englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

What's special abt greencard

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DzMUM2xgfqM

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I thought I could till early dis year.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

your opinion, your choice. When love and compatibility is there, age doesn’t matter.

Why nt, if her kpekus is still juicy.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

Looks like you're still a teenager, marry someone you're 20 years older than so u can die out and she will will blow your wealth while been fvcked by a younger dude

Everyday woman matter, na wa ooo

y not? as far as the kpenkus is still tight and watering not forgeting the full carataristics of a wife material......





I meeeuuuvvveee

I like dem older. because when I'm old and i can't perform again my wife will not go and cheat on me. na the future person go think of. Ever wondered why macron married his secondary school teacher

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

Calm down na
Your response and reaction to the Op question, makes it looks like you already married to someone older than you, probably you regretting it or frustrated naturally this morning. Op said what’s your perspectives towards the question, this shouldn’t pass a Yes or No as answer.

Be calming down ooooo, ans for me It’s a no for me I can date but can’t marry a lady older than me.

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

Hahahaha confused people everywhere �

. Me wey don set age limit for woman wey i wan marry between 20 - 25. women becomes more troublesome as they grow older. So I will enjoy the smoothness for sometime

So the woman you married younger won't she grow old too. So if she grows old you will marry a much younger wif?. Except you are Alafin of OYO or you are rich to marry someone younger, once you are old forget it Mr.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

u mean 20yrs older than her den

From experience I will advice no sensible man to do that in Nigeria.... I'm a living withness .

Nothing wrong with marrying a lady that is older than me as far as she allows us to work as friends and not as my elder sister...and she possesses good qualities and values

When its time for me to marry, I plan on marrying an older lady. All dem older women I've dated were wonderful and super caring. I don't see myself marrying no young girl. An again, I like dem Latino and imma be marrying one.

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

Yap....but 5 years is the max, any higher, am pretty sure my parents go complain.But remember, when u love someone, all their imperfections will seem perfect in ur eyes.........Age is just a number sha as dey say.....Also any girl under 22, seems like a little kid to me

MrSamsung:
Nigerian men that act and think this way(like you) are unsmart and foolish.

I bet you, you are like one of those in thier 30's that is dating a girl in her teens or 20's and undergraduate.

Probably even being the one sponsoring her schooling, while she is yet not matured, fvcking and enjoying her fellow young men for free, old men for money, thereafter she will retired not just to herself but to you--- her old mumu . Worst case scenario: she might not even marry you at the end of the day. Money, investment and time wasted.
Even if such a girl will still be with you at this time, her career path is not yet defined. Non independent financially. Do you know what that entails?


OR let say you as a man meet your age mate who is matured, graduate or not, but one who's career or business or handwork is defined, has overcome her youthful exuberance, experience, etc. but you refuse to marry her, rather going after a girl below or far below your age who doesn't possess any of the aforementioned qualities.
After you will come to Nairaland fp asking what women have to offer or bring to the table
My question to you is what do you really want

You didn't make any sense. While not all young girls are like that but from your submission, you also trying to say marrying an older lady is akin to marrying a retired olosho, since she must have done all those things you are accusing the younger ladies of doing. There are young girls that are working and focused and ready to start a family so if that is his choice then good. There are also older ladies that can't boast of any sense of responsibility and are not fit to be a wife. So it's not about age but individual tendencies.

If the emotions between you two are strong, then I see no reason why you should not marry her. Age is just a number.


What you need is a successor and nothing else.

As long as my wife has given me a successor, a male, and a female, I am okay.

Miminana:
When its time for me to marry, I plan on marrying an older lady. All dem older women I've dated were wonderful and super caring. I don't see myself marrying no young girl. An again, I like dem Latino and imma be marrying one.

They are caring lol?? It won’t be the same when you married to them, don’t fall for it

Sure, my lady is older

E get one wey I dey follow chat/video call for California
I fit Marry am if possible

englishmart:
There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha

Baba don conclude say him go clock 90 b4 him die.
What a suit sayer

Trophy wife.
Nah

no. an older woman is spiritual aberration. it means you re destroyed. your soul is in sheol but you are still walking. the walking dead. you no see french president with older wife ? now the guy dey collect slap everywhere he go lol

I did married someone older than me, trust me she will try to be the boss and you have to put your fit on the ground. You need to be at the forefront yur heart should be in the boot so you can plan ahead. Any loopholes will be your fault, success will be her glory.
Life it's friendly but please be smart

With all the positive comments I'm seeing on Front page, so who are those who call older women "evening newspaper" on his forum?

No