MYHUBBY:



date older lady for once, you won't want to fall in love with all this disguise olosho calling themselves your gf



all these ladies that their pussy had been cut to the back

chatinent:
No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.

kenzysmith:
Marrying a woman older than u us the most wisest thing a man can do they ten to be experience, wise they can build a man from nothing to something most great men today are married to their agemate or women older than them. U see those ones from 23 down world if u are a man marry to those ones u signing your death warrant prayer wise no, financial support no, brain wise no, cheating 100% lying 100% nagging 100% blood suckers 100%

Kingrefreshed:


Oga we are talking about in Marriage. It's forever and ever!

Not a hit and run affair.

whippersnapper:
I like dem older. because when I'm old and i can't perform again my wife will not go and cheat on you. na the future person go think of. Ever wondered why macron married his secondary school teacher

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

englishmart:
Work on your self-esteem, bro.

yassinattah:

Baba don conclude say him go clock 90 b4 him die.
What a suit sayer

BigBashiru:


young girls are younger, hotter and more attractive sexually. I want a young hot girl that's hot even if she has a few behavioral flaws that aren't deal breakers.... than marrying an old hag with sagging books and all I hv to deal with is liabilities.....

Ammishaddai:
There is nothing wrong with marrying a woman who is older than yourself so long as you both are in-love and in agreement

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

CursedNsukka:

Looks like you're still a teenager, marry someone you're 20 years older than so u can die out and she will will blow your wealth while been fvcked by a younger dude

Viicfuntop:



I don’t see them as unsmart. Like he said up there, it’s perspective. I just find it weird when I hear Nigerian men’s preference for “babies”. Only in Nigeria you will see a 36 year old man dating a 20 year old. Personally, I can’t date someone that is more than 3 years older.

englishmart:
It's neither about right nor wrong. It's about perspective.

#bantilosha

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

LutanFyah:
What is wrong in a man dating an adult?

chatinent:
No.


If she lied to me and I discover it after marriage, I'll divorce.


It's fornication to me.

Habeyy:


I wanna say u are somewhat right on this

To share some thoughts with you

My experience and exposure in life has thought me some lessons ..bitter/sweet I must say

What I thought I like,loved or good for me in my younger years wasn't really what I should be chasing then
In essence,my thoughts at 25 even after university wasn't the same now
Failed relationship,no clear path and largely undecided about life
My best relationship then compared to what i have now can at best be described as draining,misplaced priorities

Older girls or agemates have experienced life
The truth is some have experienced failures and moved and learned from it..they never want to fail again

As oppose to some young girls of nowadays that thinks dating yahoo boy is an occupation and having iPhone 12 is equivalent to first class honours

Date a girl who's path to life is not yet define at your peril

May we not regret our choices