EmekaChiwe:


I will like to marry one of your sisters, since you can't respect yourself or protect them, i think it is my license to treat her like a trash when i marry into your family.

You better start learning the act of responsibility and protection

You are free to marry them but I have no sister that will behave in that slutty quarellous manner....Even if I hear it, I will blame her more than the husband...cos that behavior is the beginning of disrespect which if not tamed can ruin the marriage....she pushed the man to act that way.

fati2001:


he can even kill her.

Killing is a different case here

My candid advice to the guy is "Find someone that has been married for a long time and you admire the person and relate your problem and solution to the person. If he congratulate you at the end, then you know you'd made a good decision, if the case is otherwise, then make amends".
Also next time you have marital problem, find married guys and relate to them. They understand better not nairaland that majority here have been disappointed by Amaka so they are looking for who to transfer aggression on.

lilvicky68:

Killing is a different case here

you said he's free to do whatever he likes to her. ..so if like to kill her, HE'S FREE

FreeSpirited:

You are free to marry them but I have no sister that will behave in that slutty quarellous manner....Even if I hear it, I will blame her more than the husband...cos that behavior is the beginning of disrespect which if not tamed can ruin the marriage....she pushed the man to act that way.

Wisdom

fati2001:


you said he's free to do whatever he likes to her. ..so if like to kill her, HE'S FREE

Unless he's already a killer.. why he will just want to kill her..just like that?

FreeSpirited:
Just two months marriage, a woman is already acting like a bitch, like a prostitute, going to church with skimpy dress...imagine if she can wear a skimpy dress to church, then what kind of dress will she wear out when his husband is not around to see her? Husband cautioned her she said No ...and started causing quarell...she stormed out with same dress, telling husband she going to church right away...
Husband said she can't go..that they must address the matter...she walked out on her husband in that dress and still went out...
So u simply idiots expect the man to kneel down and apologize to her for not allowing that rubbish?
Just two months marriage o..she's already behaving unruly like a cheap street bitch....nonsense...
The husband did the best thing by locking her out, she can go back to the church and sleep..shebi her pastor is more important.. nonsense and foolish simm

You didn't have to reply the foooolllll.... He's simply an ediot

lilvicky68:

Unless he's already a killer.. why he will just want to kill her..just like that?

WHY DID HE LOCKED HER OUTSIDE..KNOWING THE SITUATIONS ON BUBU NATION..

IF HE CAN DO THIS, WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN NACOSS AND KILLER .

EmekaChiwe:


Exactly, you can stop eating her food, ignore her, give her silent treatment but making her sleep on a bench till morning just broke every law of how to protect a woman that you are married to.

The girl should go back to her house and they should return his money and gifts.

This is just a 2 month marriage, imagine what can happen in a year

Everytime protect protect
She no get hands and legs ni

fati2001:


WHY DID HE LOCKED HER OUTSIDE..KNOWING THE SITUATIONS ON BUBU NATION..

IF HE CAN DO THIS, WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN NACOSS AND KILLER .

He just locked her outside the house not outside the gate or outside the community...

lilvicky68:

He just locked her outside the house not outside the gate or outside the community...

FIRST ASK WHETHER THE HOUSE GET GATE OR FENCE..

THEN HE PROCEEDED TO HOTEL AND ALSO SWITCHING OFF THE HOTLINE BLING

Ayo2004:

Everytime protect protect
She no get hands and legs ni

Don't mind the foools as if they can protect a woman in the face of armed robbery or kidnappers......they love manipulating themselves with stupid words why allowing women to use the opportunity to treat them like thrash.

fati2001:


FIRST ASK WHETHER THE HOUSE GET GATE OR FENCE..

THEN HE PROCEEDED TO HOTEL AND ALSO SWITCHING OFF THE HOTLINE BLING

He tried to drop bench outside for her self.. the main thing here is that she has learnt her lesson..

FreeSpirited:

I'm sure she dint understand the gravity of the behavior or how it really disturbed his husband...husband was even urging her to let them settle the matter.....By now she will understand better

I know right ¿. Its sad tho. Just two months!! They're not even past the honeymoon phase and something as complex as this is already happening. God Abeg o

lilvicky68:

He tried to drop bench outside for her self.. the main thing here is that she has learnt her lesson..

shey nah him get the bench?
the time were dy do datingship he no see say she em" wear short dress?

fati2001:


shey nah him get the bench?
the time were dy do datingship he no see say she em" wear short dress?

He only said she shouldn't wear it to church not that he doesn't like it.. what is she showcasing again when she's already married..

lilvicky68:

He only said she shouldn't wear it to church not that he doesn't like it.. what is she showcasing again when she's already married..

nah lie.
he said after they came back from the service.
my question is that very morning before stepping out he didn't saw the dressing code, why keeping quiet.

lilvicky68:

He just locked her outside the house not outside the gate or outside the community...

And you are happy about that

FreeSpirited:

You are free to marry them but I have no sister that will behave in that slutty quarellous manner....Even if I hear it, I will blame her more than the husband...cos that behavior is the beginning of disrespect which if not tamed can ruin the marriage....she pushed the man to act that way.

So women are animals that need to be tamed.

I can see why this country belongs to the dog. Mr man work on yourself and your mentality.

No sane man makes his wife sleeps outside till morning, that shows he doesn't have a sense of responsibility and he is not fit to be called a Man.

EmekaChiwe:


So women are animals that need to be tamed.

I can see why this country belongs to the dog. Mr man work on yourself and your mentality.

No sane man makes his wife sleeps outside till morning, that shows he doesn't have a sense of responsibility and he is not fit to be called a Man.

If you don't desire a well mannered tamely woman, you can go and marry prostitutes in brothels and enjoy their excesses. I dnt know the kind of pvssy men u people are.

fati2001:


nah lie.
he said after they came back from the service.
my question is that very morning before stepping out he didn't saw the dressing code, why keeping quiet.

I'm sure he was busy with church preparations he didn't check her..even if he had told her she wouldn't have changed it since its what she had planned to wear that Sunday..

EmekaChiwe:


So women are animals that need to be tamed.

I can see why this country belongs to the dog. Mr man work on yourself and your mentality.

No sane man makes his wife sleeps outside till morning, that shows he doesn't have a sense of responsibility and he is not fit to be called a Man.

oga marry ur own and let her walk ontop your head,that's your business..leave another man to handle his family the way it suits him. You didn't pay for the bride price for him or lend him money to pay. So what's your stress? Have you been married before? Have you lived years with stubborn and selfish ladies you should have tamed in the beginning but because of simping,they later starts riding on you later. The story could be fake as well, wetin be your own inside?

FreeSpirited:

If you don't desire a well mannered tamely woman, you can go and marry prostitutes in brothels and enjoy their excesses. I dnt know the kind of pvssy men u people are.

You want a well mannered tamely woman when you are not well mannered.

A well mannered man won't act like an idiot.

You aren't an alpha, one of the most instinctive rule of an alpha is to protect his woman, you cant protect your wife talkless of your children. A family of dogs, know that instinct of protection better than you.

lilvicky68:

I'm sure he was busy with church preparations he didn't check her..even if he had told her she wouldn't have changed it since its what she had planned to wear that Sunday..

she wore a skimpy cloth in the morning which hubby complained about that she shouldn't do that again,she later did same in the same evening which he told her not to wear to program and she flouted his orders and left. If na u wetin u go do?

lilvicky68:

I'm sure he was busy with church preparations he didn't check her..even if he had told her she wouldn't have changed it since its what she had planned to wear that Sunday..

that's not a lame excuse.

EmekaChiwe:


You want a well mannered tamely woman when you are not well mannered.

A well mannered man won't act like an idiot.

You aren't an alpha, one of the most instinctive rule of an alpha is to protect his woman, you can protect your wife talkless of your children. A family of dogs, know that instinct of protection better than you.

Who is talking of Alhpa here. U kids regurgitating nonsense u don't understand...
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A man should care and protect a woman, all men do that. It's in our gene...and a strong real man should also discipline a woman when she steps beyond her boundaries not acting emotionally like a wet pvssy the way u are acting...

fati2001:


that's not a lame excuse.

Stop supporting her blindly..

EmekaChiwe:
A man who recently got married treated his 2 month old wife like a house girl, made her sleep outside till morning because she disobeyed his Order for wearing short clothes.

I just pity for that guy, that is how women fall into the hands of so called bad boys or one ex that treated her right.

Your job as a man is to protect your wife but that man has just broken one of the most simple law of protection in marriage.

Like who makes his wife sleeps on a bench till morning while he sleeps in a hotel all because he wants to discipline his wife.

To that man, you are not fit to be in a marriage

The story: https://www.nairaland.com/6625830/how-discipline-wife-disrespecting-me

you guys are just condemning that nigga but no one is saying the right thing to do
What should he have done since the wife went out and said he can't stop him
Are you guys that dumb to just condemn and not give solution
Stupid people everywhere

FreeSpirited:

Who is talking of Alhpa here. U kids regurgitating nonsense u don't understand...
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A man should care and protect a woman, all men do that. It's in our gene...and a strong real man should also discipline a woman when she steps beyond her boundaries not acting emotionally like a wet pvssy the way u are acting...

You are the kid here with a village mentality.

A man made his wife sleep outside in the cold till 5 am, is that protection?

So bullying a woman is what so called strong men do?

Next time, tell your wife to kneel down and close her eyes, all because you are a strong real man.

Your mentality is wack, women are not kids to be disciplined, they are grown up adult and you talk to them in a grown up way, you reward good behaviors and punish bad behavior by withdrawing your attention.


Go and learn how to earn respect.

Petyr1:
you guys are just condemning that nigga but no one is saying the right thing to do
What should he have done since the wife went out and said he can't stop him
Are you guys that dumb to just condemn and not give solution
Stupid people everywhere

So what solution have you given?

EmekaChiwe:


You are the kid here with a village mentality.

A man made his wife sleep outside in the cold till 5 am, is that protection?

So bullying a woman is what so called strong men do?

Next time, tell your wife to kneel down and close her eyes, all because you are a strong real man.

Your mentality is wack, women are not kids to be disciplined, they are grown up adult and you talk to them in a grown up way, you reward good behaviors and punish bad behavior by withdrawing your attention.


Go and learn how to earn respect.

U are dumb little boy with zero experience with women, and I can bet in years time, ur eyes go clear, nobody will teach u...na same women go clear ya eyes,,
u think staying with a woman is a child's play,, u think it's the useless theory u are quoting...? I was once like you...in my late teens and early twenties... experience will teach u better.
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...this is the last reply I will dignify u with..cos u are still a baby quoting theory u watch in Nollywood and Hollywood

EmekaChiwe:


So what solution have you given?

you condemning,what have you given and have you addressed the woman's disobedience?