TripleAR:
You trying to hard to be friends with them
They will take you for granted

azraeljaheel:
Maybe you have halitosis


Or body odour


Just saying


Or would you consider yourself they clingy type ?

Kriss216:
There's nothing as foolish as friendship with a Nigerian girl!

Coldie:

I don't have any of those things, it normally goes from us being good friends to outright malice

azraeljaheel:




Then I must say this with all certainty that you have spirit wife that must be threatening your female friends once she senses you guys are getting close


Seek help from pastor righteousness 2

azraeljaheel:




Then I must say this with all certainty that you have spirit wife that must be threatening your female friends once she senses you guys are getting close


Seek help from pastor righteousness 2

Coldie:

I don't believe all those things but It might be true, if I put my pic on this nairaland I fit cause problem. Only the day I put my back on Facebook I almost cause big problem.

But in my life I have never had a gf before despite how much I try

Kriss216:
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Rubbish talk!

Every sane person should have phobia for Nigerian girls.

lilvicky68:

Lol..e be like say na overhyping be your problem

lilvicky68:
Have you tried asking why?

Coldie:

I don't believe all those things but It might be true, if I put my pic on this nairaland I fit cause problem. Only the day I put my back on Facebook I almost cause big problem.

But in my life I have never had a gf before despite how much I try

Coldie:

How u want use ask person way no want talk to u or way dae even avoid u... Y?

azraeljaheel:



Have phobia for Nigerian girls?


You must be halfcast bah?


Your mum ain't from Nigeria ?



Not all ladies are thesame the fact that you rolled with a shawty named MISS_fortune, who changed your views about girls doesn't mean we don't have the decent ones out there ...



Good girls dey take it or leave am

Kriss216:
There's nothing as foolish as friendship with a Nigerian girl!

lilvicky68:

If you confront her in a calm place..you can ask why

Kriss216:

He said good girls dey

Joke of the century !

Coldie:

Once I did, what one of the girls told me is that it's not by force to talk to people, so I lock up

Kondomatic:
I admire how you managed to build this your stable source of foolishness.

azraeljaheel:




What you see all naija girls as first??


Cheap??

FreeSpirited:

Many won't understand.
Most times, A Nigerian gal will expect u to get sexual or romantic with her as a friend, if you don't, then she will lose her respect for u...or see u as not man enough.
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And if u have intention for romance but u are now beating around the bush to play cool guy..lol...na da one worst past...she will turn u to maga, using u, collecting ya money, or turn u to emotional tampoon to dump all her emotional trouble..why u get nothing in return......she will even go and fvvck another guy she met two days ago .while u are here forming good boy..lol
That's wot I know abt them...

Kriss216:

No. Hoes and useless!

Coldie:

Girls as a whole are complicated, I no longer stay in Nigeria so I know what am saying.

They are trying to break me, cause lately am nursing that feelings in my heart that with the way my life is going I might not get married.

It's just d way it is

lilvicky68:

Nawa oh.. sha na your opinion

Kriss216:

No. Hoes and useless!

lilvicky68:

Wait.. both foreign girls dey do you the same thing?

Coldie:

Well, maybe, it depends on the area or which country you are staying. If you are in those Muslim countries, probably it is possible for them to avoid you due to religious barrier and to avoid gossip. Most would prefer to do the friendship in secret, and only visit you in your apartment without being seen together (on road or walking together... as per black man wey you be). Also, if the acceptance rate of Africans are low in that country, it could be a barrier.

On the other side of it, if you are in a country where it is normal and the acceptance rate of Blacks is high, then, it might be little issue for you. Try and look out for those girls who are not too flashy or slaying... they might work. Also avoid materialistic and Instagram filled girls. Another line of taught is gossip about you. Most women trives on gossip. If a girl or girl try to 'run you down' by saying untrue things about you to one or group of girls, they would hold on to that and judge you harshly. No matter what you did, that which they heard is actually 'true' unlike Nigerian girls that don't care about gossip over someone, but still goes for what she wants. Another point, your expectations towards women might be very high... try and lower it (though I don't encourage it, but still your choice).

If all else failed, then do arranged relationship or marriage (recommendation from family or siblings). Lastly, the spiritual overrides the physical. The 'spirit husband or wife' of a thing, though cannot be proved, but I think it exist. There maybe some impediments that you need to strive hard to break.