Righteousness2:


So without the Fasting program, you and "Your Lady" Engage in Immorality and Fornication!

Going to Church 24hrs and 7 days a week does not Make u Heaven Bound.
Sowing or Giving your cash to the Church does not make you a child of GOD.
A Sinner is not a Christian and a Christian is not a Sinner!

The both of you are not Serious!
You Both Need a Genuie relationship with JESUS

Big bro, have you (by chance) read the "The Greatest Controversy?"

Connected1:
But I do give her and the worst part is that she thinks she's right for that. I have been there and back, I wasted more on these churches before realizing my mistakes.

I'm happy ur realized ur mistakes..church and pastors na scam and my religious people will learn d hard way..na matter of time

she is forking her pastor . not obsessed with church .

1)To be a Christian is one thing and to be a child of God is another thing.

2)Your gf may sleep in church, attend all church programs that can make her a "CHRISTIAN" but not a child of God.


3) It not everywhere people gather with singing, drum set, dancing and an organizer aka pastor that is a church.

My thoughts, my view.

Are you still thinking of marrying her? Me I no dey for that kin rough play oo

@Connected1

I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.




She loves Jesus more than you. Don't lead her to hell.

Connected1:

Ok Bro
You are experienced, I will need to this your advice on the positive side, we aren't even thinking of break-up. I noticed she even gets annoyed when I talk about what she did.

She gets annoyed because you are trying to correct her on a spiritual issue. People don’t like to be told they are wrong especially when it comes to ideology or religion. They would defend their stance/doctrine vehemently, with even more vigour than they would defend a helpless person in danger.

When someone criticises your spiritual beliefs the resulting emotion is just like twice the anger you feel when someone criticises your political opinions or cultural beliefs.

Na to find common ground. As long as she is not offending you directly or affecting your bank account. If you can live with it, let her be.

mmadu4:
she is forking her pastor . not obsessed with church .

She's not a Lesbian, say what you know.

fineberry:
1)To be a Christian is one thing and to be a child of God is another thing.

2)Your gf may sleep in church, attend all church programs that can make her a "CHRISTIAN" but not a child of God.


3) It not everywhere people gather with singing, drum set, dancing and an organizer aka pastor that is a church.

My thoughts, my view.

To be Christ like (Christian) and to be a child of God are same thing, some are just mere followers.

AfroKnight:

Yes, when she asked I buy her a bottle of plastic coke and suya last night and I told her to go to her church where she had building shares that they would give her there.
To my surprise she began crying and started heading home, it took me series of begging before she could calm down.
I now believe that women are often devoid of logical reasoning.

Vision101:
@Connected1

I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.




She loves Jesus more than you. Don't lead her to hell.

So you mean someone went there and back, then he told you there was hell.
Where are you from?

Connected1:
Yes, when she asked I buy her a bottle of plastic coke and suya last night and I told her to go to her church where she had building shares that they would give her there.
To my surprise she began crying and started heading home, it took me series of begging before she could calm down.
I now believe that women are often devoid of logical reasoning.

You said that? Chai! You are not a preacher of love.

Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

Bola146:


God bless you! You said my mind Most of his type are plenty here, I call them kids

Hmmm... Bola tosin, take it easy, besides everybody is not good at all area, he may be a good f*cker!

Connected1:
Just keep quiet please, I am as young as she is, and the money I asked of her is the 10k I gave her to keep for me because I was having financial losses, so i requested she kept it for me, each time I asked her, she will tell me she has used it.
I kept mute most times,.now she received her monthly salary and when I asked her for money, she then told me that she has nothing before finally telling me what happened.

She's not your partner. Get sense

Connected1:

Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.

Because you're not her spouse and not entitled to any. The same way you're not entitled to her money.

SweetCunt97:
She's not your partner. Get sense

You can do well by saying something that's related to what you quoted.

You want her to be obsessed with your dick?

aroundtheearth:
Because you're not her spouse and not entitled to any. The same way you're not entitled to her money.

Then you supposedly meant I should get all of it since I am not her spouse, for the money part she used mine, I did nothing then I asked her for support when she received her salary, then she said she had nothing. She's hasn't been fair, but I am less bothered about that, my main problem now is that she took the money to the church and it's a waste already. they are full time scammers.

Anfield247:

Hmmm... Bola tosin, take it easy, besides everybody is not good at all area, he may be a good f*cker!

You are more stupid than that 'Bola146', I ignored because she's a woman and I understand they have enough tendency to be illogical, but look at you.

Connected1:
[s]Then you supposedly meant I should get all of it since I am not her spouse, for the money part she used mine, I did nothing then I asked her for support when she received her salary, then she said she had nothing. She's hasn't been fair, but I am less bothered about that, my main problem now is that she took the money to the church and it's a waste already. they are full time scammers[/s].

Because you're not her spouse and not entitled to any. The same way you're not entitled to her money.

phemy36:
Nigerian females should be avoided by all means

I don't support that, even Ghanian ladies and Latinas have their own problems, I just want her to be considerate.

Connected1:
Then you supposedly meant I should get all of it since I am not her spouse, for the money part she used mine, I did nothing then I asked her for support when she received her salary, then she said she had nothing. She's hasn't been fair, but I am less bothered about that, my main problem now is that she took the money to the church and it's a waste already. they are full time scammers.

I'm not sure what you are looking for here. You know exactly who she is. She values her church, will continue donating money to them, and listening to their advice. If you have issues with her contributions or the advice the church gives, please let her go early. If you're not happy that she is unable to repay your money too, please let her go. Everyone should work to find another person that fits their values, or be sure they can handle it otherwise. You are not married and you don't have kids; life is not this hard.

Connected1:
You are more stupid than that 'Bola146', I ignored because she's a woman and I understand they have enough tendency to be illogical, but look at you.

You are a black sheep to your entire family!

averageguy:


I'm not sure what you are looking for here. You know exactly who she is. She values her church, will continue donating money to them, and listening to their advice. If you have issues with her contributions or the advice the church gives, please let her go early. If you're not happy that she is unable to repay your money too, please let her go. Everyone should work to find another person that fits their values, or be sure they can handle it otherwise. You are not married and you don't have kids; life is not this hard.

Ok Bro.
I will weigh my options properly.

Connected1:
You are more stupid than that 'Bola146', I ignored because she's a woman and I understand they have enough tendency to be illogical, but look at you.

I don't argue with kids and lazy ass like you!!!!

Qatar2022:

Are you done talking trash ? Sometimes I wonder if someone like you reason from anus, so a man can't be financially down sometime in his life and ask his partner for a support? Which will pay back later

I cover my anus with the blood of Jesus. You are even worse that the op, why you go dey reason another man anus .

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Raysleek:
You no dey shame, after asking a girl you haven't married to help you, you still come and expose yourself online. Girl that you will leave immediately you get another higher paying girlfriend. If you can't afford 7k for your own needs, you have no business getting married. Stop using marriage to deceive young girls.

Chai you nailed it

Connected1:
I have been having financial difficulties in the last two months due to some failed Investments and scams.
My girlfriend whom I asked for assistance, literally said she had nothing but she went to sow a seed of 7k at her useless church, they initially asked members to bring 100k and she wanted to volunteer but owning to the fact she doesn't even have half that amount, she left that part and went ahead to give her pastor a whole 7k.
Recently she said her pastor told the women in the church not to have anything intimate with their spouses till the end of their two weeks fastings and prayers, for a week now, no kisses and intimate touches for me.
Aside the fact that I hate the church business venture, I cannot tell her not to go to church, I am so confused right now, I don't want to act irrational else she might do more and won't let me know.
My fear is what if I marry her someday, I can't cope with this foolish attitude, I need your guidance please.

It's a surefire sign that she is dumb.... Dump her

ictjobber:




It's a surefire sign that she is dumb.... Dump her

Bro those words are too harsh, please you aren't in an ICT Centre. I am not planning to leave her, her attributes outnumbers her flaws.