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What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 7:46pm On Jun 05
If you intend to keep the bed undefiled before marriage, then you must keep a considerable distance. The partners should avoid any unnecessary visits to one another, let alone spending nights together. This is to avoid temptations.

Kindly add yours
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by bigpicture001: 7:51pm On Jun 05
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by malikombi(m): 7:52pm On Jun 05
Dont need urgent 2k.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by stanliwise(m): 8:01pm On Jun 05
No mercenaries grin grin in other words no outside match.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by stanliwise(m): 8:03pm On Jun 05
bigpicture001:
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships


Aside 2, 9 and few, others are senseless especially number 1

Is it even possible to check if a girl is a virgin and if no? Sex should start immediately?

If she says no sex because she is a virgin, then omo just run for your life. There is no proof of that. No sex i guess is to avoid distractions, who the heck cares about about virginity?

Dont fall in love Are you out of your mind or what?
So why are we in the relationship?

Lastly you said masturbate to ease tension.

I quit

No wonder you had four of them embarassed

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Draslo(m): 9:06pm On Jun 05
bigpicture001:
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships
4 chaste relationships? Who the hell are you? Mahatma Ghandi? Do you have erectile dysfunction? Have you been dating nuns from the convent? Cause I cannot understand how as a guy, you did not learn after the first one but went on for 3 more sexless relationships. Omooor I hope say you don wise up sha cause it's possible during that time that unknown to you, some sharp guys were helping you do the needful. Some of them might be on Nairaland sef.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by bigpicture001: 9:25pm On Jun 05
Draslo:

4 chaste relationships? Who the hell are you? Mahatma Ghandi? Do you have erectile dysfunction? Have you been dating nuns from the convent? Cause I cannot understand how as a guy, you did not learn after the first one but went on for 3 more sexless relationships. Omooor I hope say you don wise up sha cause it's possible during that time that unknown to you, some sharp guys were helping you do the needful. Some of them might be on Nairaland sef.

They were all virgins at the time..very differnt times..they all turned out to be better than the ones of sex. Just that ladies in sexless relationships are never committed unknown to them...
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 9:33pm On Jun 05
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bigpicture001:
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships

Insightful
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 9:34pm On Jun 05
malikombi:
Dont need urgent 2k.

grin grin
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 9:37pm On Jun 05
stanliwise:
No mercenaries grin grin in other words no outside match.

Na the koko be this
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Offpoint1: 9:40pm On Jun 05
Avoid asking for urgent 2k, it increases men libido.
Each time you ask a guy for 2k it's like you're asking him to send you his nude pictures.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by JusthowIfeel: 9:47pm On Jun 05
Before we consider the Do's and Don'ts we actually need to know the ultimate purpose and goal of the relationship in the first place.

An Intimate relationship should grow beyond sexual urges. From insecurities to greed and selfishness.
Truthfulness and pure intentions should be the key. Read More Relatable Relationship Tips and Long Distance Relationship quotes.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Cerebellum: 9:48pm On Jun 05
To slap OP and the chaste 1st commenter dey hungry me

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Draslo(m): 9:58pm On Jun 05
bigpicture001:


They were all virgins at the time..very differnt times..they all turned out to be better than the ones of sex. Just that ladies in sexless relationships are never committed unknown to them...
Guy, how are you 100% sure the four girls were virgins while you were dating? My guy, Nairaland is the only place you can say this kind of thing in public and expect not to be physically assaulted for being so gullible. Only you dated 4 virgins and you didn't deflower any of them. You also believe that each of those relationships ended with their virginity intact. Wise up, bro.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 10:03pm On Jun 05
No sex relationship?

Who has time for that rubbish? cheesy

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by fati2001(m): 10:03pm On Jun 05
SimplyFacts:
If you intend to keep the bed undefiled before marriage, then you must keep a considerable distance. The partners should avoid any unnecessary visits to one another, let alone spending nights together. This is to avoid temptations.

Kindly add yours

in Nigeria we don't have no sex relationship.

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by bigpicture001: 10:51pm On Jun 05
Draslo:

Guy, how are you 100% sure the four girls were virgins while you were dating? My guy, Nairaland is the only place you can say this kind of thing in public and expect not to be physically assaulted for being so gullible. Only you dated 4 virgins and you didn't deflower any of them. You also believe that each of those relationships ended with their virginity intact. Wise up, bro.

Bro dont be too hasty to conclude....i got therr in the four of them...even.their personalities will show u they are not your regular girl....three ended up first classers in fields like medicne, lab.science another buz admin...then one was v.just cuz of age..19.

The three first classers all finished nysc at age 21. They are very focused persons..not your regular girls..do u know one of them became a self made millionaire at age 23. Even with both parents not alive..

No no no ,dont go there! Not the aristo stuffs pure graduate hardwork and enterprenurship...pray u meet challenging girls dat will make u shut up and know your egocentric money driven mind is so myopic...u will be very challenged.

Do u know the first one gave her hubby 3million in supoort of his biz immifiately after marage,and pkaced her village based mother inlaw on a 10k monthly wage for over 6years now with a deal not to let her hubby know

Not all girls are blood suckers

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Jun 05
ma own b say, d worst part b say u must try ya possible best not to KISS each other cos it will be like say u d peep make you c weytin ya mama de cook upon say ya belle don full

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 11:07pm On Jun 05
Cerebellum:
To slap OP and the chaste 1st commenter dey hungry me

Abeg ooo

Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by sadigi5852: 11:33pm On Jun 05
bigpicture001:


They were all virgins at the time..very differnt times..they all turned out to be better than the ones of sex. Just that ladies in sexless relationships are never committed unknown to them...
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Draslo(m): 11:47pm On Jun 05
bigpicture001:


Bro dont be too hasty to conclude....i got therr in the four of them...even.their personalities will show u they are not your regular girl....three ended up first classers in fields like medicne, lab.science another buz admin...then one was v.just cuz of age..19.

The three first classers all finished nysc at age 21. They are very focused persons..not your regular girls..do u know one of them became a self made millionaire at age 23. Even with both parents not alive..

No no no ,dont go there! Not the aristo stuffs pure graduate hardwork and enterprenurship...pray u meet challenging girls dat will make u shut up and know your egocentric money driven mind is so myopic...u will be very challenged.

Do u know the first one gave her hubby 3million in supoort of his biz immifiately after marage,and pkaced her village based mother inlaw on a 10k monthly wage for over 6years now with a deal not to let her hubby know

Not all girls are blood suckers
Interesting. So much that you know marriage secrets of your exes who by the way you didn't bang! I gotta hand it to you man.

*Leaves thread never to return*

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by bigpicture001: 12:28am On Jun 06
Draslo:

Interesting. So much that you know marriage secrets of your exes who by the way you didn't bang! I gotta hand it to you man.

*Leaves thread never to return*

We still chats...we are friends till date..and even the hubby knows me..we never met since her wedding...we chat say like once in 4months ,everyone respect boundaries.............

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by BareFacedLies(m): 4:01pm On Jun 06
fati2001:


in Nigeria we don't have no sex relationship.

I'm glad you know that Fatima cos I'm keeping something sweet for you grin

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by baralatie(m): 5:48pm On Jun 06
bigpicture001:
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships
Hmmm
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by baralatie(m): 5:51pm On Jun 06
JusthowIfeel:
Before we consider the Do's and Don'ts we actually need to know the ultimate purpose and goal of the relationship in the first place.

An Intimate relationship should grow beyond sexual urges. From insecurities to greed and selfishness.
Truthfulness and pure intentions should be the key. Read More Relatable Relationship Tips and Long Distance Relationship quotes.
You are talking about already married couples?
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by baralatie(m): 5:55pm On Jun 06
Draslo:

4 chaste relationships? Who the hell are you? Mahatma Ghandi? Do you have erectile dysfunction? Have you been dating nuns from the convent? Cause I cannot understand how as a guy, you did not learn after the first one but went on for 3 more sexless relationships. Omooor I hope say you don wise up sha cause it's possible during that time that unknown to you, some sharp guys were helping you do the needful. Some of them might be on Nairaland sef.
I think you are missing the point of his statement?
He is a believer in bonded before marriage relationship and has a full depth of what it entails and what is required.
You don't need to judge him because he holds that belief

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by baralatie(m): 5:56pm On Jun 06
SimplyFacts:
If you intend to keep the bed undefiled before marriage, then you must keep a considerable distance. The partners should avoid any unnecessary visits to one another, let alone spending nights together. This is to avoid temptations.

Kindly add yours
Define keeping distance!
Unless you donnot have an intention to get married in less than 6 months
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by baralatie(m): 6:11pm On Jun 06
There are no sex involved relationship only if the two partners are celibates which is a rarity.

For a no sex before marriage,it means there is marriage in between 3 to 6 months due to slot of reasons.a man and a woman who are sexually active cannot practice a bonded before marriage phenomenon more than 6 months.also there is the problem of outside pressure

So if you want to practice a no sex before marriage philosophy

1.you and your spouse/fiance are already a believer and a practitioner in sex abstinence

2.you intend to get married in less than 6 months(for those who do not fulfill no 1)

3.if you or other half have a body sex count above 2 in a year forget it

4.if any of you is a parent stick with no 2

5.if you are flirtatious well......

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Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 8:58pm On Jun 06
baralatie:
There are no sex involved relationship only if the two partners are celibates which is a rarity.

For a no sex before marriage,it means there is marriage in between 3 to 6 months due to slot of reasons.a man and a woman who are sexually active cannot practice a bonded before marriage phenomenon more than 6 months.also there is the problem of outside pressure

So if you want to practice a no sex before marriage philosophy

1.you and your spouse/fiance are already a believer and a practitioner in sex abstinence

2.you intend to get married in less than 6 months(for those who do not fulfill no 1)

3.if you or other half have a body sex count above 2 in a year forget it

4.if any of you is a parent stick with no 2

5.if you are flirtatious well......


Well analyzed
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by bixoj87603: 8:59pm On Jun 06
bigpicture001:


They were all virgins at the time..very differnt times..they all turned out to be better than the ones of sex. Just that ladies in sexless relationships are never committed unknown to them...
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by SimplyFacts: 12:29pm On Jun 11
Hmmm
Re: What Are The Dos And Don'ts Of No-sex Relationship? by Bolarineliza202(f): 12:41pm On Jun 11
bigpicture001:
I will say this....if as a guy u decide the lady is so precious to u and you want to give a dig at a no-sex relationship.....do the following:

1. First check to be sure she is virgin...cuz once penetrated, she will certainly cheat.how will you know if she is a virgin�?

2. Two ask yourself if its a no sex on a one way for her or both of you,cuz if your sex active already it will be difficult for you

3. Please no matter what you feel about her,dont fall in love.

4. Know for sure if your not within 6months of marryingbher that she must dump you cuz of the no-sex. Ask me why by quote.

5. Be prepared for silly behaviours from the lady if she is a virgin.

6. Learn to masturbate.it will help ease ur sex urge.cuz u are human after all.

7. If u want to help her achieve it,dont get too intimate with passion...women lose control in high heavens of romance.

8. I repeat,remeber rule three.

9. If your still far away from marriage with her and in close contact with her,dont try the adventure.

10. And most importantly,have it at the back of your mind,she will dump you certainly. And it will pain u more than if u had sex with her...it always end it regrets for men.

Speaking from experience after having had 4 chaste relatiinships

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