okpelu:
The purpose of creating this account is to ask for advice

I've been dating this girl for a year plus and everything seemed to be going great till this year. She seemed distant, and blamed it on me becoming distant too.. so I told her we should try to make things better. For weeks we have been going up and down over the same things. Then recently, we went to a party and all through the party, she was looking at other guys while I was talking to her. I was pissed. We quarreled about it and a few other things. She was going back to school and I told her I was coming to see her in school the next day. Her reaction pissed me off. She wasn't keen. So I said I was going to see her. The next day I pretended I was there. And all of a sudden, I found that she blocked me from all corners. I was alarmed. I tried calling her with several numbers. She blocked all. Omo I was pissed. When we finally spoke, she said she needed a break. I was shocked. I take care of her. I pamper her. I send her money over regularly. I don't ask her for anything. She then proceeded to tell me our quarrels dey affect her mental health. I was extremely shocked. Extremely. I said no. She said then we should break up. I agreed. After I changed my mind, begged her, and then she tells me I should give her space to heal. I said how long. She tells me till December 25. I should call and find out if she is still interested.... That she is 80 percent sure she would say yes. I want to know what y'all think


And yes you can say whatever you like

okpelu:
The purpose of creating this account is to ask for advice

I've been dating this girl for a year plus and everything seemed to be going great till this year. She seemed distant, and blamed it on me becoming distant too.. so I told her we should try to make things better. For weeks we have been going up and down over the same things. Then recently, we went to a party and all through the party, she was looking at other guys while I was talking to her. I was pissed. We quarreled about it and a few other things. She was going back to school and I told her I was coming to see her in school the next day. Her reaction pissed me off. She wasn't keen. So I said I was going to see her. The next day I pretended I was there. And all of a sudden, I found that she blocked me from all corners. I was alarmed. I tried calling her with several numbers. She blocked all. Omo I was pissed. When we finally spoke, she said she needed a break. I was shocked. I take care of her. I pamper her. I send her money over regularly. I don't ask her for anything. She then proceeded to tell me our quarrels dey affect her mental health. I was extremely shocked. Extremely. I said no. She said then we should break up. I agreed. After I changed my mind, begged her, and then she tells me I should give her space to heal. I said how long. She tells me till December 25. I should call and find out if she is still interested.... That she is 80 percent sure she would say yes. I want to know what y'all think


And yes you can say whatever you like