Let's imagine you are married to a woman you love. You get along fine with her and your family. One day in your absence she gets into a verbal exchange with your mother while you are at work.

She calls to inform you before you return so you can have her back cause you are her husband. So as you get home, you wife is outside to welcome you and lead you inside, your mom is waiting for you patiently in the living room, as soon as you walk in she begins to call out your wife in your presence while your wife nudges at you to confront her on her behalf, what will you do?

(A) confront your mom and defend your wife as a lover boy?

(B) side with your mom as a mommy's boy?

(C) become the CONFUSED FELLOW and try to BEG EVERYONE like you were the cause of the fight and be seen as a weak man?

(D) rebuke everyone including your mother and wife and become the NEW VILLAIN as the disrespectful man?

(E) Ignore everyone and be termed disrespectful and insensitive, as the heartless man?

(F) Try to know who is wrong in the situation and BLAME THAT PARTY ALONE, and be seen as A JUDGE and not a CARING SON or LOVING HUSBAND?


Scenario 2.

You have been married to your husband, who has been such a blessing. One day you go to the market and before you can come back your husband calls you on the phone and started complaining bitterly about the heated argument he and your father just had at your back and that it is still on going. You quickly rush home. At the door your husband is waiting for you, in the dining room your dad is waiting for you also. And as soon as you walk in with your husband he begins to tackle him again in your presence, while your husband nudges at you to confront him on his behalf, what will you do?

(A)confront your dad and defend your husband as a lover girl?

(B) side with your dad as a daddy's girl?

(C) become the CONFUSED FELLOW and try to BEG EVERYONE like you were the cause of the fight?

(D) rebuke everyone including your dad and husband and become the NEW VILLAIN?

(E) Ignore everyone and be termed disrespectful and insensitive?

(F) Try to know who is wrong in the situation and BLAME THAT PARTY ALONE, even if it's your husband or father?

Seun
Rocktation
C.
meanwhile I will still call them separately to know who was wrong, then from there we iron things as one big family.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by loadedvibes: 8:50pm On Apr 07
Scenario two very nonsensical.. why will I as a man be arguing with my father in-law wetin even bring the arguement self.. scenario one.. I would just settle the matter choose no sides.

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Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Melonny(m): 8:53pm On Apr 07
Scenario 1.. I will definitely support my mom. She will go to her husband's house the next day.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Famousdex1: 8:54pm On Apr 07
Nothing is by force leave
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Adesamogun(m): 9:01pm On Apr 07
I will 1st go and shower since am just coming back. Order for my food and just come and form say my Tommy dey pain me. Hospital, Hospital, Hospital. When I reach hospital I go liase with doctor say I want bed rest. And he help me tell both of them. I go need like 200 million to fly abroad for resting to see therapist that I will be fine. Make he no sha mention any sickness. Once both of them hear the money. U guess they will start talking to each other on another matter. After 3 days I go return home. Cased closed. Maybe dem go come dey cry Yeye cry cone meet me
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by HENRY940: 9:29pm On Apr 07
if you get that kind of call, you start to settle wife and mum from work, not take sides.

Who wrote this immature script
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by Newboss(m): 9:32pm On Apr 07
Ignore them both. They are grown adults. Let them fight. Women fight all the time
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by needanswer: 9:40pm On Apr 07
McSquishi:


F. mostly but mixed with B. and some A.

Only you FBA... cheesy
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by McSquishi(f): 10:10pm On Apr 07
needanswer:


Only you FBA... cheesy



what do you mean? lol
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by 2special(m): 10:15pm On Apr 07
UwaMmebii:
Hmmm my mum first before any other person oh, u can call me mummy boy but I don't care! I can kill for her sake, if u cross her lane u don sign ur death waranth be that.
Re: Tough Relationship Issues, Can You Answer? [images] by jclassiq(m): 10:58pm On Apr 07
For me as a man, I suppose option D seems to be the only logical thing to do. Rebuke them and get them to shut up, then we can talk about it when everyone is calm.

I hope I made sense grin grin

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