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Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by emmaodet: 7:46pm On May 17, 2021 |
akanbiaa: 3 months keeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!! That is a game over 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Babitee1(f): 8:02pm On May 17, 2021 |
dahmie2013:. You are right |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Blackdisciple(m): 8:05pm On May 17, 2021 |
I know plenty wey marry with 35k sef not to talk of 80k |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Highlyrespected(m): 8:07pm On May 17, 2021 |
Alot of advices up there @ O P Choose the one that suits you I come in peace! |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by sevenhundred(m): 8:33pm On May 17, 2021 |
jayboy112233:the minimum wage is 30000, yet most of the civil servant are married even in your Lagos and abuja, oga 80k is enough if you are interested in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Shollay20(m): 8:48pm On May 17, 2021 |
Marry if you wanna marry nothing will stop you in as much as you find right partner you are good to go. 80k is okay. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by abbey621(m): 8:53pm On May 17, 2021 |
Martinez39s: How much was your father's income when he had you? Imagine if he had waited 10 or 20 years later with the belief of saving more money. Human being speaking in the definitive yet we can't control 50% of the things that happens to us. Inheritance kor, debutant ni, children are owed three square meals, proper upbringing and education, anything after that is just extra. This is why the Asians despite their wealth would rather not leave anything to their children, their reasoning is simple, they've given them everything they need to be competitive in this world. A man earning 80k can definitely marry as long as he does his due diligence, marry someone that can be financially and morally supportive, use the little savings to add extra income per month and so on. Someone was making less than 60k 4 years ago is now making over 180k, I also know someone that was making over 200k 5 years ago reduced to someone making less than 90k, keep waiting for the perfect situation wa pe leti omi 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by hybridblood07(m): 8:56pm On May 17, 2021 |
Do you've any ideal of side hustle you can share beautyhd: |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by seyiojomu(m): 9:04pm On May 17, 2021 |
He cannot even live in Lagos single |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by abbey621(m): 9:07pm On May 17, 2021 |
OP - Can you guaranty tomorrow? Look at those saying it is not enough, can they say without a doubt that their 150k or 200k job will be there tomorrow? People are sacked everyday, people face unforseen hardships all the time, do not allow the fear of the unknown cause you to live a life of uncertainty. It is okay to marry, it is even okay to work towards having one child but be smart about it. Majority of the girls out there are leeches, the ones that can actually contribute financially are looking for someone making more money than them so pick a woman that is not only resourceful but content as well. Pick someone that is not only God fearing but comes from a well trained home, reason I say this is simple, even if you hit the jackpot and marry someone understanding, if she comes from a greedy home with lots of siblings, the demand and pressure on you will be too much. Be smart, lower your expectations and do not rush. You still have a good 2-3 years before anybody should be pressurizing you about marriage. Use this time wisely to think outside of the box, find a way to make extra 10-20k per month, it can come from work opportunities or using your knowledge to help someone out . I know someone that bought a land for very cheap price of 100k and started poultry and farming, guy has now seen back his initial investment times 10. Just an example of things this generation overlooks but are money making avenues for those who sabi....Relax, never ever panic! 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Liposure: 9:09pm On May 17, 2021 |
callme9mm:your brand of sarcasm is topnotch |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by MrJames007: 9:09pm On May 17, 2021 |
OP, go and get married if you're ready. What of those living comfortably well in their marriages with income lower than yours? Lagos na USA |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by EndRape2(f): 9:18pm On May 17, 2021 |
Yes please early marriage is good, very good, you can have your first child them wait , before having more , at least the first child will be growing. 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Liposure: 9:24pm On May 17, 2021 |
stanley000:kids that would later return to their mums |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by stanley000: 9:25pm On May 17, 2021 |
Liposure:and bear our name... 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by NovusHomo(m): 9:50pm On May 17, 2021 |
jayboy112233: Any man earning 80K Naira, living in Lagos and wanting to marry should have his balls removed and his brain reset. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by EjaikreTheViper(f): 9:56pm On May 17, 2021 |
solochris: GOD BLESS YOU! NA YOU TALK THE REAL THING 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by ogolad(m): 10:29pm On May 17, 2021 |
Yes, you can marry with that amount, but my sincere advise for you is that may sure you don't get married to a salary earner like you make sure ur woman is into business, it will help both of you. Wish you well brother 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by olanje: 10:31pm On May 17, 2021 |
[quote author=jidamsel43 post=101787545]my salary is less than #60000 monthly and I'm happily married in Lagos state. it depends on your managemental skills and moderation. I stay in Mini flat though in mainland with approximately #180000 rent yearly. I made sure that my wife is not a salary earner . I set her up in small lucrative business and she has been supportive with little she can afford . I never relent in my pursuit to get side businesses Though, there are many storms in our 3 years marriage journey . We never gave in to pressure and we are doing fine in our own right. My advice is that Nigeria is not a promising country that you will continue to postpone marriage. You may not get married until you reach 50 yrs Where in mainland will you get a miniflat of 180k ? |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by phazotron(m): 10:36pm On May 17, 2021 |
Skillsnigeria: E depend on the woman involved. As long as na hustling woman Wey Sabi say she must contribute, they can make a decent living in Lagos. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by giftiy(m): 10:37pm On May 17, 2021 |
jayboy112233:If you are sure that at the end of every month a salary must come, Just marry.how you will feed the family will be more of a miracle since you are not the lazy type wating to hit a million dollar job while refusing to start with the small salary job. Just get a good wife and enjoy Gods blessings. Am a Testimony bro 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by GABRIEL6036: 10:52pm On May 17, 2021 |
dahmie2013:Ororo dey your head... Nice one, that's why some guys will remain single till death come. How can you be thinking of having millions or get rich save you from marrying. Manage what you have and don't do pass your ability. Marry a matured woman who can give you a helping hand. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by jubrilELsudan: 11:18pm On May 17, 2021 |
IF YOU CAN FVCK WITH 80K THEN YOU CAN MARRY WITH 80K. 1 Like
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Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by youngest85(m): 11:38pm On May 17, 2021 |
Skillsnigeria:In fact,1 million likes for you 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Bukfun(m): 11:42pm On May 17, 2021 |
Yes & No. It's YES if (1) you are spiritually & emotionally ready. (2) Your wife to be believes in your vision (if you have one for ur marriage) & ur wife is ready to stay by you through the thick and thin. (3) You are willing & planning to grow ur revenues as you grow. I have seen people who married with less than 80k & today are far better than b4 their marriage. On the other side it's NO if you lack all of the 1.2.3 above. Marriage is not only about how much you earn or have at hand YOU & ur MAKER are the real determinants. All the best[color=#770077][/color] |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Nosa111(m): 7:48am On May 18, 2021 |
I wonder how you all plan to bring kids to this world to suffer. 80k bawo! Money when not reach for food stuff a month. Things are expensive bro jayboy112233: 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Femzaremz(m): 7:59am On May 18, 2021 |
Martinez39s:excellent bro! Ironically this habit can be found more with poor people than the rich! I currently work in a low paying company where d salary is less than 40k and some of my colleagues so called 'family men' always come to meet me for financial assistance!maybe because they know im single,i become a target!me dat im still struggling to make ends meet with such useless salary in dis harsh economy! Ive promised myself not to 'borrow' anybody anything again!if u like tell me ur child is about to die! Its not my business! Afterall i was not there when u were pumping ur wife up with series of children!in economics there is a term called cycle of poverty,this is it! 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by AmazingELixir: 8:07am On May 18, 2021 |
Op hmmm! Approximate Monthly expenses for 2 persons alone 1.Transportation to work N600 × 24 days = N14,400 2. Feeding 2person x N1000 x 30 days=N60 000 3. Electricity Bill, conservatively = N4,000 4. Household consumables + madam allowance = N10 000 5. Oga pocket money = N10,000 6. Papa & Mama stipend = N10,000 7. Miscellaneous expenses (medical, clothing etc) = N10,000 8. House rent = ? Op do you get the point...Reason carefully my brother. I personally give madam N100k monthly for feeding 3 persons and her allowance yet she complains its inadequate, meanwhile our security guys that earn N30k to N35k survives somehow but always lamenting on how hard life is for them and their household. I wish you luck 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 8:52am On May 18, 2021 |
Femzaremz:Don't mind them. Don't give them anything. Let them take responsibility for their actions. If one chooses to carry heavy financial burden, the burden is his alone and let him not inconvenience others with the burden. Funny enough, some of the people begging you are planning to add another child to their family despite their abject financial condition; some have wives that are already pregnant. In economics there is a term called cycle of poverty,this is it!Gbam! Some are even borrowing money to do their wedding. How can a man be ready for marriage if he has to borrow to do his wedding? Why do people like unnecessary suffering? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Angy55(f): 9:03am On May 18, 2021 |
Nonsky048: 50k abi? At some point I was earning 50k monthly as a spinster. It wasn't really enough. Accommodation plus utility bill alone was consuming the money alone because of the location and you are here advising somebody to go and get married. As I am here if I'm dating a guy who is earning that amount I won't advise him to settle down yet unless he has side hustle. If he is eager to marry me, we would agree not to have children yet till our income is balanced. Here is the thing, it's not because of us but for our children. The goal is to give them quality education. Even the Abuja you mentioned, which part of Abuja? Because I was in Abuja for 2 years. Or you want the guy to marry and start having kids in 1 room? Or you have forgotten that cost of living is getting high by the day. Them no dey rush enter oooo. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Gerrard59(m): 9:32am On May 18, 2021 |
zeeace: I really don't care about who are your family and friends but they spent a lot of years on the job to earn such in Nigeria's poorest region than someone in Lagos who can earn this as a grad trainee. |
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