authority2006:




I tell my wife everything about my financial status and business decisions, no secret. We started everything together from the scratch and I'm still carrying her along 100%. In fact, she just called me to ask about the cooperative loan I told her (before we departed this morning) that I was going to fast track. What's the big deal unless one is a waster of money which you don't want your wife to know about and start asking questions?

Sterope:
However, your
opening sentences doesn't sound like you are a great husband at all.

vickydankal:
Oga no vex ooo but I think you don't trust your wife with money of her own which means you are insecure, I don't know if there's a past with your wife that contributed to this or just fear of " she won't be obedient any more if she pays her own bills" that some men has.

Secondly, what's wrong with your wife giving money to her people? They are your in laws and when you have you should be giving them from time to time.

Thirdly, I don't think your wife is interested in knowing everything, it seems you are just secretive with information. You don't give her full details on vital things she should know about. Hence any one she gets to know she wants to influence it to her favor.

In conclusion.
I'm not supporting my fellow woman, I deduce the above from your writeup. My husband tells me everything but at the right time, there are things he will tell me before, during, after or may never tell me sometimes for my own benefit he won't tell me so that I won't act it out ( you know women nah) please be more open with most vital things about you she won't find reason to dig deep.

That's my 2 cent

praiseneo:
you yan dust still get mind count your cent and 90 something people sef like am

Ok

vickydankal:


You could have Yan your chaff so that people 2000 people can like it instead of quoting me don't you think?

praiseneo:
Save your stressed savage for any of the dumbfvcks that agreed with ur gibberish
Getat

abeniagbon:


It depend on the woman reason faculty. Like my wife case. She always has the zeal to help people. Like the other day , one man send his wife packing only for her to come and tell me that the woman said if she can put one of her bag in our flat. Then I said why do you need to ask me such questions for you know I wouldn't accept. A wife of an area boy... You don't need to come and ask me such questions. what if she has drugs in the said bag... What do you think will happen to us..

To me she doesn't know how mind her business.

abeniagbon:
It is very annoying to see woman trying to put mouth in men's business and investment.

I don't know know if one need to carry them along. But most time they want their wishes granted against man decision.

I don't know if I am the only one experiencing this.. what actually happen is I have a bus and my wife ask me to sell it on scrapt and give her the money to start up business... I told her we can still fix the bus and get it back to normal. But it sound very unpleasant to her...

Now if I intended on selling the bus while she start up a business..the next is is that you see her family kepp asking her for help and assistance before you know the whole money will be mystery.

Kindly advise:

vickydankal:
Oga no vex ooo but I think you don't trust your wife with money of her own which means you are insecure, I don't know if there's a past with your wife that contributed to this or just fear of " she won't be obedient any more if she pays her own bills" that some men has.

Secondly, what's wrong with your wife giving money to her people? They are your in laws and when you have you should be giving them from time to time.

Thirdly, I don't think your wife is interested in knowing everything, it seems you are just secretive with information. You don't give her full details on vital things she should know about. Hence any one she gets to know she wants to influence it to her favor.

In conclusion.
I'm not supporting my fellow woman, I deduce the above from your writeup. My husband tells me everything but at the right time, there are things he will tell me before, during, after or may never tell me sometimes for my own benefit he won't tell me so that I won't act it out ( you know women nah) please be more open with most vital things about you she won't find reason to dig deep.

That's my 2 cent

Blackdisciple:



What she meant was that she needs money to start up a business.

So try and get small cash for her to start a business while you think of fixing your bus.

sylve11:


You've judged him already.

Inspiration007:

Obviously, your conclusion is your 2 cents, every other thing you wrote up there's nonsense

vickydankal:


Brother take some water and take a deep breath, it will help you.

I didn't cause your frustration
I'm not buhari

abeniagbon:
It is very annoying to see woman trying to put mouth in men's business and investment.

I don't know know if one need to carry them along. But most time they want their wishes granted against man decision.

I don't know if I am the only one experiencing this.. what actually happen is I have a bus and my wife ask me to sell it on scrapt and give her the money to start up business... I told her we can still fix the bus and get it back to normal. But it sound very unpleasant to her...

Now if I intended on selling the bus while she start up a business..the next is is that you see her family kepp asking her for help and assistance before you know the whole money will be mystery.

Kindly advise:

praiseneo:
you yan dust still get mind count your cent and 90 something people sef like am

Ok

EndRape2:
She just gave the best advice ever, and misogynist like you , busy talking rubbish here .
Chew your grammar and get the fvck out
I no send u message abeg.
Go talk to your bf if u get one
All these rotten holes sef mtchw










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EndRape2:
All this mumu men sef, what is wrong if your wife decide to know everything about you? It is your duty to know everything about her, and it is her duty to know everything about you also. So why coming here to shout, when Bible says the two of you will become one fleash., So your wife I now woman trying to put mouth in man business

You need help. You better look for a Bible believing church let them teach you about marriage and what it entails.
















quote author=abeniagbon post=103478538]It is very annoying to see woman trying to put mouth in men's business and investment.

I don't know know if one need to carry them along. But most time they want their wishes granted against man decision.

I don't know if I am the only one experiencing this.. what actually happen is I have a bus and my wife ask me to sell it on scrapt and give her the money to start up business... I told her we can still fix the bus and get it back to normal. But it sound very unpleasant to her...

Now if I intended on selling the bus while she start up a business..the next is is that you see her family kepp asking her for help and assistance before you know the whole money will be mystery.

Kindly advise:

Sterope:
Trust me, I didn't

praiseneo:
frustration? Lol how una brains de function de baffle me
You de talk to who u know sabi from Adam you believe say the person de frustrated
Mugu de there de assume sh!t
Frustration kor ode!!
You no worth to brag for so ah go leave you to your foolishness

vickydankal:


Is it to hard to say your view without insult? Now that you have insulted me what's your contribution?

vickydankal:


You Sabi from Adam yet you couldn't comment, all you did was to attack me.

Brother no be like nah

donbachi:
Some women are builders and some destroyers.

Na u know ur wife.if she's a builder and manages more than u.i don't see anything bad in it.but,if a destroyer.dont give It a thought.

Like myself.my wife manages me and my funds well.but,dat does not mean weakness.

apatheticme:


The Broke pillers and Alfa mails like larryjonze will soon be here to tag you a simp or weak man because your wife is a virtuous woman who obviously manages money well and brings you happiness!

They'll never have access to such good women, hence their pain. They usually have headache whenever a woman is reportedly doing well in marriage!

You're obviously proud of her, God continue to keep your home!

vickydankal:
Oga no vex ooo but I think you don't trust your wife with money of her own which means you are insecure, I don't know if there's a past with your wife that contributed to this or just fear of " she won't be obedient any more if she pays her own bills" that some men has.

HarunaWest:

You said you have a bus next thing you said is we can fix the bus. The bus is your property not hers'. Learn to keep secrets, seems you talk too much. Just give women little details thats all. Once you want a woman to give her opinion or advice regarding pecuniary interest, she immediately vests her own gain on the forefront.

vickydankal:


Im so sorry for what you are passing though. Read my above comment

toren:


Not all women. Learn to talk with wisdom.