So you go to a club, then you met one of your friends at the club, who happens to come with a girl he said was his cousin. Then the girl was starring and admiring you and took a picture of you, you wanted to get her contact and take the picture, but the brother blocked in. Later you where about to go, only to see her outside, then you took the opportunity and asked for her number and she called it out instantly. You where too high to call that night, so you called her in the morning, and told her it was you. She told you she was traveling and expecting a call and she will call you back or flash you. In the next 3 minutes the cousin brother called you, and warned you to stay off her cousin sister and never to call her line again. You as a man, flared and gave the guy your own serious warning.

Now let's assume you like this girl ofcourse, what is the best logical thing to do?


What will you do?, Do you think the brother is having affair with the sister?

Should you as the man call the girl back or let her go. Know that the brother is just a friend from work only.

Should you chat her on WhatsApp and ask why she gave the brother your number?

Respect the Bro-code bruh. Walk tf away
E get reason!

Let her go. E get why.

No bi only number the guy collect?


Free the local goldfish of a sister ojare.

Dolphins don finish for lagoon?



How do you guys even do this!

Didn't you saw the other thread where a lady was lamenting that guys these days are no longer persuasive? I can't be dealing with the protocols of chasing, and also be having friction with her supposed brother. Abi na only she be the girl wey de this life ?

The respectable, logical, and smart thing to do is to move on. The only strict exception is if the persuasion switches to her. Then she would be motivated to convince her "brother" of my suitability, and make the job easier. I'm not the one with the headache here, its her brother. So therefore, it's her job to convince him, not me.

If she takes the extra steps necessary to fight for us, then I cann be even more motivated to carry on. Apart from that, I don enter bus, I'm gone.

pansophist:
Didn't you saw the other thread where a lady was lamenting that guys these days are no longer persuasive? I can't be dealing with the protocols of chasing, and also be having friction with her supposed brother. Abi na only she be the girl wey de this life ?

The respectable, logical, and smart thing to do is to move on. The only strict exception is if the persuasion switches to her. Then she would be motivated to convince her "brother" of my suitability, and make the job easier. I'm not the one with the headache here, its her brother. So therefore, it's her job to convince him, not me.

If she takes the extra steps necessary to fight for us, then I cann be even more motivated to carry on. Apart from that, I don enter bus, I'm gone.

Bro, can u teach me how to understand women's nature?

I no even understand anything way op write na for comment section I come dey know wetin dey go on........

Okay I don understand now I go read am again

Op leave that girl she dey Bleep her brother ...... simple

Or the guy lied to you about that girl being his sister

Just leave the girl e get why

And take care of yourself my guy ......

That is very foolish. Define the bro code. Who are the authors of the bro code? Were you consulted when the bro code was written? Some men just behave like goats.

SmellySperm:
Respect the Bro-code bruh. Walk tf away
E get reason!

In the first instance i can't have such a spineless man as a friend. In the second instance, I can't be your friend and I would not know your siblings.

But lets play along with the scenario.

So I like a girl, she likes me too. I get her contact and call her, next thing my friend who is her alleged brother calls me and warns me not to call her again.

I would tell him to go and hug transformer. after all is she not his sister? Is he interested in marrying his sister? If that is the case, I hands off. If not, he should smell his anus.

Men need to get out of this mindset that they can dictate who would date or not date their sisters. Often, such men are jobless and idle. This is because if they had a job or they are meaningfully engaged in relationship, work, in their own life, etc they wouldn't have the time to be dictating who would or would not date their sisters.

Their sisters are not babies.

angelfallz:
In the first instance i can't have such a spineless man as a friend. In the second instance, I can't be your friend and I would not know your siblings.

But lets play along with the scenario.

So I like a girl, she likes me too. I get her contact and call her, next thing my friend who is her alleged brother calls me and warns me not to call her again.

I would tell him to go and hug transformer. after all is she not his sister? Is he interested in marrying his sister? If that is the case, I hands off. If not, he should smell his anus.

Men need to get out of this mindset that they can dictate who would date or not date their sisters. Often, such men are jobless and idle. This is because if they had a job or they are meaningfully engaged in relationship, work, in their own life, etc they wouldn't have the time to be dictating who would or would not date their sisters.

Their sisters are not babies.

more like it

angelfallz:
That is very foolish. Define the bro code. Who are the authors of the bro code? Were you consulted when the bro code was written? Some men just behave like goats.

You uncouth pun.k *ss. I'm entitle to my own fuc.king opinion.
Why the insult? Fuc.k is wrong with you 'butt scratcher?

SmellySperm:

You uncouth pun.k *ss. I'm entitle to my own fuc.king opinion.
Why the insult? Fuc.k is wrong with you 'butt scratcher?

Where is the insult?

pansophist:
Didn't you saw the other thread where a lady was lamenting that guys these days are no longer persuasive? I can't be dealing with the protocols of chasing, and also be having friction with her supposed brother. Abi na only she be the girl wey de this life ?

The respectable, logical, and smart thing to do is to move on. The only strict exception is if the persuasion switches to her. Then she would be motivated to convince her "brother" of my suitability, and make the job easier. I'm not the one with the headache here, its her brother. So therefore, it's her job to convince him, not me.

If she takes the extra steps necessary to fight for us, then I cann be even more motivated to carry on. Apart from that, I don enter bus, I'm gone.

I just updated the thread. It a cousin sister

Kondomatic:
First, this can't be me because I don't club.


But assuming something similar happens to me eeh, walahi I no go ask for her number a second time.

This life no hard like that and getting a woman these days isn't a problem, the real problem is keeping one.

it's his cousin not sister

angelfallz:
In the first instance i can't have such a spineless man as a friend. In the second instance, I can't be your friend and I would not know your siblings.

But lets play along with the scenario.

So I like a girl, she likes me too. I get her contact and call her, next thing my friend who is her alleged brother calls me and warns me not to call her again.

I would tell him to go and hug transformer. after all is she not his sister? Is he interested in marrying his sister? If that is the case, I hands off. If not, he should smell his anus.

Men need to get out of this mindset that they can dictate who would date or not date their sisters. Often, such men are jobless and idle. This is because if they had a job or they are meaningfully engaged in relationship, work, in their own life, etc they wouldn't have the time to be dictating who would or would not date their sisters.

Their sisters are not babies.

it's actually a cousin and not his direct sister