ImaIma1:


Me that will ask to split the bill. Let no one feel entitled to my body because they spent money on food.

Simple, this OP is just yarning dust. Nothing is free in life. There should be give aways in life but when sponsored by a foundation either friendship or love.

You expect someone to take you out just like that. Lols, OP is not leaving on earth.

advanceDNA:



Madam mindset...did I call u cheap??

What is being cheap in wanting to have sex..?

We are all humans..it’s simple biology...if u like a guy.. u’ll want him to suck ur b00bs and enter u...there’s no biggie..

But u women always like to use sex as leverage to say “i gave u my body” and u cheated on me...
What did I give u...a baseball bat??

okay this shit up dere is fuuucccking funny

Romanoff:
Ladies, when you go on dates, normalize paying for your own food and tickets, it removes the entitlement to your body.

If you choose to fornicate with him, it will be because you want to.

Peace.

Exactly!!

because those men are stupid

Yusufisraelj:


Simple, this OP is just yarning dust. Nothing is free in life. There should be give aways in life but when sponsored by a foundation either friendship or love.

You expect someone to take you out just like that. Lols, OP is not leaving on earth.

It doesn't mean that if a guy takes me out and spends, sex must follow. I didn't beg him to take me out in the first place. But if I know that is his intention, I would rather pay for my food.

For me then, if a guy gives me a gift or spends on me, I ask him there and then what I am paying back with. Let's know where we stand.

Yeah that is why you should also get your money ready to pay for the bills when you guys are going out on date. Shikena!

Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.


Please let's try to be responsible

you don't have a right to tell a guy what to do after spending on you. You either agree or disagree shikena, it's when he oversteps into harrsament that he can be faulted.

Is it today u know Nigeria men are one set of dumb, stupid, senseless abd foolish things... so because you bought rice for me, rice snd meat, means I should sleep with you? Plz , stop going out with poverty oriented men. Poverty stricken mentality. How does fofood, FOOD? Equates sex. If not because Nigeria is full of poor bastards

stanliwise:

Op what is this nonsense?
Are you trying to advice the guys or what?

The girl who used her two left leg to chop free rice and chicken with drinks is innocent abi? Abi you think she don’t know what’s up right?
It is the guys that is now not responsible?

See it is two of them that knows what they are doing. As much as there is no rape and both are adults, it is called transactional engagement. Sometimes it can go sour , sometimes/many times actually it goes smooth

But please stop this one sided advice to guys and leaving out the girls this year, I am even thinking you must be part of those girl looking for free rice

wtf guy lmao!

Is it today u know most Nigeria men are set of stupid, senseless, dumb and useless set of things. So because u bought her food, Food Means u must sleep with her? Unless u guys agreed on sex in exchange of food. Or maybe u carried a street beggar dat needs food in exchange of sex. Nigeria men eith their odd and backward mentality. To ladies, stop following poverty stricken men, their mentality womt change. They see FOOD as a big deal. What is Food? Dat u ve to see my unclothedness. BASTARDS

Why should a guy even think of sex in the first place because of a plate of food? Is dis how useless u ppl are?

Mftivi:
you don't have a right to tell a guy what to do after spending on you. You either agree or disagree shikena, it's when he oversteps into harrsament that he can be faulted.

God bless u!!! Say ur intentions... let me pay for my food and carry your bad luck self away. I should exchange my body because u bought food? Because I never chop gor my life b4?

ImaIma1:


It doesn't mean that if a guy takes me out and spends, sex must follow. I didn't beg him to take me out in the first place. But if I know that is his intention, I would rather pay for my food.

For me then, if a guy gives me a gift or spends on me, I ask him there and then what I am paying back with. Let's know where we stand.

Temigirl95:
Why should a guy even think of sex in the first place because of a plate of food? Is dis how useless u ppl are?

maybe if are useful enough to buy your ownself food you won't have to take the trouble to come here and litter tears! Werey.

Jeon:



WAHALA FOR WHO DO RELATIONSHIP DEAL WITH ANY BLACK SKIN HUMAN.

BLACKS ARE TOXICS AVOID EM"

The reason why a girl was murdered yesterday [because of a valueless relationship ]

You shouldn't attribute these things to race.

Is it not a date Why are u ppl so stupid Did the lady tell you she was hungry?

Mftivi:
maybe if are useful enough to buy your ownself food you won't have to take the trouble to come here and litter tears! Werey.

[so u ppl see food as a big deal to equate sex? There is POVERTY in the land!!quote author=Mftivi post=101588901] maybe if are useful enough to buy your ownself food you won't have to take the trouble to come here and litter tears! Werey.[/quote]

So u ppl see food as a means to equate sex?? Truly, there is poverty in the land.... Just tell us that you date hungry goes...nobody will beat u

Mftivi:
maybe if are useful enough to buy your ownself food you won't have to take the trouble to come here and litter tears! Werey.

Temigirl95:
Why should a guy even think of sex in the first place because of a plate of food? Is dis how useless u ppl are?

Another issue is that a person can be sexually attracted to someone that doesn't have similar feelings towards him or her.



How can such problem be overcome?

Temigirl95:
So u ppl see food as a means to equate sex?? Truly, there is poverty in the land.... Just tell us that you date hungry goes...nobody will beat u

lmaoo if e pain you cry more tears!

cosse:
okay this shit up dere is fuuucccking funny

That guy is saying the truth.

Why should it pain me? Do you want to take me to Canada for breakfast? Just tell us that you date hungry goes... Dats all... Sincerely, we will understand

Mftivi:
lmaoo if e pain you cry more tears!

And u cant open your mouth to tell her Omo mehn... no wonder the whites are more developed than us... so u cant tell her? Instead you use food as a trap? Food? How did I even enter dis country sef? How? Why A whole adult using food to lure a wonan??

HellVictorinho:



Another issue is that a person can be sexually attracted to someone that doesn't have similar feelings towards him or her.



How can such problem be overcome?

Temigirl95:
And u cant open your mouth to tell her Omo mehn... no wonder the whites are more developed than us... so u cant tell her? Instead you use food as a trap? Food? How did I even enter dis country sef? How? Why A whole adult using food to lure a wonan??

Who told you that I used food to do this or that??
Who told you that I have issues towards expressing my feelings?


Why are you like this
May your unnecessary assumptions not lead you to destruction!!!!!!!

ImaIma1:


It doesn't mean that if a guy takes me out and spends, sex must follow. I didn't beg him to take me out in the first place. But if I know that is his intention, I would rather pay for my food.

For me then, if a guy gives me a gift or spends on me, I ask him there and then what I am paying back with. Let's know where we stand.

Absolutely I agree with your first paragraph I've taken ladies out without ever calling them again just for the fun of making new friends and finding insights on topics of interest or just getting to know them and it's clear from the get go, plain friends nothing else. If I want something serious I equally state it, bkos I hate ambiguity.

Your second paragraph speaks to reality, and the OP posing ignorant of that fact beats my imagination.

advanceDNA:


I ddnt askfor sex in exchange for food...
we already want to fvck each other...and u know it...u are just pretending and don’t want to look cheap...I too don’t want it to look rude by asking you to come and sleep in my house the first day....

So we both used delay tactics...I call, u text me.
I take u out to make us free with each other..

After that...parole don set...

My nigga
Your game is top notch

I get pack of durex for house nah for

Jeon:


Go buy or call ur nigga.

Temigirl95:
God bless u!!! Say ur intentions... let me pay for my food and carry your bad luck self away. I should exchange my body because u bought food? Because I never chop gor my life b4?

It's the girls that act like food is their problem that I blame.

ImaIma1:


It's the girls that act like food is their problem that I blame.

Men are success objects
Women are sexual objects

Men are for production
Women are for reproduction

Know these and know peace

Psych412:
nature my foot.

Our fore father's never did this rubbish.

Don't bring nature into this.

Mumu! Were you with them?

Seriously, I blame them. Na see finish dey cause all dis...

ImaIma1:


It's the girls that act like food is their problem that I blame.

For Stupid ppl like u... dis is the best mentality u have. No wonder you are so backward.....women are for sexual objects? Same sex that God almighty made for everyone. Even animals have sex.

BLOODYSPERM:



Men are success objects
Women are sexual objects

Men are for production
Women are for reproduction

Know these and know peace