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Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by descarado: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
cococandy:U still don't get me. Women were sold in other countries, they have no say in other countries. Wives are treated less than concubines etc yet look at them now. Why can't we start fighting like them? All Asian countries are more patriarchal than us. We don't have reasons . Eg, how many married women among us Co Owen properties with their husbands? Many have cars bought by their husbands but their husbands name on the particulars. If something happen tomorrow, the woman will be thrown out like a piece of shit. My sis, we know what to do but we are too relaxed to do that cos we are afraid or society. |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 9:58pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
Descarado, e get why I dey like you sha... Solid points so far. Make your sisters do comot online and enter street with placard to fight for the better society which they so desire for women, same way their American and European counterparts did for themselves. Abi are they still wating for men who will help them out with that one too? Fvcking dependents forming strong women, lol.. Na only internet-based activism we dey see for snowflakes body. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 10:05pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
truthsayer009:LOL... The guy has been shooting himself on the foot from his very first post on the thread. See the words he used – set rules, dictate, demand... Whereas, it's the same pseudo-feminists supporting him here who have always had problems with those buzz words. Something which they would usually refer to as toxic patriarchy every other day is getting a round of applause here. This thread has been a comic relief mehn. 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Hathor5(f): 10:13pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
descarado: Yes but until then let the wanna be alpha leaders take responsibility for the wonderful zoo they have created. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by cooooooks(m): 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
Parasite spotted? memories1: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by memories1(f): 12:52am On Jul 13, 2021 |
cooooooks: Don't be silly. We do not know each other. Acquire some decorum, even if it's a faceless forum. Cheers. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by cooooooks(m): 3:49am On Jul 13, 2021 |
So a parasite then eh? memories1: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 7:44am On Jul 13, 2021 |
I agree with the OP as regards men being in power. Since inception,men have been the ones leading the country and it is clear they have failed,hence it is normal for the blame to be appropriated to them. Assuming the relevant/top leadership positions rotated between men and women,only then can both genders be blamed for the failure of the country. Women should take over let's see if they'll do anything different. Btw,giving women power or chance. Are women prohibited from contesting elections in Nigeria?NO. I usually see reports that females are more than males in this world,so how come males keep dominating them in all areas without them trying to change the status quo? I believe Nigerian women and other women in most parts of the world are suffering from Stockholm syndrome(probably inflicted by religion and culture,I keep saying it that those two things were created to control people mentally and otherwise. Until you're ready to ditch them you can't be free). If they're ready to lead or change the status quo they should do it and stop waiting for shit to be handed over to them on a platter of gold. Cc Cococandy Hathor5 Gerrard59 Crackhaus Pocohantas |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by pocohantas(f): 9:53am On Jul 13, 2021 |
Heads no wan be heads again? Selective headship. Wahala no too much like this?? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 10:58am On Jul 13, 2021 |
Plead: You know sometimes you don't have to jump into hot water before you'll know the repercurssion just a mere references of the victims is enough deterrence. We don't have to imagine what women leadership would look like when we already have women occupying vital position .... whats their performance did they out do the men ... no be so so loan zainab dey initialize, what did diezani achieve as petroleum & aviation minister. Lets even use the whole world since the inception of mankind as a case study ... was there any queen that ruled better than kings, presently is there any female president doing better than there male counterpart. Greece, kosovo, moldova, tanzanial all have current serving presidents, any difference Americans are so civil, liberal, perfect n all, why did they pick trump over Mrs clinton. i think asking women to lead is moreorless an overload on their capacity you can't give what you don't have. |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 11:05am On Jul 13, 2021 |
Plead:I don't think anyone here has disputed the above. The issue is about prostitution and the women who engage in it. Is it men that have been in charge and should be held responsible for the state of the country? Yes! Is it men that should be held responsible when girls/women sell their bodies through prostitution? Absolutely not! If we start excusing every vice and blaming it on poverty, then we might as well not blame anyone for doing whatever they have chosen to do in order to earn their daily bread. Ritualists, kidnappers, HK boys & girls, prostitution, armed robbery, etc. None of this is the fault of those who indulge in them. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by angelfallz(m): 11:26am On Jul 13, 2021 |
Please what is HK boys and girls? crackhaus: |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
larryjonze: I don't understand this your argument. People said you've failed or not performing, the sensible thing to do is to allow them take over and see how they'll perform, if things will get better or worse. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 12:14pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
crackhaus: You're right on this part. Gerrard59 is yet to answer your question on women who engage in prostitution in the so called developed countries that their men didn't fail,why do they engage in prostitution? Is it still because they were failed by men? The only part in gerrard59's write up that I agree with is the part where he said only men have been ruling the country so they're responsible for the fixing of the country. Every other thing he wrote is bullshit. |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
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Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by angelfallz(m): 12:31pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Plead: Well i don't expect you to understand, if the female president in greece, moldova, tanzania could not do it any better i wonder why any man in his right mind would think of all race naija women will do better. reference is key when unraveling politics. when you fail as a head he sensible thing to do is get up & restrategize ... not giveup If you're so obsessed with female leadership why not start from ur home, be a pioneer of what you preach 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Jman06(m): 1:29pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
I have never read a post as foolish and annoying as this in awhile! And I used to rate this poster high on this forum, not knowing that he's such pussy wiped dunderhead! So disappointed! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
crackhaus:Count me out I'm a hell of a dependent woman, its my right to be dependent on my future husband. Why haven't you quote me all this while, what are you feeling like,do I need to remind you that I like attention, be quoting me once in a while OK? |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 4:24pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Plead:No oo, those women probably enjoy the taste of díck, and are not indulging in it because they want food to eat or a roof over their heads... It's just harmless fun for them. But watch how he will come here to explain how the number of prostitutes in Nigeria is more than those in developed countries, so this automatically makes it different.. lol. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 4:27pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Rozcol:At least you're honest, not like some of your fellow Nigerian women that owe their current level in life to the generosity of a man/men... yet will still have mouth to talk shii. 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
crackhaus:Remember I said my future hubby ooo before you start mentioning men hian |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by emmaodet: 4:48pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Hello bro. How is business and life in general? Missed you |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 4:49pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Rozcol:All join... 5 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by SeaTrade(m): 5:02pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
emmaodet:Hi baba, Dey alright ooo,just work dey stress person and all that. How your side na? |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by emmaodet: 5:15pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Fine too. Life is good but biz as been up and down. Human factor is really affecting my biz but am putting things in place to correct that. |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by SeaTrade(m): 5:18pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
emmaodet:Business is very hard bro ,I weighs down even the best. Everyday is just a learning process and mistakes we make that need correction. I'm glad you have identified your problem and is correcting it as well,kudos man. Best wishes. |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by emmaodet: 5:22pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Thanks bro and you too |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by armyofone(m): 6:17pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Look deeper into those engaging in prostitution in developed countries - tentacles of dysfunction brought about mostly by a male. For the family, society, community, country etc to succeed, we have to learn to work side by side with each other - giving anyone with the potential the needed support irrespective of their gender. At Op, the Nigeria religion/culture is the bane of the society not progressing well. Plead: |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 7:30pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
armyofone: It never ends with you people, does it? So anyone who engages in prostitution in developed countries is dysfunctional. It's not because they need the money to feed/house themselves huh? You can't be serious... 4 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by crackhaus: 7:38pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
Armyofone, see dysfunctional women fighting to have their legal fuckability rights... Guess what? Most of them are definitely feminists if you look deeper. What your opinion means in simple terms is that anyone who supports the legalization of prostitution is clearly dysfunctional, and that will include a good majority of Democrats including one or two in the present White House. 8 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Nigerian Men Have Failed Their Women by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 13, 2021 |
larryjonze: Your level of misogyny is very high. If female presidents failed elsewhere does that mean they'll automatically fail here? You wouldn't know until you give them a chance. Let them fix the country since some think it's easy,if they take over and the country gets worse then they'll shut up. 2 Likes |
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