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Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Depressed101: 7:25am On Jul 11, 2021 |
izzou:e go shock you,the way she gone change when she start seeing your money pop into the account, 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Sprumbaba: 7:50am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Hello No. over a decade of marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 7:52am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Bola146:How can Husband and Wife not be trustworthy to each other ? What is the essence of Marriage if not trust ? Why marrying, cohabiting, sleeping together and eating the food in fact living with somebody you can't trust to protect and defend your interests? As far as me I'm concern ... Joint Account is the best bet for couples ... You must have individual accounts then your family account aka Joint Account from where you will both bear the responsibilities for your family ! 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 7:55am On Jul 11, 2021 |
izzou:When they should marry brain they will go and marry ass and boobs while ladies marries fine boy .... No doubt, Nigerian Men have failed their women!! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:14am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Goldenheart:Joint Account will be used to meet your family needs (Foodstuffs, house maintenance, school fees, clothing for the children, Groceries etc) ..... When you withdraw from the joint account, you are definitely spending it for "us" !! Personal Account to meet each personal needs such as your extended families responsibilities and other brouhaha.... You dare not withdraw from Joint Account to meet Personal needs but of course you can borrow from it and return it back and Joint Account can also borrow from you .... There must be two Joint Accounts Recurrent Joint Accounts(Daily Needs) Capital Joint Accounts (Capital Projects) !! A family without rule and discipline is not a Family but Animal Pride ... even in standard animal pride such as Lion, There is Discipline and if you flout the rule, the dominant male will clear your doubt, if the dominant male fvcks up, the dominant females will clear his doubt and can chase him out of the pride (Dethrone him) !! A family must have rules and every member of the family shall abide by it and extended families must know your family for her Rule ... 3 Likes |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:24am On Jul 11, 2021 |
buzquet:The only thing you should endeavour to be in charge is the brain of your wife ... Every other thing she must be in charge You are the Chairman of the Family .. You are in Charge of Strategies and Helping in Operations where necessary... She is the CEO/Managing Director ..... She is in Charge of Operations of the Family especially Financial Management Both of you must work together not apart .. The day Chairman and CEO of a company have issues with each other ... That company will start having issues and all stakeholders will be affected even Generator in your house and the spoons! 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:28am On Jul 11, 2021 |
frozen70:Why must you marry your "enemy" ? Why won't you marry your friend and keep fuelling the fire of that friendship... Protect and Defend that "Friendship" at all cost , at all cost and keep earning each other trust .... with God, with each other and if possible, Go Africa on any intercession!! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:31am On Jul 11, 2021 |
nedekid:He should also have separate account too ... the wife should have used her money to buy gift for her mother ? ... Don't touch my children's account to buy for your mom .... A full fledged Man will not be violated anyway .... A full fledged woman will also not be violated .... There will be mutual Respect, Regard and Fear 2 Likes |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by ImaIma1(f): 8:32am On Jul 11, 2021 |
We've never had. We operate our separate accounts and it works just fine. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:42am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Nonexisting:Your Wahala much ... Izzou said His Wife ... Now you gift all your life earnings to your GF (not wife) and you are the Simp here .. Also what critical evaluation did you make that justified granting your financial life to your girlfriend... Girlfriend is still a stage of Evaluation of each other .....Fiancee is when you have dot your Is and Cross your Ts just waiting to be sealed together .... No matter how good a girlfriend , how can you put someone that's yet to be a stakeholder in your life on your life savings .... "Your life Savings" .... Many of you don't understand marriage and relationships.... In fact, there are some friends you can't lend them money and expect them to pay back .... Joint Account is just meant to run your family ... (You, Your wife and una children) ... It is not an account to put your entire life but joint account must contain atleast 65% of una income .... 35% to be retained to meet personal engagements.... You dashed your girlfriend monies ... Stop Lamenting ... you misjudged and every one misjudged no sheeeeeeett .... Move on ... Next time, Evaluate critically and test the water with a piece of your feet before carrying two legs jump enter water wey go carry you comot! 2 Likes |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by membranus: 8:47am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Lawrry: I pity you for the day when the money runs dry from your own source. It is then you will know the inherent self-interest mindset of women. Until then, enjoy the cruise Bro. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 8:53am On Jul 11, 2021 |
TheMostComplex1:so if you travel to Sokoto ... You wife in Lagos must wait for you to come home before she spends money Some of you already planned a failed home even before marriage !! All these careful, careful will ruin una family because each parties are already planning insecurity and insincerity even before the real show ..... Never invest in anything or any relationship more than what you can afford to lose ... Also, never relate with weyrey ... if you now do your best and shi.iiit still happens , then as a man and a big man ... Take your Damn L and Swerve... All things being equal nothing you commit your soul towards and bound it with God will never collapse ... Because God will enrich your brain with all the Engineering Skills to build and Maintain the structure ! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by benson81(m): 9:04am On Jul 11, 2021 |
A no no! If any of the partner is richer excessively than the other, they should fund the other person's account from time to time. This joint account wahala dey cause gbese ooo. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Sebgajere(m): 9:23am On Jul 11, 2021 |
What for? My account alone belongs to the whole family. So there isn't need |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by frozen70(f): 9:41am On Jul 11, 2021 |
DonroxyII: You won't understand till you are involve 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by razzydoo(m): 9:42am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Tho i'm not married yet, but as an azaman and a crown prince (not of saudi sha), no to joint anything. Wetin money go cause ehn?! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DEMZEE(m): 9:48am On Jul 11, 2021 |
HRprof: That's why we are seeing the results in western societies where men are second class citizens and have being emasculated. U can see the high rates of divorce in which 80% are being initiated by women. Women are not designed to lead men by nature. Women are hive minded creatures, they are born followers |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DEMZEE(m): 9:49am On Jul 11, 2021 |
erico2k2: Obviously she will know Women are not equal to their husbands in marriage, men lead women follow period! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DEMZEE(m): 9:56am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: Men are designed to lead by nature. Women are designed to be followers. Men and women are fundamentally different Marriages work best wen the man is in the leadership position not wen the woman is in the leadership position. Women are hypergamous and want and desire men who are superior to them in every area of life. Women don't date downwards for fvcks sake
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Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 10:37am On Jul 11, 2021 |
frozen70:lol, we all have our individual differences but if we should accept our wrongs and ready to correct ... anyway ... I'm a dude and my job is to influence my woman better !! Most marriage failures to me is caused by Men!! How Nigerian Men failed Nigerian women indeed!! 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Lawrry(m): 10:49am On Jul 11, 2021 |
membranus:You don't need to pity, cause it has once happened, just last year my bank asked me to go, and I had no meaningful Job for 13months, 1year,1month, should I surprise you? We continued the same process, I picked a teaching job during that time, and she earns times 4 of my salary. My brother no one knew I was broke. The thing is, if this same woman will prepare my food and has the opportunity to poison me, why should I have doubt her? Don't forget, what works for me , my not work for you, so, know you wife very well. Your wife should be a blessing to you not a suspect. "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from God. My brother, when your wife is not a favour from God, there is problem. Although, it took me to break, 2 serious relationships, to get this woman, one was 4years, the other was 2years, but I was just determine to get it right, and one I got to this woman, I knew I have gotten it right. Bro, we are responsible for our choice, what God does is to back you up when you choose. I may be wrong or right, just make sure you know your woman beyond ordinary. 3 Likes |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by frozen70(f): 11:36am On Jul 11, 2021 |
DonroxyII: Now you are talking. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by membranus: 11:36am On Jul 11, 2021 |
Lawrry: Well, I thank God for you, being lucky in your choice of a wife. Many of us are not that lucky. When it comes to their own money (not talking of trust here), many wives don't find it easy to share it with their husbands when their spouse source of income becomes dry or insufficient. 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by lordally(m): 12:41pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: Maturity at its PEAK!! 1 Like |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:58pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Don't mistaken responsibilities for roles, they are two different things all together, in the context of this discussion on this trend. Responsibilities defines the scope of influence or jurisdiction a man has over his home and that of the woman to the home. It is the man's responsibility to love, provide, and protect his family. It is the responsibility of the woman to respect her husband, give birth, take care of the home and nurture what the man provides for maximum benefit. Generally speaking where there is sanity, the man defines the general dynamics of how the home should be and grow and the woman see to it that that is attained. Roles talks about a function assumed by a person in a particular situation, delegating a task based on core competencies is the same as relegating your responsibilities, it's just that for better outcomes, you'd prefer the other partner handle the task. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by meobizy(f): 1:03pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
In marriage three accounts are necessary; the man’s, the woman’s and a joint account. That makes two sources for the man to draw money and three for the woman. The kids will live better off for the plan. If a woman thinks being a housewife is a lifestyle option these days then she’s in for a long and disappointing ride. Most semi-illiterate people I know have working wives talk less of the well-schooled. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DEMZEE(m): 1:05pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: A man who knows his value and understands women's nature won't see his wife as his equal and he won't have a joint account with her. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Yusufisraelj(m): 1:22pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Well we see differently, enjoy your Sunday my brother. |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by Gfskw: 5:19pm On Jul 11, 2021 |
No |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by SavageResponse(m): 11:35am On Jul 12, 2021 |
DonroxyII: This is only applicable if your wife is frugal and responsible with money. If you have a show-off wife that likes to live above her income and you give her access to your finances na sorry be your name! |
Re: Should Husband And Wife Have A Joint Account? by DonroxyII: 12:25pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
SavageResponse:That's why you must Marry your type.. Marriage is a very big venture but human has turn it into Joke ..... Husband and Wife must work together towards common agenda .... But when u fvck someone daughter and belle show .... abi u just settle for just settle sake ... na there wahala dey come ..... Where u do all the needful and both of you are friends definitely you will become one entity and reason along same course (that's Marriage) Even UBA, Zenith Bank must not be more Discipline in terms of operations than your Marriage.... Marriage no be play ... Na Big Venture .... It's like Driving a Ship from Nigeria to Russia ... Only Well trained Captain and Crew succeed .. Others will be washed away by Storms and Hurricane and get swallowed by Whale or Shark .... ! |
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