Emmaomotob:
Because men love women that radiate their sexual energy and not one that makes everything look like sin. But there is no one size fits all.

Sterope:
I would think it is obvious that you can be successful without networking but your kind of network increases your shot at success.

Kobojunkie:
As a Christian, no matter how focused and ambitious you are, you are promised suffering and afflictions by Jesus Christ. The wayward/unbeliever does not live under such a yoke.

As a Christian, your "success" is measured not by the world's standards, but by standards set by Jesus Christ. So when Stephen was stoned to death, even a a young man probably in his 20s, he was a success story. For the wayward/unbeliever, there are no such limits as the world is indeed their oyster.

As a Christian, your very continued existence is bound to your successful submission to and obedience of the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, so sins and curses attack as you reject God's law. The unbeliever/wayward man who is not under such a yoke is not inhibited in such a way.

obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, there is something that I don't really understand about life or let me say religion. I know some people may see it as luck or destiny. But if we call it destiny, then every Christian or all child of God suspose to be prosper and leave a better life than Dangote.

Because according to Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version that's says For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

But when I check those guys we call pastors and Alfa in School (University) they don't play with Church Fellowship or Mosque prayers, they get the best results, as in when it come to Education, they are very sound but most of this people end up teaching in one local private school or the other. While those Stubborn guys, that go to Club and party every night, many of them manage to get Third class but they end up in better companies, some are abroad while some are in government.

Also, those ladies that doesn't allow man to touch thier hand not to talk of hugs, infact majority of them are still virgin base on thier looks and behavior ( Not all). They always reserve thier body for thier future husband Many of those ladies too are on the street looking for husband up till now and looking old now. Even those that marry among them are still looking for the friut of the womb. But those strippers, Club girls, they hardly attend attend class and many of them even graduated with poor result get the best husband, have beautiful kids and better job.

Now my question is, why those who lived a wayward life in school get better opportunities than Church goer or those Alfa?

Kobojunkie:
What?

You dont know that the New Covenant is styled by God in much the same way as the Old Covenant, complete with blessings curses, seal, commandments, ritual/ceremony, eligibility, Kingdom. and even a name by which the Covenant can be invoked?

And here I was scolding someone of another religion of missing that.

NwaNimo1:
Upside down country.....

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obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, there is something that I don't really understand about life or let me say religion. I know some people may see it as luck or destiny. But if we call it destiny, then every Christian or all child of God suspose to be prosper and leave a better life than Dangote.

Because according to Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version that's says For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

But when I check those guys we call pastors and Alfa in School (University) they don't play with Church Fellowship or Mosque prayers, they get the best results, as in when it come to Education, they are very sound but most of this people end up teaching in one local private school or the other. While those Stubborn guys, that go to Club and party every night, many of them manage to get Third class but they end up in better companies, some are abroad while some are in government.

Also, those ladies that doesn't allow man to touch thier hand not to talk of hugs, infact majority of them are still virgin base on thier looks and behavior ( Not all). They always reserve thier body for thier future husband Many of those ladies too are on the street looking for husband up till now and looking old now. Even those that marry among them are still looking for the friut of the womb. But those strippers, Club girls, they hardly attend attend class and many of them even graduated with poor result get the best husband, have beautiful kids and better job.

Now my question is, why those who lived a wayward life in school get better opportunities than Church goer or those Alfa?

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ said you cannot be a friend of His and of the World, your Mog dey there dey tell you the opposite... and you sef dey open mouth tell people?

obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, there is something that I don't really understand about life or let me say religion. I know some people may see it as luck or destiny. But if we call it destiny, then every Christian or all child of God suspose to be prosper and leave a better life than Dangote.

Because according to Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version that's says For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

But when I check those guys we call pastors and Alfa in School (University) they don't play with Church Fellowship or Mosque prayers, they get the best results, as in when it come to Education, they are very sound but most of this people end up teaching in one local private school or the other. While those Stubborn guys, that go to Club and party every night, many of them manage to get Third class but they end up in better companies, some are abroad while some are in government.

Also, those ladies that doesn't allow man to touch thier hand not to talk of hugs, infact majority of them are still virgin base on thier looks and behavior ( Not all). They always reserve thier body for thier future husband Many of those ladies too are on the street looking for husband up till now and looking old now. Even those that marry among them are still looking for the friut of the womb. But those strippers, Club girls, they hardly attend attend class and many of them even graduated with poor result get the best husband, have beautiful kids and better job.

Now my question is, why those who lived a wayward life in school get better opportunities than Church goer or those Alfa?

Odidigboigbo:
You are at liberty to chose whatever you believe. My Christianity is against being poor on earth as a Christian. Abraham was not poor and he didn't leave a worldly life either. I know a lot of good Christians that are leaving a good life. The level God has taken me so far, is a enough testimony for me to know that he still have enough in stock for me without compromising my faith and trust in him.

Standing5:
I suspect they made a deal with the adversary. That's the only logic. The adversary is focused on the yet to be captured ones and has a lot more resources for that I quess.

Kobojunkie:
Because they are not under Law and so not bound by consequences of the Law, including curses .
You see, what your Mogs fail to warn you is that when you make a decision to become of God by believing in Jesus Christ, you entire existence is brought subject to the Law of the New Covenant, the blessings and the curses.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ literally promised all those who will follow Him suffering and Tribulation but here you declare that these things are common to men?

God2man2again:
This is not true. Are you discouraging people from going to church?

What manner of post?

Fronesis:
I was a church goer, the best graduating student and have the best job in my set.vwgat nonsense are you talking about. Infact reverse is the case from my point of view. I know alot of church goers doing great today.

obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, there is something that I don't really understand about life or let me say religion. I know some people may see it as luck or destiny. But if we call it destiny, then every Christian or all child of God suspose to be prosper and leave a better life than Dangote.

Because according to Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version that's says For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

But when I check those guys we call pastors and Alfa in School (University) they don't play with Church Fellowship or Mosque prayers, they get the best results, as in when it come to Education, they are very sound but most of this people end up teaching in one local private school or the other. While those Stubborn guys, that go to Club and party every night, many of them manage to get Third class but they end up in better companies, some are abroad while some are in government.

Also, those ladies that doesn't allow man to touch thier hand not to talk of hugs, infact majority of them are still virgin base on thier looks and behavior ( Not all). They always reserve thier body for thier future husband Many of those ladies too are on the street looking for husband up till now and looking old now. Even those that marry among them are still looking for the friut of the womb. But those strippers, Club girls, they hardly attend attend class and many of them even graduated with poor result get the best husband, have beautiful kids and better job.

Now my question is, why those who lived a wayward life in school get better opportunities than Church goer or those Alfa?

Dangerousboy:
sir there is no law in the new testament. What we might call a law, which is the life style of the believer, is Love.

Rom.8.1 - There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
Rom.8.2 - For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death.

Gal.5.22 - But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,
Gal.5.23 - Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.

Kobojunkie:
I think that is a myth!

Ahmed0336:
Na why you go hear some people dey shout " dis lyf no balance"

God does His things His way.

Kobojunkie:
The devil has nothing to do with this. In fact those of you who see devil everywhere you look are more danger to the faith than any other kind out there.

Una kind see devil pass Jesus Christ Himself.

Kobojunkie:
What do you think the word "New Testament" means? The very title of the Section clearly reveals that a New Covenant/Law is revealed in its pages, yet you never realized even this?

So when Jesus Christ declared that those who are His friends are those who Obey His laws, did you simply brush it off as Jesus Christ being high on something?

oyebanji:
Is this a graduate?

BDXTRA:


You stopped early and I dont think that is worth regretting for. You could still make more worth of the time in the third and fourth year na. Even if you dey go church with sense sef while also monitoring your life and not depending on the so called faith which is mostly hopeful fantasy, it is not bad = This is what some call Faith with work.

But here we are talking of who depended all through on the church during their stay in school and after school sef (believing they are the best of saints and that God will take care of everything concerning them with little effort from their side), and thereafter water pass garri because the REALITY is shocking especially in a country like Nigeria.