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Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by rhames(m): 12:42pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: hey oga. do not allow one useless girl to put you in n emotional trauma that will lead to something else. Always be in an open relationship with the opposite gender until you finalize and confirm your wedding plans. you are so lucky that you discovered her attitude so early. dont be so stupid to an extent that you close your doors to other women who might even be better interested in your personality rather than materiality. FYI, i sponsored three women through tertiary institution and all failed me. i visited the last one on the morning of her wedding and found the entire neighbourhood bubbling, unaware thatit was her wedding. i came back in the evening as promised only for the tenant who broke the news that she got married that morning. Devasttated, i picked up the pieces and continued life only for the Almighty to reward me with a beautiful woman afterwards. Fear single women. You can never be sure of their next action. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Jonathan39: 12:46pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
You speak like a renowned olosho. Helper kor maga ni, Yahoo boys gives money and expect to Bleep in return, stop hiding under the word helper, you are decieving yourself AutoChick4U: 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by ronyman(m): 12:51pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
The Truth is that nobody can tell you what to do but bros that girl is not ready for marriage. Take it or leave it. You are entering that marriage at your own risk bro.. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Ibrosavage(m): 12:52pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
You allowed a yahoo guy be your wife-to-be Oniduro... Brotherly, you are not doing well |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by mechanics(m): 12:55pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
You must not pay her back with evil, talk to her to see reasons she has to stop her interactions with that her class mate and if possible she should return the money she has collected back to the guy and call it quit with him, if she refuses doing that, then call it quit, no need to wicked her. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Originalsly: 12:56pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: Bro... pit your emotions aside. You're in a game ... play it well... you need to get back the money spent.. and more. Find a good reason to gather money from her.... until you reach your goal. Take revenge out of your mind. Play well. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by chatwithbruno(m): 12:56pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
My dear, This is not to insult any lady, but that's how most ladies are...they are never greatful no matter what you may give or the little you may do for them. The guy in question has slept countless times with your lady I suppose. You are lucky that God revealed the message to you. I give you my word, if you never did your personal findings, you would never in this life have known that your girl collected such money from the guy, same way you still don't and may never know how many times the yahoo boy has slept with your girl before and after giving her the money. Same way your girl must have collected the money from the yahoo boy for business and still collect it from you too. That's just a woman's nature, or most woman's nature. We live in desperate times where people have gradually lost their place and standings with the Lord. I'm sorry but your girl is not worthy of being a wife material. Fear women. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Anniemae(f): 12:58pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Nobody is a saint You have to make sure she didn't sleep with the Yahoo guy before jumping into useless conclusions She might just be using him for money and deceiving the guy...not all Yahoo boys are diabolical tho.. Don't revenge..just jejely walk out of her life if you can't handle it...and get your bride price back. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Opengates(m): 1:03pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: Please bro, if you will heed my little counselling, don't do anything to revenge what she has done to you. Just release her to go. Forgive her and forget her. She is not your wife otherwise marrying her will spell doom for you. If you can do what I asked you to do, God will compensate with an honest and a helpmeet wife very soon. Don't put yourself under unecessarry pressure about marriage now that things have turned out to be like this. Take this time to improve yourself mentally and financially. May God console you in Jesus name. Shalom |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Kimjongun: 1:10pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: You women will be putting your hands inside fire and be thinking you are being smart. You think it's all people you can play and be calling them helper. Someone either want to date or fvck you and he is already sending you money while you at the back of your mind believe you are smart and you won't give him any of what he desire from you, you think you will go scott free if he finds out he is being played? You are hurting a man ego and you think he won't want to treat your Bleep up? Yahoo boy for that matter. Many of you are just madd. I just hope she doesn't create unnecessary enemy for the innocent guy. Tomorrow someone will kidnap your child or even rape you and you will be shouting men are evil. If you can't be loyal to the devil, don't dine with it! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by StUriah(m): 1:14pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
99% of ladies are secretive. Hardly will you have a girlfriend or a fiancee that is not into multiple relationships these days. They know guys too double date & they don't feel like their pvssies should be tied down to enjoy only one dickk during their lifetime. Come to think of it, how can a lady be satisfied with a single sex partner when she has tasted some very sweet random dickks, some have or are still supporting her financially, morally, emotionally? Do you think they won't support her sexually? That's the reality for majority of our ladies today. The economy is too harsh. No one is exempted. The more reason most ladies are into silent prostitution. Even if you dump her sorry ass, what is the guarantee that your next girlfriend won't be worst than her? I pray the OP finds peace in his future relationship. BarrSly: |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Germi9: 1:14pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by izubext007: 1:23pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Leave her let her go with her bitch pussy. For get pregnancy. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by mosaicafrique: 1:33pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
The only time a woman won't deny sleeping with someone else is when you meet her fu*** the dude. She has been sleeping with that boy since Only God knows. Go to her family, ask for a refund of all you brought let her family know the kind of daughter they have, make sure you have witnessees to record what you did, cancel the marriage plans and make it real because you don't need to go there and accept apologies. Let the family feel the shame she brought. And move on after collecting everything. No mercy for the merciless. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by lolu2019: 1:34pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP:u r already a mugu |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by tunize(m): 1:37pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
You agreed with your babe to eat a guys money and here you are scared her pant will be shifted, Your babe is not a wife material like-wise you una two na same na better boi dey plan with woman to eat man money? |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by MrCuteAndLoaded: 1:40pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
My guy...dont be taken for a mumu. chai! see as this girl play you like ludo. Abeg japa for good. She is disrespecting you and showing it before your face. She has made you realize that she values her so called biz more than your dignity and pride. You really dont need these BS in your life! Double your hussle and get quality girls. This one is a gabbage and potential gold digger! Run for your life |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by chakaz(m): 1:40pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Why are you willing to settle with one guy that is struggling to pay 45% in the first place? What is bad is bad. A cheat remains a cheat irrespective of how you twist the story. If you know the man income is not what you can manage, why entangling with him! Ladies always trying to justify unjustifiable things! |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by SweetDipBenny(m): 1:43pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Wat if she's on nairaland |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Algold: 1:44pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Someone that is sleeping around to raise money for business and you expect the business or your union with her to work. You are heading towards a deep deep deep pit. I blame u as well, why will u hand her the phone to communicate with him. My guy run... Those yahoo boys are very fetish. They have used many girls destinies. You will be getting poorer as you continue to lay with her. Inform your people and let your people take the case to her people and japa. PENNYSWAP: |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Phraences: 1:45pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
PENNYSWAP: Marriage na scam. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Montaque(m): 1:46pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
OP, even when you marry, and the situation is like you painted it financially, your wife will seek helpers outside your home to establish that side hustle. The problem here is that she didn't seek your approval, which she knows you will refuse, and she continues to hide the fact from you. Whether this is innocent or mischievous, only you can tell. You know your girl more than us. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by CsRockefeller(m): 1:54pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
njimezz: Thanks, the pleasure is mine. |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Davyyd1993: 1:54pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Same thing happened to me when I bought IPhone 7 plus for my girlfriend. She went to camp in Imo recently and I sent her a lot of money for relocation. She didn't do the relocation. I gave her 10k weekly for the 3 weeks camp amd 50k for relocation and another 50k for lodging since she didn't do the relocation. My brother this girl left camp in Imo and went to Abuja with my money to a guy's house for another extra 3 weeks after their initial 3 weeks camp. When she came to lagos i knew something was wrong. I stylishly collect her phone then type Sex on her whatsapp guess what I saw. The guy Don drill my so called girlfriend to the extent she had tears in her private part and they were discussing about it that she should not have sex with me her boyfriend so she can heal pending she comes back to Abuja again My brother i confronted her she couldn't say anything. I just hand her the phone chase hee out of my house and blocked her since 3 months ago. Na the last time I heard of her be that. I sold her clothes to Hausas. Her mom called to beg i bullshit her and every member of her family. My guy leave that girl. I swear there are very good girls out there. I'm happily in good and responsible relationship now and even happy sef |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by BarrSly: 1:55pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
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Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by BarrSly: 1:57pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
lol I’m not even advising OP to go into any other serious relationship after this one. I used to be a cold nigga no heart no love however I met a girl recently who captured my heart that I was so scared. Guess what bro, I’m breaking up with her by month end and returning back to the cold world. StUriah: |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Elvisgolden: 1:58pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
She will still continue to bleep the guy after you have married her.................be wise |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by tjcare4u2005(m): 2:13pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
I swear down you be mumu. Leave innocent girl alone..hustle oooo |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by DMerciful(m): 2:16pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
She blocked him when she refused to give him her phone cos she knew he'd check....she probably deleted some chats. It's basic and I expect you to know Divoc19: |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Phunmyne(f): 2:23pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Emvico34: Your signature caught me. It's da bomb! 1 Like |
Re: I Caught Her Red Handed But She Said She Was Doing It For Me by Engr1(m): 2:24pm On Jun 26, 2021 |
Guy, if you know what is good for you just yaba
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