Ytea:
You don't know your friends. You shouldn't have told them, they'll find a way to lure you into their wayward life. I pray you don't fall OP because only you will bear the consequence.

smasher1:


Show me your friends and I would show you who you are. Birds of the same colors flock together. Those people can't be your friend unless you approve of their conduct, then you are not way different than they are even though you have not done what they did.

cmecproblem:
Broke men hardly cheat. Become very rich and start attracting women let's see if you won't cheat in the 11th year.

MissSweet:
I haven't seen such men. Three common men; those that are promiscuous, the drunkered and the smokers.

I guess, you have limited ladies or you don't have boldness/confidence and resources that's why you haven't cheated.

Men are human that cannot be trusted; even bf he shouldn't just rub it off on my face.

Tribalism123:
I quarelled heavily with my friend because of this. We are both not married but he is fighting me already for saying I wont cheat on my wife.


Life NA scam

SmartyPants:


Since you have decided to maintain the path of dishonesty, I will make you my pet project on nairaland. Wherever I catch you telling more lies, you will be exposed immediately.

Charlatan.

Saao:
I guess you are not married. Married men are those most sex starve. Going for months without sex

bamisho:
You’re a Real Man

hedonido:
Na mumu dry worry you. Your wife is certainly fucking one or two or three fools somewhere.

Nature abhors a vacuum.

WetSmoke:
The devil has almost conquered the world. It is clear from all the comments here. Only few men of conscience are left, the rest are lost in their lust forever. It's sad so many of them will die in the sin.

tpapi:
u r totally on point. Some married guys are suffering but d world wont bliv

DEMZEE:


My point is men and women see sex differently

Men see sex like taking a piss while women see sex as a value loaded exchange

Men must become to gain sexual abundance while women just are and have inherent value and get sexual abundance just for existing.

So why wud u use the feminine lens of cheating to judge men

streetzdreamz:
it's really not a big deal for some men,men who have self control,men who don't go blaming the devil or some hormones after desecrating their marital vows, I see keeping multiple ladies as a waste of emotions, resources and time. If ones union isn't working, it's okay to take a walk rather than cheat,men like you deserve medals, may God keep your home.

dochenaj:
If he didn't cheat in 10 years, then he will not cheat especially if he doesn't want to.

The truth is that cheating is a conscious decision, it is never a spur of the moment action. Only weak men will argue with this.

Lunaretta:
I have many male friends. All of these men cheat on their wives. Can you imagine? When I ask them why they do it, I get the answer "I'm bored". I don't understand how you can be bored with the man you love. That's why I don't get married and my relationships are always short. Now my brother has started attending christian dating and I want to believe that he will be faithful to his girlfriend.

Liposure:
A leopard can never change it's spots no matter the consequences. This is atrica cheating is acceptable from a man, most wives would stay (like they have no choice) than divorce as long as he's taking care of her and children

daylay7:


Is looking inappropriately cheating too?

EJanni:

Who propounded this your nonsense theory? You're just ignorant or you just want to defend your sexual pervasiveness. Inukwa?

daylay7:


Thats deep o. I have someone with such experience and it didn't end well at all. IF I give account of that now, some stupid people like @smartypants will say it is fictional. May God heal his family.

SmartyPants:


Shut up you filthy jobless animal.

Your a pathological liar and you have been caught.

LordGuru1:
For the very first time on this Forum, you earned my full Respect! You are a real Man, not one of the numerous senseless currupt scallywags that have rendered Nigeria useless like this. Truth be told, today I see on NL why Nigeria is the most useless Black Country on Earth. How can the dimwitted sub-animals that shamelessly pride themselves as cheaters here be able to stand up for Justice, Truth, and Defend their future Generations from Bandits and killers?! It is WRITTEN that the more immoral and lustful a Man is, the more cowardly Sissy and useless his life would be, because having sex with 1 lady takes 50% of brain, living promiscuously like many Southern Nigerian men here leave no Brain space remaining to successfully eradicate intruding Killers that are adopting and sodomizing their children and wives! Tueh on all your senseless brainless retards' heads. Shior!!!

Mikester:
There are a lot of reasons for that but the most common one is low IQ and sexual perversion I am sure you know Solomon was the wisest man. Read up about him.










and why will a man of understanding be ravished with strange women?

What exactly is to gain from such risk?

Haven't you seen homes wreck and men reduced to nothing by means of mere sex with strange ladies?

Only intelligent men see these dangers and prevent it but ignorant and simple men go on and regret afterwards.

It's just that.

post=101823165:
@OP, most Naija men don’t have that type of good attitude you've got..
So when they are confronted with cheating,
they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like:

Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.

It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?

If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.

I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.

If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.

Who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club cheating? It’s just what guys do for fun.

And as we see on this forum on a daily basis,
If the police had been out chasing some bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals?

I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial.

From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds).
Typically, each self-deception is supported by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods.

Keep it up OP.
It will always fall flat on their faces.

SAY NO TO CHEATING.



You are always welcome.
We will always stand on the side of the truth as long as we are here.
Truth is not bitter, just that people are bitter to the truth.
God bless your marriage.
Great things loading for you and wifey.

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DEMZEE:
Because men don't cheat, they just have sex

Women do cheat.

Men and women love differently and show love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and commitment and providing financial security to his woman
Women show love through fidelity ie not being a hoe