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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by femysmart01: 1:46pm On Apr 26
Oh she be the one bringing it up.

Mustiboy:
She was broke one time and agreed to send her nudes to one Nigerian in Canada. It was even video.

From the chat, the man had been begging her to send him nudes for over 3 months. But, all of a sudden one night, she messaged the man herself and said she was ready. The man paid her 20k.

I'm the one who deflowered this girl, and she's a really good girl. But what I saw shocked me. I never believed my girl could do such . We've been together for 3 years.

I only checked her phone out of curiousity. My girl is not the type that waka upandany, so i trusted her very much. She's a really good girl. But what I saw that she send her nudes, i want die.

I confronted her, and she was crying, saying she couldn't have asked me for the money she needed and that she was desperate. That's why she did it.


I forgave her sha, and she kept bringing up the issue for months, asking me to still forgive her and know that she's not that kind of girl.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Kingcalls: 1:54pm On Apr 26
maasoap:


Someone who is already cheating, how can snooping prevent it again? My point here is that you didn't get the gist, it is to enable you know who you're dealing with, not to prevent them to be who they are.

What I'm saying is that whether u snoop or u dont snoop , it wud surely b revealed someday...sometimes what u see might not b what it looks like .... u might end a good relationship thru a misunderstanding of what u saw on ur partners phone ... my cousin checked thru her partners phone and misunderstood what she saw , ended the relationship...she regrets it now cos he married someone else and he was such a good guy to her ..... when u truly love ur partner, u wudnt snoop cos u wudnt want to see something that could end the relationship... snooping is a very stupid thing to do... only insecure people and obsessive people do that...they are the type that kill, thats y I will end it once u try it with me
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Amanee(f): 2:29pm On Apr 26
It ended in tears grin grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:31pm On Apr 26
I've never checked anyone's phone. I don't think it's a good idea checking someone's phone. I will only do that when I want to find a reason to break up with the person.
Cos it's either you end the relationship after checking nof you will become so sad and the relationship will start suffering. Some peot who don't even have the balls to confront their partners after checking their phones will still check.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:33pm On Apr 26
Kingcalls:


What I'm saying is that whether u snoop or u dont snoop , it wud surely b revealed someday...sometimes what u see might not b what it looks like .... u might end a good relationship thru a misunderstanding of what u saw on ur partners phone ... my cousin checked thru her partners phone and misunderstood what she saw , ended the relationship...she regrets it now cos he married someone else and he was such a good guy to her ..... when u truly love ur partner, u wudnt snoop cos u wudnt want to see something that could end the relationship... snooping is a very stupid thing to do... only insecure people and obsessive people do that...they are the type that kill, thats y I will end it once u try it with me
Very stupid thing o. And the relationship doesn't ever remain the same after snooping.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by JONSYN7154(m): 2:34pm On Apr 26
MISSCONGENIALITY:
I've never checked anyone's phone. I don't think it's a good idea checking someone's phone. I will only do that when I want to find a reason to break up with the person.
Cos it's either you end the relationship after checking nof you will become so sad and the relationship will start suffering. Some peot who don't even have the balls to confront their partners after checking their phones will still check.
OK o
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by frankells(m): 2:37pm On Apr 26
Earth shaking discoveries that ended in tears

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 2:38pm On Apr 26
Goldenfinger:
kissare you guys still together

Yes, we are.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:40pm On Apr 26
JONSYN7154:
OK o
Whats okay?
What do you think about the topic. Have you checked your partner's phone before?
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 2:41pm On Apr 26
femysmart01:
Oh she be the one bringing it up.


Yes, she brought it up many times and wanted to be sure that I had forgiven and forgotten.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Mustiboy(m): 2:49pm On Apr 26
frankells:
Earth shaking discoveries that ended in tears

cheesy grin grin grin grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by JONSYN7154(m): 2:50pm On Apr 26
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Whats okay?
What do you think about the topic. Have you checked your partner's phone before?
I don't do that. its childish behavior
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Ajalekoko76(m): 3:00pm On Apr 26
Check for what?

What you don't see, don't irritate you

Wise up. Humans are dynamic.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by laughitall(m): 3:01pm On Apr 26
paulolee:
I don't do such n dnt expect her to check mine...bcoz d last time I tried it. I swore never to make such a mistake again in my life...
found out dt she was brushing an old man dt she called her deacon in church d worst was dt I once gave her 10k to sow seed in d life of dt same deacon after she told me d man asked abt me n they do pray for whenever she visits..
leta went tru her chats when I asked to mk call with her fone n found out dt d old man was her sugar daddy wey don even broke bcoz him bin lose e job n na she even de help d man life based on say d man promise to link her up with him soft cousin for u.k wen e return..
chaaaai, me wey de form street boi naim one smally run real street dt year.....stella na tunder go continue dey fire u anywhere u dey..
Stella .. that name .. smh
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Samunosuke(m): 3:16pm On Apr 26
Only heartbreak.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MrMacinterchi1(m): 3:23pm On Apr 26
Frales6:
when I checked his own I cried and when he checked my own he cried too. so do me I do you God no go vex
why are both of you crying nah? since non of you are clean.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Rockyrascal(m): 3:23pm On Apr 26
If you both just started dating, If you both are not married yet. boys, if she's an under 23 girl don't bother going through her phone or chats.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by charlesucheh(m): 3:28pm On Apr 26
maasoap:


You don't want to leave some things to chance until it is too late. Gbas gbos while dating is better than gbas gbos in marriage. Discovering that you have married an olosho won't be funny, and they hardly quit.
like I use to say, I can't put all my brains on one woman till she becomes my wife. you have no right over any lady till you tie that knot. and if after that, you discover she is still unfaithful, there are loads of civilized ways of calling it off... e.g divorce, separation etc.

If you gbas gbos on my sister while you both are still playing boyfriend and girl friend, hmmmmm. only sango will tell how your full body just vanished from the surface of this planet.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:36pm On Apr 26
JONSYN7154:
I don't do that. its childish behavior
Once your relationship of marriage gets to the stage where you snoop on each other's phones, just now there is fire on the mountain.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by JONSYN7154(m): 3:37pm On Apr 26
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Once your relationship of marriage gets to the stage where you snoop on each other's phones, just now there is fire on the mountain.
its heading to a brick wall at UDI. grin
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:39pm On Apr 26
JONSYN7154:
its heading to a brick wall at UDI. grin
LOL. You are not serious
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by uthlaw(m): 3:51pm On Apr 26
seanwilliam:
Me I no Dey bother to check jare. She would be like make I check her Facebook. And. I will be like babe “ I trust you “ grin
I’ll be like wetin konsign me
me too, i can't even love any woman and I can't date only 1 girl,so if u like de Bleep around,if me self tire,I go move around!
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by uthlaw(m): 3:58pm On Apr 26
Amuluonyenaego:
yet to recover from the one I did this morning, though noting wanting but out rightly denying that she's still single maybe to keep her chats with the Indian guys going.
one tell anoda guy that I'm her brother in my presence,I no shake because I de Bleep her steady....if I tire,I go japa!
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Aarenasbaba(m): 3:59pm On Apr 26
maasoap:


What they sent to you of course.
Hahahahaha complete nude orisirisi....I first wan use strong head but I later apologize ni ooooo
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by uthlaw(m): 4:00pm On Apr 26
pellummy:
Biko, please nah God I take beg you... If you love her big time don't check, the last time I checked her fb messages... I sweat �.... Don't please don't check her messages, else you won't even trust your own shadows
you love her n can't check her phone because she is cheating, definitely she no love u in return....move to the next available girl!
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Frales6(f): 4:13pm On Apr 26
MrMacinterchi1:

why are post of your crying nah since non of you are clean.

Because human being is selfish in nature. you keep your own meat go dey chop person own, you no know say as you hide am comot another person go find am begin chop am.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by SmellingAnus(m): 4:31pm On Apr 26
Ishilove:
No experience. His phone is heavily passworded and I can't be bothered about checking because the trust is there.
Is this is a joke or what? heavily passworded but the trust is still there?
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Amuluonyenaego: 4:47pm On Apr 26
maasoap:

I don't want to be confused here, you meant your wife?
yes my brother
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by crackhaus: 5:01pm On Apr 26
Odunharry:

The craziest thing is the privacy talk. Their phone is private but they are free to browse through each other private parts at anytime..

I always advice people to check.
It's a MUST.

Even check her call logs if possible...
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by SmellingAnus(m): 5:11pm On Apr 26
CalabarPikin:
Hmmmm




I never believed anything can break my heart until I saw her chat with another guy....guess what....na me on hotspots for her....guess again...na my phone she the take snap send give them....hmmm....another guess, the hair she made before taking the pix....na me giver her money....na my bed she dey take the pix....... embarassed embarassed


I no wan go back memory lane....let me end there so far
You mean she use your phone take snap nudes for your bed take send to another man? Lol
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by The5DME(m): 5:14pm On Apr 26
[quote author=Ishilove post=101132671]No experience. His phone is heavily passworded and I can't be bothered about checking because the trust is there. [/quote]

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