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Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by bita(f): 5:57pm On Nov 12, 2007
Hi Ned, thanks for the compliment on my looks.to answer your question, i served in Dutse with NTI at the Secretariate.
I was in OBS as one of the Top Executives.
I lived opposite the Tennis Club behind NYSC Office and i was a neigbour to Emily the Star. Cheers
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by padeejay: 8:04pm On Nov 12, 2007
Hello ex-jg corp members. I give kudos to the brains behind this project. I served in Hadejia and precisely in the only higher institution in that city. I was in RCCF and I stayed in the family house with my lecturer that puts on glasses. I served as the coordinator in that zone. I am doing fine in the labour market with it's ups and downs. Pls, I want to really get in touch with my former 'Oga' i.e the then state RCCF coord ( G Papa Taiwo). I can be reached on dejabey2005@yahoo.com. thanks.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 3:20pm On Nov 14, 2007
@bita
its quite amazing that you served in Dutse yet i don't know you, were you in 2006 batch A? if you were,did you really stay in Dutse or were you shuttling from north to south especially during clearance like some people did. I can assure you that i know all the peeps that served in Dutse,we were like one family, all the same its good to know that you were one of us, have a nice day.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 1:20pm On Nov 21, 2007
come on guys,this thread is becomming dormant again,please keep the flag flying,
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by samix(m): 11:49pm On Nov 23, 2007
hi everyone, its really bad that we ain't gisting ourselves anymore on this thread, well as for mre am cool here and tryin to study but with little distractions which is normal. its getting colder by the day now and i believe our non- quick response is because we are all somehow hooked trying to make our lives better, anyway i wish all of us well and cheers guys
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by Ehiwere(m): 5:14pm On Nov 24, 2007
@pa deejay
hello
how are u doin.This matthew dutse.This is to confirm to this honourable set of ppl that Chizim will be getting married by january.Any i will give more detail when i come online 2morrow.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 11:21am On Nov 29, 2007
@ Ehiwere
please who is this chizim you are talking about,
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 11:55am On Nov 29, 2007
hello guys,take your time to read this story, a clash of cultures you will say,




Alcorn professor to serve 2 years for child abuse

Children and ex-wife take stand to ask for leniency for accused

By Jimmie E. Gates
jgates@clarionledger.com

An Alcorn State University professor who used pepper juice and ants to punish one of his sons must serve two years in prison for child abuse, despite emotional pleas by two of his children and ex-wife.

Hinds County Circuit Judge L. Breland Hilburn on Monday sentenced Festus Oguhebe to five years in prison with three years suspended on his no-contest plea to one count of child abuse.

"I know he went overboard in his punishment, but he loves us. If he is in jail, that would totally mess me up so much," said 16-year-old Anna Oguhebe, who will graduate from high school in the spring. "I want my dad to be there when I graduate, not in jail."

A native of Nigeria, Oguhebe was accused of abusing his 11-year-old son by "placing him in a bathtub, then putting hot pepper juice in his eyes, on his penis and buttocks; and also by tying his hands behind his back and covering his body with ants," according to court records.

Oguhebe also was accused of abusing his son by "whipping and striking the child in such a manner as to cause serious bodily injury," according to records filed by Hinds Assistant District Attorney Jacqueline Purnell.

Hilburn told Oguhebe if the case would have gone to a jury, "it would have been very difficult for a jury not to find you guilty of child abuse."

Oguhebe, who has six children with his ex-wife, wiped tears when his children spoke of their love and respect for him, urging Hilburn to spare their father jail time.

"Give him counseling, extensive counseling. That would be better than jail," said Anna Oguhebe.

Anna Oguhebe and her brother, Festus Jr., also a high school senior, said their father may have gone overboard in his punishment, but his discipline and guidance as a father have kept them out of the kind of the trouble they see peers getting into.

All six children were in the courtroom, including the child Oguhebe was charged with abusing. The child didn't testify.

Oguhebe said the kind of discipline he inflicted upon his children was a custom in his native land.

Oguhebe's ex-wife, Mary Oguhebe, said what her former husband did was wrong, but he is no danger to society and didn't need to be locked up.

"I don't know how I will control the children if he is in prison," Mary Oguhebe said.

Mary Oguhebe had repeatedly reported abuse of the children by their father to the Hinds County Sheriff's Department, a department spokesman told The Clarion-Ledger in March 2005.

In February, Oguhebe dropped off one of the children at the University of Mississippi Medical Center with an older sibling, the spokesman said.

After the child was examined, the Mississippi Department of Human Services contacted the Sheriff's Department, which began an investigation, according to the Sheriff's Department.

Oguhebe was arrested in March 2005 on five counts of child abuse. The charges were whittled down to the one.

Monday was the first time that Oguhebe had seen his children since his arrest in 2005. His bond had forbidden any contact with them.

While on the witness stand during his sentencing hearing, Oguhebe apologized to his children.

"I'm very, very sorry. I say forgive me. It won't happen again. , I have learned my lesson," he said.

Calling America a beautiful country, Oguhebe said he loves being a citizen, but he sees problems like teen pregnancy and young offenders plaguing society.

"I was scared of the problems in this country," Oguhebe said. "The devil wants to destroy this nation."

Alcorn officials had said they were awaiting results of the sentencing before considering Oguhebe's job status. He has been a professor for 17 years at Alcorn.

Alcorn spokesman Christopher Cason couldn't be reached Monday.



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Oguhebe and the American system
By Reuben Abati


FESTUS Oguhebe is our compatriot; he is resident in Jackson, Mississippi in the United States, where he is a Professor of Business Studies at Alcorn State University. A father of six children, he has become a living referent for the extent, and implications, of a clash of cultures, as he stands trial and faces sentencing after pleading guilty to charges of child abuse. He may go to jail. He also faces the risk of losing his job. The Alcorn State University's spokesperson, Christopher Cason has been quoted as saying: "Alcorn State University employees are expected to be of good moral character".

But what has Festus Oguhebe done? His story, available, in extenso, on the internet, and reported in the Nigerian Tribune of Thursday, October 26, 2006, at page 4 is as follows: "Festus Oguhebe, a Professor of Business Studies and father of six children, who had initially faced a five-count charge after his arrest in March 2005, was accused of abusing his 11-year old son by placing him in a bathtub, putting hot pepper in his eyes, on his penis and buttocks. He was also said to have tied the boy's hands behind his back and covered his body with ants.

"According to records filed by the Hinds District Attorney, Jacquelin Purnell, Oguhebe's offences included whipping and striking the child in such a manner as to cause grievous bodily injury. He punished his children for offences such as incomplete school work and attempting to steal food in their own home during forced fasts, court records revealed. Oguhebe's arrest in March 2005 was said to have marked the second time he had been charged with child abuse. The first was in February when he was charged with a one-count offence which he bonded out of, "

The thing to note is that Oguhebe is unrepentant, even if he has pleaded guilty. Here is an African cultural activist living in America in the wrong century. He reportedly told journalists that he believes that children must be spanked at all times. "If you whip your child and he gets a bruise, does that become a crime? Go to the Iboland of Africa and you don't see kids behave this way", he said. What Oguhebe is up against is a clash of cultures. He lives in America, but he remains attached to his roots as an African. He affirms that he is an Ibo man, the product of a culture and world-view where it is believed that the rod is an important tool for bringing up a child, a vehicle of socialisation, to ensure that a child develops into a useful member of the community. In the African world-view, to whip a child is not considered a crime; what is considered punishment or brutality or child abuse by Western societies is regarded in African communities as a social process. This is borne out of the conviction that it is only when a child is brought up to experience pain, that he would appreciate the value of pleasure and that young persons must be made early enough to appreciate the need to be responsible.

It is this cultural notion, this background that defines his essence and Being, his very identity, that Oguhebe has taken with him to the United States. His insistence on corporal punishment for children is a throw-back to his cultural background and a revolt against the Western world-view. Nor is he alone in the presence of this dilemma. We live in the age of globalisation; of collapsing boundaries. Cultures are moving as human beings relocate to other parts of the world, civilisations are coming into testy conflicts with each other; in the process cultural historical patterns are contrasted.

The case against Oguhebe is not about his moral character. It is about cultural difference. It belongs to the same order as the recent debate in the United Kingdom about British Muslim women who insist on wearing the veil in public. The women argue that they are defending culture and the Islamic religion; their critics protest that the veil is a sign of separateness. Between the Western society and the African world-view, the use of the whip in bringing up a child is yet another sign of this separateness, which liberal societies may have to learn to accommodate as cultures continue to clash, and individuals re-connect with their origins.

No attempt is being made to understand Oguhebe's position. He is being cast in the mould of a villain, or at best a bush man from Nigeria who needs to be reformed. He is up against the American justice system, and the island mentality of the American society, made worse by its extreme temporocentrism. And yet Oguhebe is not an ignoramus on the streets of Mississipi. He teaches Strategic Management, International Business, Organizational Behaviour and Survey of Management at Alcorn State University. It is ironic that it is the ability of this Professor to manage his own home that is on trial. His six children are now in the custody of the Department of Human Services!

But the charges against him sound somewhat exaggerated: "tying up one of his children, placing him in a bathtub, covering him with ants, putting pepper in his eyes and leaving him there overnight, In another instance, he is accused of beating one of his children with a red extension cord. The beating caused open wounds that became infected because they were not treated, " Alan Williams, 22 a student of his who had scored an F grade in an Organisational Behaviour exam, has also taken him to court for assault. Williams claims that he had gone to Oguhebe to ask him questions about the grade he got in his final exam. But what happened? "I asked him a couple of questions, he got mad and tried to snatch the paper from me. He succeeded in snatching the paper, and then proceeded to push me". There is so much that is strange in the West. You can imagine that if Oguhebe tries to raise his voice in any minor conversation henceforth, he could be branded a terrorist.

His children receive bad reports from school? They steal food in the house? To an African parent, these are serious issues. It should be noted that the six children in question are aged between 7 and 15. Oguhebe is also a single parent, the mother of his children having left him, although she is also in the United States. In Africa, Oguhebe will receive praise for his strictness. It will in fact be said in his favour, that because he is divorced, he would not want to be seen as a failed parent turning out failed children.

In Nigeria, it would not just be Oguhebe teaching his children to be disciplined; in our towns and villages where communalism is still in force, neighbours and relations consider it part of their duty as elders in the community to help train errant children. The African world-view is structured in favour of age: older people are repositories of communal wisdom; young ones are expected to defer to them. When parents, teachers and elders in Africa subject children to corporal punishment of any sort, they do not do so out of malice or criminal instinct. When I was a child I recall that our teachers never "spared the rod", and if you came home with your back lacerated with cane-marks, your father looked for a cane and continued from where the teacher stopped without even bothering to ask what you did to merit the punishment in the first place. The following day, he would visit the teacher and thank him! This practice may be dying but only among Westernised city-parents.

Virtually every Nigerian parent living in the Western world is faced with a similar dilemma as Festus Oguhebe's. These other parents are not in the dock only because they are afraid of being caught on the wrong side of European or American law. But they are unhappy. They are anxious about the future of their children who are neither African, nor fully Western. They are worried that their children are caught at the crossroads, and may never fit into the African communities from whence their parents originated. The Western society transforms these children into cultural hybrids and their parents who are at best, economic immigrants, are confused.

The Western society is too permissive; it operates on the logic that once a child is born, he is already a complete person, with all the rights to run his own affairs as a totally independent being. Parents exist in his life only as ornaments to remind him or her of biological origins. They cannot determine his choices nor seek to question his morals. His age notwithstanding, he is regarded as a free agent. And so, these children are brought up as captives of social circumstances. From the moment they can talk, they are taught by teachers at pre-nursery schools to memorise the number '911' and advised to dial it whenever they feel harassed or intimidated by anyone at all, including their parents. When they are in school, they are perpetually interrogated: "Did your Mummy scold you? Are your parents having any quarrel?" Any wrong word from the child, the parents may be threatened with the loss of custody. This intrusion of the state into child upbringing, into the personal space of families, is destroying family life among Western families.

The rise in youth delinquency and adolescent sexuality, the pervasive amorality of Western societies is to be traced to this over-rationalised expression of human rights. Some of our compatriots in diaspora are trying to manage this crisis in different ways. There are those who insist on bringing their children home every year, to experience the African reality. There are those who are sending their children home for secondary school education. There are others who teach their children the mother-tongue, in the hope that when they speak that mother-tongue, it will bring them closer to their natal source. What every African immigrant in Europe and the United States has to deal with is this eventual conflict between identity and economic survival in a foreign land.

Every possible means of escape from the cultural trap has its costs. Oguhebe is paying his own price. But there are other dimensions. The story is told for example, of a couple who brought their three children to Nigeria for the Christmas/New Year holiday. The children's paternal Grandpa in whose home they stayed had bought a ram for the celebrations, to be slaughtered on Christmas day. In the meantime, the three young visitors had fallen in love with the ram. They played with it. They ran around the compound with it. They called it Billie.

When on Christmas Day, Grandpa asked that Billie should be slaughtered, the children broke down in tears. They didn't want Billie killed. Later, they refused to partake of the food that was prepared. They were sullen for the rest of the holiday. When a year later, their father proposed another holiday in Nigeria, they refused. They didn't want to go to the home of that man who killed Billie. They didn't want to mix with the cannibals who devoured Billie.

If the standards of those hounding Festus Oguhebe were to be applied, every Nigerian parent should be on the way to jail, But we are just a different people,










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Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nkiru99: 5:23pm On Nov 29, 2007
hi my name is Dorcas, i served in gumel jigawa state 2006 batch B, i am presently in lagos. I havent got something so good yet but i believe everything is under control. this is my number 08039335699. i wish everyone luck.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by Ehiwere(m): 7:00am On Dec 04, 2007
Chizoram,attends Winners and was the dramma coordinator in RCCF.She stayed at the faamily house opposite first bank.She use to make beads.However those that where in Skill Aquisation might know her,cos she was invited once for a talk show on how to make beads.She was a batch A 2006 corp membeer.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 9:49am On Dec 04, 2007
@nkiru99
hello Dorcas,you are welcome to this thread,feel free to share with us your experiences in the job market,your picture or whatever info you will want us to discuss,its very important also to introduce other ex jigawa corpers to this site,once again i welcome you,
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by samix(m): 5:31pm On Jan 01, 2008
merry xmas and happy new year guys. one love
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by jokepearl(f): 7:31pm On Jan 01, 2008
@Sam
how now ? long time happy new year
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by callher(m): 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2008
Hi Landers and Jigawa Ex-corpers Batch A 2006
I am Balogun Kola I served at a Secondary School in Birnin-Kudu
I work privately with a firm in Lagos.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by awaojukwu: 12:29pm On Jan 05, 2008
Hi Ex corp member inJigawa
I served in jigawa bat B 2006 Platon 7 in Gumel at Govt Day Sec Sch. its glade to write all what u people are writing.
im Awa Ojukwu.

Uche good to see ur pic, I am in Abj too my No 08030973711
keep in touch
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 12:13pm On Jan 07, 2008
happy new year to all of you, hope the holidays was wonderful, i hereby officially welcome you all to 2008,we will certainly strike gold this year.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 12:59pm On Jan 08, 2008
@jokepearl
happy new year to you,good to see you back on this thread after a long break,whats up?
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by jokepearl(f): 2:13pm On Jan 08, 2008
@nedujizzy
Thanks oh, Nothing really just trying to survive in a strange land. Men i miss home seriously. Anyway hopin to come visit soon.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by samix(m): 8:48pm On Jan 08, 2008
@ joke
  i don't think u missing home and london is not a strange land at all because u only tend to see more whites now compared to naija, maybe its where u are sha but where i am the most spoken language in the bus and off the bus is my ALMIGHTY YORUBA, it makes me feel at home both the weather makes me feel at away, lol. i just miss my peeps and lolo right now.
@jigawa exes,
happy new year and ehmmmmmmmm, hows work and the searching. GOD will surely do it.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by jokepearl(f): 9:20pm On Jan 08, 2008
@ samix
you are right, just that i ve been having a little difficult time here, but no prob sha i am happy i am here.
So how now? wetin dey? I hope u are preparing.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 9:44am On Jan 11, 2008
@jokepearl
, preparing for what?abeg make una no sell us ooo,
my sister nothing do you,its better to miss naija than to be into the naija shit itself, you will soon settle down and talk of naija will become secondary. for me, i still de arrange.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 11:06am On Jan 22, 2008
hello guys,whats up? this thread has been dormant for a while,where are you all ,its getting lonely here.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by samix(m): 9:01pm On Jan 29, 2008
hello everyone, where una dey?
its gettin dry in here really. well am still jobless ooooooo even with all the plenty quali and charisma, nothing do me sha, hopefully i will get one.
hope you guys are cool and doing fine wherever you are?
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by obuchineme: 11:59am On Jan 30, 2008
hey guys! sounds so cool! kofa. sorry ex kofas. i am nnanna francisca chinonye,i served in kirikassamma L.G.A in Hadejia emirate zone.I was a Nacc member. make una know say no shit.with God we go all get to d toooop.miss u all.my no is 08053463578.Batch A 2006 kofa
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by tinamic(f): 12:16pm On Jan 30, 2008
Hi,

My name is Tina but known as (CELINE DION) 2004/2005 BATCH ''B''  was in platoon ''2'' I served in Government College Birnin kudu and also lived in Govt college. Seyi Soweje nice hearing from you, and not to forget ur runs with sola and tutu of birninkudu, I work with a capital market research firm in Lagos (Lekki) My numbers aarhh//// you can have them, 7738300 or 08037122861 . ohhh I believe u guys r doing fine, bigup CHUKS MTN, Thanks man ,cos some of us were able to survive in Birninkudu with your phone at least ,u always buy credit sent to us frOm home, chuks ,we love you. and for DUTSE Corpers at that time, ''u were the bomb'' To NCCF and Corpers Love World Members I LOVE YOU AND I MISS YOU ALL. Folake,Mary, Folusho,Ronke,Dennis,Aina, Emeka,Ada,Gloria all Batch B 2004/2005. Its really nice meeting you guys. all the best and always remain on TOP.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by tinamic(f): 12:18pm On Jan 30, 2008
celine dion 2004/2005 batch B Jigawa

Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 11:52am On Jan 31, 2008
hello Tina AKA celine dion and nnana,you are welcome to this thread,we hope to see more of your contributions, lovely new year to you and all new members to this thread.
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by nedujizzy(m): 7:07pm On Feb 05, 2008
my people,where una dey, am so lonely down here, whats up with y'all
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by samix(m): 4:33pm On Feb 14, 2008
Its getting hot in here dudes and gals. Happy VAL to my loved one and to y'all ex-jigawa kofas
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by taighobe: 4:52pm On Feb 14, 2008
Hi

my name is josephine a Batch B corp i served in Gwiwa Local Government i appreciate this msg i wish the link continues. any way still looking for Job and i know one is already out there waiting for me. keep this trend smiley
Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by Ehiwere(m): 3:21am On Feb 15, 2008
‘Near ones r not dear’
‘Dear ones r not near’ It is easy
to remember the near ones.
But… Very difficult to forget the dear ones.
HAPPY Valentine’s Day.

Re: Jigawa Ex Corp Members Batch A 2006 by Ehiwere(m): 8:45pm On Feb 17, 2008
Read This SLowLy “LIFEISNOWHERE”

What Did U Read?

LiFe Is No Where!!
OR
LiFe IS Now Here!!

Just BeautifuL Line To Say,
“LiFe Depends On The Way We Look It”

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