vincenteger:
Just give me her contact info

Not to worry I'll take good care of her over here.

STEWpid:
Chai..


Travel to CA and be with her na.

Jeon:
Allow her to go don't mess up her life by impregnating her and becoming a single mom.

CandyOps:


No be mess up o. I no go run. Ticket Na small 700k. I go fit hustle am. I have 2 blood bros in CA already. So no be mess up

madone:
Bro let her go. Remain the good guy she fall for. Give yourself 6months apart.
Then she can file for you. If you love that barney then let her travel but have a plan.
You fit rush do court wedding. Use this one month plan sometime

Nonexisting1:
I have been anti japa and have even dumped a valid visa before but as this country dey go now, I'm reconsidering my stand. It's just the fear of starting all over in a foreign land. For now, I'm still very comfortable but will I raise my son in this place like this? Nigga, if your vaginarian is as good as you claim, consider joining her soon by every means necessary or you'll be back to the hookups we have here. I done talk my own finish.

CandyOps:


Staring over with a currency that is 1000x better than Naija currency no be bad game plan.

As for my 'vaginarian, she has her issues as we all do but oga when you jam better person you go know.

Babe wey be say I dey literally force to take money from me. She dey tell me no need that we aren't doing business.

But she get skoi for head once once sha

Ballzproblemm:
she's gone bro , better start healing process instead of playing the blame game

CandyOps:


Me wey dey owe landlord 2 months abi shey them dey lap for plane?

CandyOps:
Nigeria just happened to me guysss...

Nigeria go just dey find ways of cutting small happiness wey I dey manage short. Is it a crime to be a Nigerian?

Babe wey I struggle catch out of all these nonsense wey full Lagos dating pool. After months of trying.

Fine babe, babe wey get better family, fine die, has her own car, is employed, lives with her family, and is vocal about how she feels about me... wey get her own car. Na him Nigeria just collect from my hand 😢

My babe just called me this number after giving me 5 missed calls to tell me she's leaving the country this month end

Her visa to CA just got approved. I felt my heart drop when she said, "remember I told you I will be traveling this month end?"

I was shocked! And speechless for a few seconds while I processed the information.

I didn't know how to feel.
Now i have to go back to the nasty, g*d-forsaken Lagos dating pool and start all over kissing frogs I'm search of a new princess as I'm almost single again.

As she dey talk with me for phone, my mind was blank... I was angry and sad at the same time.

... the only thing on my mind was: 1. F#*K Naija!!

2. Do I get her preggy so she has our kids outside?

3. Do I try convincing her not to go... but it's a little too late for that.

Or 4... do I avoid seeing her entirely till she leaves so we don't get intimate which will only worsen the whole emotional mess we're in rn.

I feel angry at myself for giving her too much of my energy when chasing her as she let me know on time she won't be available for too long and she doesn't want to get emotionally attached to anyone so she'll stay focused.

It's just sad mehn.

Damn! I need advice. I know I'll get over it with time but damn it hurts like hell. Na the 2nd babe wey I dey lose to Japa be this now

Do you know how annoying it is to chase a hot girl in Lagos... you go leave missed call tire. Chyke tire. Plan date tire. Buy gifts etc .. and when you finally get the barnie Naija go give you SmackDown collect am ? 😭😭

CandyOps:


I go juss comot ya teeth now you go think say na play

CandyOps:


Me wey dey owe landlord 2 months abi shey them dey lap for plane?

siofra:
Mtchewwwwwwww
How did I even enter this thread