Gbest90:


Na Wa o. This kind comment dey cos headache.

Make una dey try use pidgin na. No be by force to speak English.

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

Mozegee:
Did you not read what this woman wrote. What does it take her husband to help her wash plates. He is not a good man and as the same time arrogant.i am a father of 3,I do most of those stuffs when I have the chance.

Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

wirinet:


Even thing is about approach. Before my wife got help, whenever she needs my help, she would call (my office is not too far away) and say "babe, I have to go out, please come and help me look thd donuts or the meat pies) or even to attend to customers. I will tell her to give me 5 mins and I would be there. No if the shop is crowded and she screams " come fry the donuts", I will ignore her. If she screams louder, "I am talking to you, come and fry the donuts", all hell would break loose.

Washing plates in public is a no no for me. I could do that at home if situation demands, but never in public.

CYPRIANJUNGLE:
I'm sorry sir but you're a fo*l you judged without using your God given brains because you shouldn't be expecting women to tell you the full story of how she have been maltreating him at home don't judge without hearing from the both parties you would done even worst than this if ur wife come in a public store and shout "Come and wash this plate for me

I'm speaking from experience when my dad lost his job

BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Idzitari1:
Still asking what u did wrong. U ar jst disgusting, he gave u a sign with a bad look nd u still repeated urself. Madam ntin wrong in asking him to wash plate, but all is wrong when he don't want to do it publicly. Get small sense

Nnamaka1:
So what would the next request from the wife be assuming the husband agreed to start washing dishes for her in her shop

Automatically the husband stops being the head of the house and wifey becomes the head.

Ladies please listen to this. No matter the condition of your husband, I mean husband ooo not fiancee or boyfriend. Accord to him the respect and regards due to the head so that you can be blessed and remain blessed.

Abi you didn't say for better/for worse

Biafranboys:
Women of this generation are crazy, for me I do dishes myself but it is an insult to tell your husband to wash plate, same man that opened the business for you

Obainomilano:
Many people supporting the woman here are crazy and unreasonable we are Africans we are not Europeans..we do not have the luxury live or good governance of the white men and yet the Nigerian women always want to compare the man with their European counterpart.
It is highly insulting and highly humiliating to open your mouth to ask your husband to wash plate in ur restaurant to serve customers.. especially when that husband do not have a job ..when his pride and personality is at the lowest ..that is the time you are supposed to treat him more like a king ..support him in any way u can and give him maximum respect...if customers are too much they can come and wash the plates by themselves I have washed plate in so many restaurants so I can eat and I believe many people here have done so too ....there is no justification for such a public humiliation of a man that is supposed to be your pride ....

Jayrow08:
I will slap u again, nonsense!

Hotshisha:


Hunger in my own bloody establishment.... I will trash her and take my business kicking her to the street

Let her also hustle for money and start a fucking business, her father can give her money and wash plates

Godada:

The man in question is at a very vulnerable point in life. I think you pissed him off. The level of understanding between the both of you would have smoothened any rancour here. You hurt his pride

Godada:




The man in question is at a very vulnerable point in life. I think you pissed him off. The level of understanding between the both of you would have smoothened any rancour here. You hurt his pride

Hotshisha:


You sef reason the way you stated and articulated your point why wasthing the plate is good and in the overall intrest of the family... That's acceptable

But me walking into a place I paid my blood and sweat to set up and my wife tells me pointing rudely to the dishes to wash because some juvenile yahoo boys want to eat...

Honestly slapping her would be the nicest thing my aunt, mother, sisters would do to her if they see such

BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?

Jeon:

He's not romantic and caring.

That's why I hate people with pride and ego

Galaxydon1:
I don't see anything wrong if the Man watches plate. It's lack of understanding, so if it was the Man that runs The business won't he dish out plates for his customers. Since it's a family business i don't see anything wrong with it.

Jeon:

He's not romantic and caring.

That's why I hate people with pride and ego

cococandy:
If only you’re coddled jobless women who are not contributing financially to the home in the same way you coddle jobless men


[quote author=Tecno66 post=101922481]She actually deserves an head butt. Not slap.


The man in question is at a very vulnerable point in life. I think you pissed him off. The level of understanding between the both of you would have smoothened any rancour here. You hurt his pride

Jeon:

He's not romantic and caring.

That's why I hate people with pride and ego

BruncleZuma:
You don't have a husband, no real man assaults a woman over such issues.

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

Hotshisha:
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