After fighting with my girl just now she said she'll always put herself so I told her okay no problem if that's what she want, like few minutes she said she want to buy something that's like after talking to me anyhow, I told her my bank is having issues but I'll ask my friend to send it.
I told her to wait for few minutes but my friend delayed then I used my other bank to transfer the money to her, then she told me don't worry and I was like why what happened she said someone helped her already, I said okay, who's the person then her response was what's my business.
I won't lie it really pain me so much like so so much I'll call myself a fool for loving this much but I don't want more fight but to tell her okay no problem.
This girl is someone I'll do anything even borrow money just to give her but i don't know why it's always like this. She can do something big but this one she did just now this minute was really bad and harsh, my problem is I don't know how to get over her and m this kind of person I talk to her more often like a day I call her many times so have been like this for years.even when she'll insult me I always say sorry just to avoid more troubles and her word is I talk too much just because I love talking to her all the time. I really don't know what to do because it's making me depressed the more like if I could get over her and just breakup it would be easy,finding a therapy is what i really need because it's affecting my mental health, I forget things easily I can't even remember things properly I don't know if too much love will make girl behave like this or less love will make them leave because m really tired of been treated like a nobody.
After sending the money she said I shouldn't worry she'll transfer it back to me that someone helped her.

I think you need a chain instead before you enter market.

GFICECOLD:
After fighting with my girl just now she said she'll always put herself so I told her okay no problem if that's what she want, like few minutes she said she want to buy something that's like after talking to me anyhow, I told her my bank is having issues but I'll ask my friend to send it.
I told her to wait for few minutes but my friend delayed then I used my other bank to transfer the money to her, then she told me don't worry and I was like why what happened she said someone helped her already, I said okay, who's the person then her response was what's my business.
I won't lie it really pain me so much like so so much I'll call myself a fool for loving this much but I don't want more fight but to tell her okay no problem.
This girl is someone I'll do anything even borrow money just to give her but i don't know why it's always like this. She can do something big but this one she did just now this minute was really bad and harsh, my problem is I don't know how to get over her and m this kind of person I talk to her more often like a day I call her many times so have been like this for years.even when she'll insult me I always say sorry just to avoid more troubles and her word is I talk too much just because I love talking to her all the time. I really don't know what to do because it's making me depressed the more like if I could get over her and just breakup it would be easy,finding a therapy is what i really need because it's affecting my mental health, I forget things easily I can't even remember things properly I don't know if too much love will make girl behave like this or less love will make them leave because m really tired of been treated like a nobody.
After sending the money she said I shouldn't worry she'll transfer it back to me that someone helped her.

Your woman loves you and you love her. Don't read meaning into anything and small fights like this are normal. Keep being mature and reminding her that you're not going anywhere. Focus on making good money so you can settle down with her

Love still dey shack this one

Please kindly be a man and move on, why would your girl tell you that you talk too much just cos you talk to her everyday... if you don't talk to her everyday now she will be thinking u don't love her, now you talk to her everyday na another insult.

I trust myself sha....

Your woman should appreciate your love,and give u some level of respect,if u are not deriving any of this in the relationship,u better think twice.Peace of mind is the key.it seems she is only after money.

SanctifiedSista:


Your woman loves you and you love her. Don't read meaning into anything and small fights like this are normal. Keep being mature and reminding her that you're not going anywhere. Focus on making good money so you can settle down with her

OP run o.

You are gradually sliding into depression. It seems some of you don’t know women can make you depress

I think we have to kidnap some guys and force the redpill down their throat.

@op your babe get someone disturbing her and she is thinking of falling for the person but you are holding her back or something. Let her be, if she is yours ,she will definitely marry if not ....

Before I can advise you I need to know if you don nack the girl

another Nairaland psychiatric patient unleashed..

someone up there suggested forcefully injecting the redpill on some sim.ps