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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Knelystl: 5:16pm On Apr 26
shocked
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by CalabarPikin: 5:17pm On Apr 26
SmellingAnus:
You mean she use your phone take snap nudes for your bed take send to another man? Lol

Fear women
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maiquel: 5:26pm On Apr 26
She checked my WhatsApp and after a day, we broke up. This was a Thursday I think.


By Monday, we were back again, after some assurance.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by SmellingAnus(m): 5:26pm On Apr 26
CalabarPikin:


Fear women
I already know them���� like I talk before... even the woman I go marry, I no go expect her to dey faithful to me... lol

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 5:29pm On Apr 26
crackhaus:

It's a MUST.

Even check her call logs if possible...
I'm telling you. Even though people are now in the habit of deleting and clearing chats not to get caught, one day na one day.

The funniest thing I see people do is Passwording their gallery and call log.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by CalabarPikin: 5:31pm On Apr 26
SmellingAnus:
I already know them���� like I talk before... even the woman I go marry, I no go expect her to dey faithful to me... lol


Hehehe


I swear down....na d sure way be that..

Trust no woman
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by princewarri1985: 5:32pm On Apr 26
Here is my story......my fiancee buys her pants in pairs and i complained and she said why would she wear different colours of pants when am the only one seeing it, and i agreed with her......secondly i travelled to ghana and spent 3 months and i came back and found out she is bushy down below she refused to shave and i complained and she said she refused to shave because i was not around and because i was the only one seeing it, and i believed her.....I DECIDED TO SEARCH HER PHONE WHILE SHE WAS ASLEEP AND I FOUNDS NUDES SHE SENT TO ANOTHER GUY AND THAT WAS THE END OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. bottom line guys dont check your wife or girlfriend phone if you dont want to die young or develop BP
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunayaw(m): 5:39pm On Apr 26
CaptainStephen:
Nothing and I don't know why people make a big deal of this.
grin Fear of khaki husby will not allow her do anyhow Oga sir
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by crackhaus: 5:46pm On Apr 26
Odunharry:

I'm telling you. Even though people are now in the habit of deleting and clearing chats not to get caught, one day na one day.

The funniest thing I see people do is Passwording their gallery and call log.
Na evil doers them na...

I can't be comfortable with a woman who has passwords (that I don't know) on her mobile devices.
I'm curious by nature, so putting locks on the phone will naturally make me eager to know why.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Richthekid: 5:49pm On Apr 26
War
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Victoria938(f): 5:51pm On Apr 26
I have, with an ex that I didn't trust. That's how I found out he was cheating on me.

I did so with my current partner once or twice, but I've gotten over my insecurities about him since then. I trust him.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunharry(m): 5:52pm On Apr 26
crackhaus:

Na evil doers them na...

I can't be comfortable with a woman who has passwords (that I don't know) on her mobile devices.
I'm curious by nature, so putting locks on the phone will naturally make me eager to know why.
True that locks will arouse one curiosity. I even see people who scream "Don't Touch my phone" as not serious.
I can't trust you if you quickly lock your phone bfre dropping it while going to bath or cook or something.

I know people who have been saved frm serious heartbreak and deceit by going through their partners phone and finding the truth.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by crackhaus: 5:59pm On Apr 26
princewarri1985:
Here is my story......my fiancee buys her pants in pairs and i complained and she said why would she wear different colours of pants when am the only one seeing it, and i agreed with her......secondly i travelled to ghana and spent 3 months and i came back and found out she is bushy down below she refused to shave and i complained and she said she refused to shave because i was not around and because i was the only one seeing it, and i believed her.....I DECIDED TO SEARCH HER PHONE WHILE SHE WAS ASLEEP AND I FOUNDS NUDES SHE SENT TO ANOTHER GUY AND THAT WAS THE END OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. bottom line guys dont check your wife or girlfriend phone if you dont want to die young or develop BP
So after discovering she sent nudes when you went through her phone, your bottom line now is that people should NOT go through their partner's phones eh?

I don't get the logic.

Perhaps you prefer to delay having BP... cos las las, if you had not checked, the nudes will still be there and she still sent it to someone – it changes absolutely nothing except the time she will spend taking you for a fool.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Ishilove: 6:02pm On Apr 26
SmellingAnus:
Is this is a joke or what? heavily passworded but the trust is still there?
Yes, the trust is there gidigba. I can always ask him for it and he will give me, but I choose not to. Let the heavy passwords remain
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Chimeluv(f): 6:05pm On Apr 26
I never did and will i never do it undecided
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by crackhaus: 6:06pm On Apr 26
Odunharry:

True that locks will arouse one curiosity. I even see people who scream "Don't Touch my phone" as not serious.
I can't trust you if you quickly lock your phone bfre dropping it while going to bath or cook or something.

I know people who have been saved frm serious heartbreak and deceit by going through their partners phone and finding the truth.
People like that are simply not ready for commitment. They are still playing the field.

I just realized that I have not checked her phones in a very long time, and this is probably because I know the passwords.
If I didn't know them, I definitely would be very curious to know what's happening there.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Slimsly100(f): 6:51pm On Apr 26
Well I don't check his phone and I don't think I will.
I nor get chance for that kind thing abeg.
I love my peace of mind
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by pocohantas(f): 7:31pm On Apr 26
Ishilove:
No experience. His phone is heavily passworded and I can't be bothered about checking because the trust is there.

Heavily for that matter? Wahala be like bicycle. I have never bothered too. Totally not my style.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Ishilove: 8:12pm On Apr 26
pocohantas:


Heavily for that matter? Wahala be like bicycle. I have never bothered too. Totally not my style.
My dear sister. This life is as complicated as we want it to be. Abeg we no get power for drama
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Ishilove: 8:14pm On Apr 26
CalabarPikin:
Hmmmm




I never believed anything can break my heart until I saw her chat with another guy....guess what....na me on hotspots for her....guess again...na my phone she the take snap send give them....hmmm....another guess, the hair she made before taking the pix....na me giver her money....na my bed she dey take the pix....... embarassed embarassed


I no wan go back memory lane....let me end there so far
Either the girl is unusually and uncommonly dumb, or this story is as fake as Tontoh Dike's buttocks
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by RichParker(m): 8:16pm On Apr 26
It's awful. It makes you paranoid.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by CaptainStephen(m): 9:15pm On Apr 26
Odunayaw:
grin Fear of khaki husby will not allow her do anyhow Oga sir
lol, my wife na iron woman o
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by SmellingAnus(m): 9:33pm On Apr 26
Ishilove:

Yes, the trust is there gidigba. I can always ask him for it and he will give me, but I choose not to. Let the heavy passwords remain
Anyway, as long as it has been working well for you, congratulations dear... keep to it...

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Odunayaw(m): 9:34pm On Apr 26
CaptainStephen:
lol, my wife na iron woman o
Ah! Iron sharpens Iron
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Entayali(m): 9:41pm On Apr 26
Eriokanmi:
This early Monday morning, OP get sense. Men like you don't rake in millions this morning from their legit business already. You dey here dey talk women mata. You and mod who pushed this are the same
You're lucky I didn't see this early... Na frustration from poverty dey worry you. Mtcheeeeeew shift jooor
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 9:59pm On Apr 26
Amuluonyenaego:

yes my brother
That's very serious and delicate.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 10:08pm On Apr 26
charlesucheh:
like I use to say, I can't put all my brains on one woman till she becomes my wife. you have no right over any lady till you tie that knot. and if after that, you discover she is still unfaithful, there are loads of civilized ways of calling it off... e.g divorce, separation etc.

If you gbas gbos on my sister while you both are still playing boyfriend and girl friend, hmmmmm. only sango will tell how your full body just vanished from the surface of this planet.

Not a wise decision in my opinion. Why would I choose the hard painful way when I could just ended the relationship before going too deep. Cost of divorce, separation is not a child's play, many things will be at stake by then, that includes the child/children
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by maasoap(m): 10:13pm On Apr 26
Kingcalls:


What I'm saying is that whether u snoop or u dont snoop , it wud surely b revealed someday...sometimes what u see might not b what it looks like .... u might end a good relationship thru a misunderstanding of what u saw on ur partners phone ... my cousin checked thru her partners phone and misunderstood what she saw , ended the relationship...she regrets it now cos he married someone else and he was such a good guy to her ..... when u truly love ur partner, u wudnt snoop cos u wudnt want to see something that could end the relationship... snooping is a very stupid thing to do... only insecure people and obsessive people do that...they are the type that kill, thats y I will end it once u try it with me

May be the word "snooping" here is the problem, let's try another angle so that we can be clear on our stand. If I can't touch my fiancée's phone or always password it around me, then she's not to be trusted. The same thing goes for men.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Kooldame: 10:15pm On Apr 26
As for me I don't check my Hubby's phone oo because d phone won't even be available but If I suspect any faul play especially when he is always glue to d phone omo once in a while I go scatter ground,by so doing his brain will reset again.

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Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by CaptainStephen(m): 10:37pm On Apr 26
Odunayaw:
Ah! Iron sharpens Iron
Not so, I am actually the jovial and playful person.
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by Benwallt(m): 10:38pm On Apr 26
The last time I checked babe's phone, it fell from my hand and the screen cracked. I gently put it back with a heart as heavy as atlas stone. Relationship dead right there. Up till today she still asks what went wrong. I never said a word. Just leave girls phone please, there is no way you won't see something incriminating except you are a simp
Re: What Is Your Experience Checking Your Partner's Phone? by tosaino95(m): 10:43pm On Apr 26
Mustiboy:
a Nigerian man in Canada.
It was very stupid act.

I could have given her the money if she needed it that badly. But she's not this type of girl who demands. That's her problem. She likes pushing things herself
Una dey cry competition grin

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