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Re: � � � by Deicide: 8:25pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
What made you fall in love with him in the first place? |
Re: � � � by BSsniffer: 8:27pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
boo is a dirty pig and outside the country. You need a friend with benefits. |
Re: � � � by extol1(m): 8:28pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri:the word dirty sounds raw and complex, I would have prefer unkempt. as it maybe, I thinks the only thing you can do since he is far away is to be reminding him in a joking way 1 Like |
Re: � � � by Mustiboy(m): 8:31pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri: You can't insult everyone, dear. Filter the meaningful comments from the negative ones and ponder over. Wish you the very best of luck. 3 Likes |
Re: � � � by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:33pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: The guy is rich, who wants to leave a dirty rich guy for a neat broke one, it is unpossible |
Re: � � � by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:42pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
These things can be addressed in a romantic way, in a humorous way but most of you will just flare up things, you are already building a distance between the two of you with the way you are handling it 1 Like |
Re: � � � by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:54pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
tee59: Hmmm 1 Like |
Re: � � � by DareyFortified: 8:54pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri: Instead of you telling him what to do, show him how to do it instead. Buy him those clothes, buy him those jeans, trousers and shoes you love to see on other men. And see if he will wear it or not. Lead the way and he will follow. |
Re: � � � by Blacknote: 9:02pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri:The bold shows the kind of lady you are, I would have loved to return back the gesture but I don't condescend that low with ladies or in the internet, so I'll let that slide. I don't even know why I sort for help here,A man that washes his dirty linens outside shouldn't expect neighbors not to talk about it. 2 Likes
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Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:11pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Kindly read the post again, this time let it sink.. I think u jumped where I said he lives outside Nigeria DareyFortified: |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:13pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
He's Godly, he's Mature in reasoning, we grew from friendship. Deicide: |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:15pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
You're a coward, if love, respect and faithfulness doesn't exist in your dictionary and relationship, I am a lady that helps build her man, that is why I'm seeking for views. Tajbol4splend: |
Re: � � � by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:18pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri: You must be toxic, but that's your problem shaa, KKM 1 Like |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:19pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
If a girl loves a man and seeks to affect his life positively people will still talk.. You're senseless for saying this. Xenry: |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:24pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
You are more foolish, if you don't have a lady that affects your life positively, then your life is doomed, we love each other and we seek each others growth, I can't see what I don't like and not say it, I do not want a break up in marriage hence this is our courtship process, u don't see some certain things in human until you're close Brandonx: |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:25pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Thanks for understanding Mordson: |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 9:27pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Yoruba people dirty pass PoloG: |
Re: � � � by Xenry: 9:27pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri:You are the senseless one, okay? And watch your language here please. What do you even know about men? Even if you want to change him, it will be because of his money (and not some imaginary love that you are here claiming you have for him). Women are deceptive creatures, it's obvious that you want to leave him but something is holding you back. |
Re: � � � by Bunmhi(f): 9:43pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Follow your heart |
Re: � � � by wizzy41(m): 9:50pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ahhhhhhh this one na confirm money miss road... |
Re: � � � by Cutehector(m): 9:53pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Mchew...this one.never serious. |
Re: � � � by wizzy41(m): 9:57pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Aunty be careful else u will soon loose that ur husband to another woman...if he cheats wahala, stingy wahala,not caring wahala...why can't u be competent with what u have...u have to note that thousands of women are looking for a husband just like him... |
Re: � � � by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
But his money is not dirty,? |
Re: � � � by Brandonx(m): 10:42pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Gracejeri:A stupid gold digger that's what you are. We know your type you ve seen there's money there that's why you want to stay. Run along and look for your so called "neat man" ode If I were that man from your attitude I would keep you with promise of marriage over there in Nigeria while I do a low key marriage and make a nice family with someone that understands Me. When your head correct you go find your way gold digger. |
Re: � � � by Gracejeri(f): 10:59pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
Try find a land who will love you enough to affect your life, and not only about money money money, trust me if I care about his money alone, I won't be with him and if he knows I love only his money, he won't have me too.. I am not like your girlfriend, I am a a great lady who is achieving my dreams and oh just do you know, I got a full funded admission for my masters in Canada, He's reaping too, not all women have that intellect, have a man whom they respect even in his absence and still always choose to affect j positively. Brandonx: |
Re: � � � by Brandonx(m): 5:56am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri: Bla bla bla! From your write up I can deduce you are broke which automatically translate to a gold digger, insolent and very dull. And you even sound like a man why are you trolling? Uncle I've seen all kinds of lady both home and away so there's nothing you are going to Say to justify your silly write up. |
Re: � � � by PoloG: 6:51am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri:smelly hairy yamleg igbo girl from Aba the most dirty city in nigeria... 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: � � � by OnionBandit(f): 6:58am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri:see who is talking |
Re: � � � by gozzlin: 7:43am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri: I'm sure you do. But why did you change the picture tho? You now put the picture of a fair skin lady. |
Re: � � � by Nobody: 1:01pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri: But you love him enough to chop his money? That's my main point. When he was assisting you and buying you phones (as you wrote in your past threads) you didn't know he was dirty then? Now that you got a job, your eyes suddenly opened that he is dirty. My sister, talk is cheap. He has invested money in taking care of you, you too invest money/effort in seeing him change. Buy him the clothes and under wears yourself. Dress him up the way you want him to appear. He won't refuse the gifts from you. This will achieve far greater results than just criticizing him and nagging. If you cannot do these, then leave him alone and move on. |
Re: � � � by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Gracejeri: Grace, I have the same answer for you. Not everyone is vast in shopping for the right outfits. Discuss with him on the next time he would be going shopping for clothes. Do a live video call with him on that day, show him the kind of t-shirts and jean or outfits you like him to wear or appear in. Since you care for him and want the best, just assume that he doesn't know fashion, then help him improve. Don't just sit on the phone in Nigeria to criticize him on his dressing. That's quite annoying you know. Especially for someone who works his teeth off to make you happy and provides your financial needs. Hence he was on the defensive and getting upset. Each time you criticize someone they come up with many excuses in their minds to defend themselves. Criticism isn't always the best way to bring change. So the key word is - help him improve. It is like a teacher criticizing a Jss3 pupil that he doesn't know the next lesson topic; Quadratic equation. Until the teacher teaches him and gives him examples, he shouldn't criticize him. In this case, you are the teacher, he is the pupil, fashion/dress sense is the quadratic equation. The goal of a relationship is for couples to help each other's weaknesses. Cheers. |
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