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OK thanks so much, I'm grateful

Beloved3:
Grace,
I have the same answer for you. Not everyone is vast in shopping for the right outfits. Discuss with him on the next time he would be going shopping for clothes. Do a live video call with him on that day, show him the kind of t-shirts and jean or outfits you like him to wear or appear in.

Since you care for him and want the best, just assume that he doesn't know fashion, then help him improve. Don't just sit on the phone in Nigeria to criticize him on his dressing. That's quite annoying you know. Especially for someone who works his teeth off to make you happy and provides your financial needs. Hence he was on the defensive and getting upset. Each time you criticize someone they come up with many excuses in their minds to defend themselves. Criticism isn't always the best way to bring change.

So the key word is - help him improve. It is like a teacher criticizing a Jss3 pupil that he doesn't know the next lesson topic; Quadratic equation. Until the teacher teaches him and gives him examples, he shouldn't criticize him. In this case, you are the teacher, he is the pupil, fashion/dress sense is the quadratic equation. The goal of a relationship is for couples to help each other's weaknesses.

Cheers.

First we are not married yet again secondly there's nothing as being "competent with what I have" rather you should say be contented " Moreso courtship is for one to know each other and that's exactly what we are doing.

wizzy41:
Aunty be careful else u will soon loose that ur husband to another woman...if he cheats wahala, stingy wahala,not caring wahala...why can't u be competent with what u have...u have to note that thousands of women are looking for a husband just like him...