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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by emmanuel596(m): 3:15pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Please try by all means to locate apostle Arome osayi or apostle Joshua selman they will help you they are genuine men of God may God be with you

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by AreaFada2: 3:15pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.
Good day and sorry for the situation. Many will tell you what you want to hear and it might comfort you. But fact is, it runs in the family. Try to find out if it affected your maternal relatives from earlier generations.

Get a good psychiatric treatment. In developing countries the poor care system and stigma makes people not to face the reality of mental health issues.

Medication is not the only help they will need. Other forms of support must be given.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by sammirano: 3:16pm On May 08, 2021
OP. you said you used to see your Mother mad, Pls clarify.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Yankee101: 3:16pm On May 08, 2021
A psychiatrist hospital is the solution. They might have to be on medication for a long time or for life.

I guess it's hereditary through your mother's side. Please don't give up. If no early treatment they may permanently begin to roam and rave mad.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Nuelphil: 3:16pm On May 08, 2021
You need to act fast on this one.. Seek a prayerful pastor you can't do this alone. I suspect your dad is hiding something from you guys, sit him down and have a proper discussion with him, I don't know a sane man that would stay quiet while his sons run mad one after another . May God intervene in your family, this is so sad.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by joyandfaith: 3:17pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Your mum was mad , elder and younger brother had similar mental illness. It is genetic . Schizophrenia runs in family.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by emmanuel596(m): 3:17pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:

I watched him on youtube those nights that I did midnight prayer for my brother.

How do I book appointment to see him?
Does he have a branch in Anambra?

I have hAve his phone number send me a mail

Henrysimplicity90@gmail.com
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by djon78(m): 3:17pm On May 08, 2021
Muyiwaipere:
Bros face reality ...saying you want to go and meet a pastor ..honestly you’re just deceiving yourself
Nobody is freeman in this world we all must fave a tribulation or the other ...now you know your problem...what helped your elder brother?medication abi...so just follow that way

If you go church ...they will chop your money and you will regret the decision at the end
Bros Mo miracle anywhere o

I pray the peace of God that surpasses all understanding be with you (Philippians 4 versus 6)



No miracle anywhere
And you are still quoting the Bible
Very very contradicting

The mad man of gedaras that Jesus casted legions of demons from him into a herd of swine
It was also medication about

Unbelief don build castle for your head
And you will still be quoting the Bible
It's more of hypocrisy

You should not be quoting the Bible because your statement shows that you don't believe God or his word

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by JackStephans(m): 3:17pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:

I watched him on youtube those nights that I did midnight prayer for my brother.

How do I book appointment to see him?
Does he have a branch in Anambra?
OP do this...
Koinonia doesn't have a branch in Anambra yet, but if u can make it to Abuja, they hold services every Sunday..

Dunamis holds healing and deliverance program every tuesday too.. Pls come down if u can, you'd be happy u did... Wish you and ur family well
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by pman06(m): 3:18pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:

I know it is.
I just want solution.
It won't happen to me by the grace of God.

Take them to any branch of mfm close to you for deliverance. Many have been healed through deliverance.
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by obowunmi(m): 3:19pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Schizophrenia is hereditary not spiritual.
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by DIVINEEVIDENCE: 3:19pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:

I have asked questions.
My mom became mad as she got pregnant with my younger brother.
By then, my Dad said he took her to several places and was told that it was ogbanje. My mom is very beautiful and hardworking.
Her family joined in the solution.
She became okay after she put to bed.
Then they decided not to have more kids.
My mom's shop is in main market onitsha, after a few years, the madness returned and her shop was closed down. By then, we had grown a little and so everyone concentrated on us, giving us a life.
I remember that my mom leaves house every morning and will trek to main market and hang around there and return by evening.
This she did daily.
She was not violent. She was usually by herself.
Her brothers usually came to see her.
My Dad took care of her grooming.
Until few years back when she suddenly stopped going to market and stayed indoors for like a week.
Then one night, my Dad said she called him as they were sleeping and said to him that we will be fine.
Then they slept off and she didn't wake up in the morning.

Omg your Dad must be a very calm, patient man.

Whatever you do, run away from traditional healers.
You don't want a problem bigger than the one you're facing.

If you do visit a church, once they mention money or strange items for prayers or deliverance please find your way.
Pastorpreneurs are no different from witch-doctors.

I'll make research for both spiritual and orthodox solutions and get back to you. It's a promise.

Biko don't let depressing thoughts or the shame of neighborhood talks bother you.
Your type is rare.
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by bcomputer101: 3:19pm On May 08, 2021
Please visit T.B Joshua church
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Cruziero75: 3:19pm On May 08, 2021
Kobicove:
OP there is nothing spiritual here, it's hereditary undecided
Madness as hereditary, what!

Biology did not teach me that. I can relate physical and biological features as transferable. Or you are now telling me that MADNESS is coded in gene too undecided

Unless you referred to Schizophrenia as certified madness, in your own terms.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by toniyayo: 3:19pm On May 08, 2021
Sister i feel your pain. I suggest you come to Kano state. My pastor in the person of prophet Emmanuel Ameh, has healed so many cases of this kind. He is assessable and hoble. Don't worry about paying any fee, I assure you, your family and brothers will be delivered and safe . you can reach me on 08038078188 to discuss further
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by joefengzy(m): 3:20pm On May 08, 2021
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Amen.
08039393079
Call my line ill direct you on how yo get to agulu not too dar from awka.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by obinna58(m): 3:20pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.
You better realize God can't do shit and use medication. Don't let it get worse. Miracle might seem the easiest way for you but believe me it doesn't happen.

It's you help them or not.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Angy55(f): 3:20pm On May 08, 2021
aycorporat:
Honestly this brought tears to.my eyes...

Wake up every 1am in the middle of the night
Be ready for a spiritual battle

Get alligator pepper.
Take Psalm 146 for a start, read Psalm 51 for forgiveness of sins, then move into action.
Chew three seedlings of the alligator pepper and read Psalm 70 and declare what you want and not. Sanctify the environment with the blood of Jesus and fire on
Next read Psalm 121. Do it for three days and on the third day read Isaiah 60 verse 1 to the end.

God be with you

grin I have seen something.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by DWJOBScom(m): 3:20pm On May 08, 2021
Muyiwaipere:
Bros face reality ...saying you want to go and meet a pastor ..honestly you’re just deceiving yourself
Nobody is freeman in this world we all must fave a tribulation or the other ...now you know your problem...what helped your elder brother?medication abi...so just follow that way

If you go church ...they will chop your money and you will regret the decision at the end
Bros Mo miracle anywhere o

I pray the peace of God that surpasses all understanding be with you (Philippians 4 versus 6)

Well said
I am tired of people saying pastor this, pastor that
Medication wouldve helped him cos right now its becoming tough as his body is growing resistant of the drugs and a moment away from his drugs makes it tougher for him

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Kaypeeboss(m): 3:21pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.
Visit igala land
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by triplechoice(m): 3:21pm On May 08, 2021
Tobechuckwu:



Why I said u should go to Winners chapel or Canaan land, ota is bcuz there are so many testimonies of such. U can kindly reach out to any Pastor of Winners chapel nd get a mantle from the man of God, Bishop Oyedepo, Ur situation is just a small case in d hand of God.

If it is true that so mny mad people are being cured in winners chapel, everyone would know about it..

You don't need to lie to promote your church. Your church is not a psychiatric hospital and it is irresponsible to suggest that any mad person be taking there for healing.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by omoyeni37: 3:22pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:

Has your intelligence ever failed you?
Did you see me here all these years seeking for solution?
I went science way because I knew it's in the gene but then, I found that it's not the best because of the generations after and so I began to seek permanent solution.
Something must have triggered it because my mom's ancestors had no record of such.
So if it started along the line, something must have influenced it. This is why I'm out here looking for a fix. Not the kind of fix drugs do.
Something higher.


I'm intelligent my dear, but right now...I really do not know.
Please stop referring to your brothers as MAD, you can simply say schizophrenic

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Tintinnoty(m): 3:22pm On May 08, 2021
Am sorry to ask
What part of the country do you presently reside?

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by camronid(m): 3:22pm On May 08, 2021
Please come to the Fire altar of NSPPD from 7am to 8am (Monday to Friday). Follow Streamsofjoyinlt on Facebook or Pastor Jerry Eze on YouTube.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by SmithRussell(m): 3:22pm On May 08, 2021
fados4sure:

Can you bring them to Benin city? If yes, I would advise you take them to prayer line in Divine Grace of Glory Church on Tuesday and the rest will be testimony

You can search for the snr pastor phone number on Google or YouTube

They Lord is your strength
Oga, how are you sure that it’s spiritual? It might not be, and all the time she’d waste running from one church to the other will then not be productive as those pastors will deviate from the issues and start pointing out who’s the witch in her family.
That’s what they do. They’d make her hate her family members so she’d see them as her only family left,, that’s how they get direct access to her pocket.

God gave us medicine for a purpose, so when you leave it and start praying to God to heal you, I wonder the kind of response you seek.


Secondly, don’t be deceived by miracles they post online. I once went to a service where they did lip syncing, and senior pastor came out after the song to talk about the voice. Like wtf Either the pastor was deceived, not knowing that it’s fake auto tuned voice, or he was trying to deceive the audience,, either ways, it’s pure deceit from that church.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by jacoik(m): 3:24pm On May 08, 2021
slimjohn2k5:
Start looking for the source, there is a reason you have been spared.
Ask your mothers people questions and ask your dad questions.

If it is a course from any source like from the family you will know what to do. Forget those pastors they are hustling like you.

I once had a friend always complaining of stomach pain, they went to a spiritualist that removed spiritual bullets from his body. He is fine now.

I know you are a Christian but the source really matter.
you make sense my guy

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Yettyflower: 3:24pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.

Go to C&S ayoni

Those village people have bleeped up.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by DWJOBScom(m): 3:24pm On May 08, 2021
CandyOps:
It's like you want your brothers to go COMPLETELY MAD abi??

You already have proof that medications work to an extent on your younger brother abi? Which other solution do you seek alert from what works already??!

The moment you carry that man into a spiritual home is the moment his madness will go into gear 4.

And deep down inside you, you already know the source of the problem. IT IS HEREDITARY! A.K.A in your blood.

Hello!! You mean to say you went through school and the words 'genetics' never sunk into your head?!

....

You see religion and superstition is really killing African growth. How can a fully grown university educated man seek health solutions from any other place outside a health facility??

And before u start quoting me, just know I also have a cousin who is mentally unstable and suffers from schizophrenia too.

My neighbor had a burst vein in his head from High BP complications and his illiterate mom rushed him to a spiritual home where he went into coma during their spiritual razzmatazz.

Before her head correct it's too late. Nigga was DOA by the time they got to the hospital.

In fact, I believe any religious home that takes on the role of a healthcare provider should be sued and probably even shut down.

...

Here is how the scientific process works:

- You encounter a problem.
- You make guesses/assumptions to what the solution could be & ask questions to the cause of the prob.
- You make guesses using the answers you got. Called a hypothesis. This guess should be something testable. Meaning anyone can replicate the tests.
- Make a prediction from the answers you get
- Now you run some tests on that hypothesis (usually trial and errors while noting what works)
- You come up with more hypothesis
- You know what works to an extent (in your case, drugs) which leads you to making a clearer prediction.

- you test again till you come up with a theory of how to go about such issues in future...

....


Now, over the thousands of years mankind and modern humans have literally done almost all these testing for us and we only have to improve on it. But NO! Not an African man.

An African man will encounter a problem and instead of following the scientific step, he will immediately say to himself, "I need to talk to God about this" or worse, "it looks spiritual. I can't do anything about it if God doesn't do anything about it"

... And just in that moment, all the creative ideas and potential discoveries that could have been made will be cut short!

.....


You see, when we cry over the dangers of superstition in Africa and how it is underdeveloping us Christians and other religious folks will rather put the devil on you by calling Atheist or Apethists (people who don't care about deities) devil worshipers than see reasons with us.

I mean, just imagine what an adult who passed through the 4 walls of a classroom is saying. It's deeper than just getting school knowledge and I don't blame anyone because it is a result of hundreds of years of torture and slavery by the white people who brought on this scam called religion to us

(Don't mistake religion for spirituality or spiritism)

Africans pls plssss stop bowing to the ducking skies and learn to use your heads

The damaging effects of religion is not just found in our healthcare system. It's everywhere. Most especially in our minds. Slavery ducked us up real good. But then we keep ducking ourselves everyday by choosing to remain in the slavery

It's like what Kanye West said in an interview on TMZ that went viral. "400 years of slavery seemed like a choice"

Sorry I'm coming off as harsh but pls I beg you in the name of anything you believe in, DO NOT STEP ONE FOOT into ANY religious home. Well, except you want to dump your bro there for the worse.

And the funny thing is this:

When you let a super-religious person in on the TRUTH about their bullshit they'll always go through these stages:

1. Denial or Ridicule (they deny it or Ridicule it/you)

2. Rejection [they reject it entirely and will become violent towards the source of the information (you) ]

3. Acceptance (they finally begin to see reason)

Which explains why I don't like having a religious convo with anyone. I just listen and nod or zone you off.

And the reason is because I hate being the bearer of bad news. And I hate being at the receiving end of the 3 stages of accepting the truth I listed above.

It's also one of the reasons why the bearer of bad news in the olden days were usually put to death by the King.

Anyone who loses a loved one also passes through those 3 stages before accepting the truth.

First, you ridicule the info.
Then you react violent to oppose it.
Later, acceptance dwells in.

It also explains why most superstitious folks HATE atheist (or rather dispise the people/persons who first told them God don't exist)

And another reason is because it goes against everything you've ever known from birth. In other words, the person is saying you're stewpid.

And no one likes being stewpid
God bless you!!
I have nothing else to add

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Jen96: 3:26pm On May 08, 2021
Mrskillz1:
I am from a family of three. I have two brothers. One older and the other younger than me so I'm the only girl in my family.

I grew up seeing my Mom mad.
By my teen age, I got admission into Nnamdi Azikiwe University alongside my elder brother who was to study Engineering. By the time I was in my finals, my brother was getting ready for IT. One day, his roommate sent for me, he said they couldn't sleep the night before because my brother was talking to himself. Before we knew what was happening, my brother was getting violent and so we took him home and he never got back to finish school.
I proceeded with my education and finished. Went for NYSC. While serving the nation, My Mom died. When I got home, she'd been buried.
But my brother was still mad.

I later got job, took my brother to a Psychiatric hospital and the doctor after examining him said he is Schizophrenic. He was asked to stay in the hospital.
I paid. He then stayed there for one month. When I came to visit him, he pleaded with me to take him home that he didn't like it there.

So I took him home. Every month, I buy drugs for him and he gets injected. He usually puts up a fight but with the help of my younger brother, neighbors and a certain nurse, he receives the injection, forcefully and against his will.
Often times, he pleads with me not to inject him, the very time I obliged him, he scattered things, didn't allow the neighborhood sleep, talked throughout some nights and wouldn't eat sometimes. He looked really sick then but with the injection, one will hardly know he's not normal.
I told him that I won't let him miss his injection ever again.

Now, on Monday, my younger brother woke up and was unusually quiet. He normally wakes up and begins to play music with his phone or he will turn to football channel and watch until I leave for work. But I didn't go to work on Monday and I noticed he was quiet, then I asked him why he's quiet. He didn't respond. After some hours, I asked my Dad if he feels he's okay, My Dad said that he wants to be quiet and that I should let him be.

Then, that night, around 4am, my brother began to talk. He was shouting and some of the things he said were not coherent. He talked out of point. I and my Dad, with my elder brother surrounded him and I couldn't help crying when my Dad was cautioning him to keep quiet and he refused.
Neighbours thought it was my elder brother's voice they'd heard that night but by the time they heard in the morning that it was my younger brother, they visited my Dad in the evening. By then, my brother was still talking and even burnt his clothes yesterday.
My Dad got a few guys to chain him because he was violent yesterday when I left the house.
I know the problem is spiritual. I have prayed, fasted for my elder brother and now this!
I'm so unhappy.

Can someone suggest a place I can take my two brothers to so they can be cured, please.
Give me ur no , I will give u two pastors number. Where do u live?
Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Emmanuel909090: 3:26pm On May 08, 2021
Your dad is the true definition of what love truly is, in sickness and in health.

I will always remember your family in my prayers.

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Re: Help! My Younger Brother Is Going Mad by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 08, 2021
Romanoff:
Hmmmm.

It is indeed Spiritual o.

Stats your location so you can quickly get help.
You think mental problem is spiritual? This wouldn't be happening if he didn't skip his drugs.

To the OP, better get your brother on everyday doctor-recommended drugs.
I know someone whose situation could even be said to be worst than that of your brother but he currently works in an office, all thanks to everyday medication.

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