Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

jmoore:

Sexy things indeed!!

You want to cook food without tasting it. That's the height of self deception.

Smh

donbachi:
And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.

zabimaru:


nothing like worthiness, Na Road? who issues the certificate? If you talk about religion, I can understand, but not worthiness!

annro101:
Please anyone in lagos can assist me with accommodation or have any salon I can work for now . A friend invited me to lagos we agreed on accommodation and the rest. I have wasted my money. Now Nothing comes out since I came here. I have been feeding him and his girlfriend. Please try and help a brother. I'm a humblest person you won't regret knowing

Afolashade00:




That's simply interesting. Time will tell!
If you truly belong to this school of though, I commend you!

NewDawn2O21:
hi is your mailbox active?

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

Pearlla:
Break up once again,

Rocktation:
There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

Rocktation:
There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

Rocktation:
There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

Ixua:

I swear, ask the guy to send the money to the orphanage if you want to know how generous and stingy he is.
Don't ask him for anything, not even an office pin. Wait until he marries you before you starts billing him.

Rosement:
Anyway, the both of us are not broke, we exchange gifts on special occasions. I use to prepare food and take it down to his office to surprise him.
I am in a healthy relationship, we treat each other with respect but the problem is we agreed to wait till our wedding night but now he is suggesting that we start having MouthAction.
Perhaps, he does not understand that I'm not trying to keep my hymen intact, I take fornication as a sin

Ixua:


Just listen to yourself. You usually take food to his office to surprise him.
I hope that it is the same food that you usually demand from him.
You ladies think you are very smart. But I thank God that there guys who are countering you people.
Most ladies usually give cheap things like boxers, singlet, food etc to guys but demand expensive things like iphone, diamond ring etc. from them.
That is how a lady I was not even attracted to was busy telling me that she considers me as a friend. Brought food to my house one day. I told her straight up that I don't appreciate ladies except my sister and mother, giving me food because it comes with either a trick or a hidden obligation. Na so I collect the food, thank am since she had already brought the food. Then I come pour am for our waste bin.
Food? That is what you are offering me, after that you would come and ask me for iPhone.
Me where done bench my elder sister, then come dey compete with my mama in cooking things.
Babe, if you don't want to have sex.
Don't be in a relationship, don't ask a guy for as much as a pin.

INCREDIBLE007:
stick to your status quo

don't yield to to pressure

virginity might have been rubbished under various guise in today's world but GOD honours it
sex is meant for marriage

Posotome:
If she is not sleeping with you , i mean if she is not fxcking you 24/7


then she is fxcking another man and you are a simp


FORGET ABOUT VIRGINS, MY GRANDMA TOO ONCE WAS A VIRGIN, HOLY MARY TOO WAS A VIRGIN

Romanoff:


If your reason for keeping yourself is to honour God, God will lead a godly man to you who Loves Him enough to love and wait till you're married.

You shouldn't bring topics like this to Nairaland, all you'll find are hungry Lions looking for new recruits and whom to devour.

MisterKennedy:


Hi Pearl