I'd try to make this short.

Background story: I met this lady I met on my way from Lagos to Ibadan, we sat next to each other in the bus, along the way we started talking(I didn't initiate the convoy as I wasn't really ready to talk/chat. But we conversed anyways, she was to stop at the bus stop that leads to UI( I've forgotten the name, she's a UI student) but followed our bus to Iwo road and stood by me until I boarded Ife bus, on our parting I made this mistake of exchanging phone numbers with her.
#End

Now here's the problem guys, ever since that day we exchanged numbers(it would be exactly two weeks tomorrow), her calls & IM messages have peaked above 300(no exaggeration) she's now my daily alarm. Two days after we met, she proposed her love for me, I told her that I'm not in and gave her my reasons, but she won't stop.

I blocked her early this week and she begins to call me with her friend's line, I have to unblock her. Last week, she told me she wants to come around to Ife by the weekend, I declined, now the same thing is happening presently. After declining again, she's threatening me that she would come to Ife tomorrow, that I wouldn't want her to get hurt by not seeing her, I blatantly told her NO, but she's been pleading and crying

Honestly, I've never seen anything like this before, I like the girl in question, but I don't love her, more so, I'm not looking for any relationship at the moment.
Please what can I do to send her away forever? I've tried my best but she's not yielding

Update: It’s July 19, 2021, and I’m already feeling overwhelmed, I feel like I'm gradually liking her more, but I don't want to. Deep down me, I know that this ain't love.

I've blocked her, I've directed her calls to a female neighbor, she also did try to get rid of her, but it isn't working, she has made me lose several important calls in the guise of avoiding her several strange numbers after blocking her, now she's unblocked and I've started picking her calls, and I'm been overwhelmed by her antics at the moment. I'm fed up(

Drop her number here

You are already doing it,
Red pill two doze every day

Opak001:
You are already doing it,
Red pill two doze every day

Please don't come with these pills things, I'm hard and decisive to the, but I never see this kain thing before. Nothing wey I never tell this girl, but she isn't yielding.. I con dey wonder self say hope no village people in disguise.

Many big things on my way bro.

Lee99:
Drop her number here

This ain't a solution bro. Give me what I requested and I MIGHT mail it to you.

Op, I'll suggest you do something, give the guy who asked for her number the number but in the grounds that he should let her know he got it from you, women hate such and she may cool down on her pursuit.

In as much as, she doesn't know your location in ife, just bone her.

managingpartner:
In as much as, she doesn't know your location in ife, just bone her.

Exactly what I was about to say. OP, does she know where you stay in Ife??

Why are you stressing yourself over nothing?

Whala no gree finish again oo

Baba, take it as you see it. It's a platter of Gold thing. Give her the most boring sex ever that her love meter will reset.

BaEnki:
I'd try to make this short.

Background story: I met this lady I met on my way from Lagos to Ibadan, we sat next to each other in the bus, along the way we started talking(I didn't initiate the convoy as I wasn't really ready to talk/chat. But we conversed anyways, she was to stop at the bus stop that leads to UI( I've forgotten the name, she's a UI student) but followed our bus to Iwo road and stood by me until I boarded Ife bus, on our parting I made this mistake of exchanging phone numbers with her.
#End

Now here's the problem guys, ever since that day we exchanged numbers(it would be exactly two weeks tomorrow), her calls & IM messages have peaked above 300(no exaggeration) she's now my daily alarm. Two days after we met, she proposed her love for me, I told her that I'm not in and gave her my reasons, but she won't stop.

I blocked her early this week and she begins to call me with her friend's line, I have to unblock her. Last week, she told me she wants to come around to Ife by the weekend, I declined, now the same thing is happening presently. After declining again, she's threatening me that she would come to Ife tomorrow, that I wouldn't want her to get hurt by not seeing her, I blatantly told her NO, but she's been pleading and crying

Honestly, I've never seen anything like this before, I like the girl in question, but I don't love her, more so, I'm not looking for any relationship at the moment.
Please what can I do to send her away forever? I've tried my best but she's not yielding

Maybe she has seen a big boy, I believe maybe you dress to kill on that day you two traveled together..... Just bone her as long as you aren't interested and don't pick or reply her messages or calls but as u no want, you can help a bro by mailing her digit to me......

Boning no dey work o, I don bone tire, calls upon calls. Blocking self no work.

Yeah, she doesn't know where I stay on Ife, although I have this feeling she would come, I think she's a maniac kind of.

Big boy eh?? I'm not a big boy oo, and I don't even overdo things/or do things to impress anyone. I love simplicity.

BaEnki:
I'd try to make this short.

Background story: I met this lady I met on my way from Lagos to Ibadan, we sat next to each other in the bus, along the way we started talking(I didn't initiate the convoy as I wasn't really ready to talk/chat. But we conversed anyways, she was to stop at the bus stop that leads to UI( I've forgotten the name, she's a UI student) but followed our bus to Iwo road and stood by me until I boarded Ife bus, on our parting I made this mistake of exchanging phone numbers with her.
#End

Now here's the problem guys, ever since that day we exchanged numbers(it would be exactly two weeks tomorrow), her calls & IM messages have peaked above 300(no exaggeration) she's now my daily alarm. Two days after we met, she proposed her love for me, I told her that I'm not in and gave her my reasons, but she won't stop.

I blocked her early this week and she begins to call me with her friend's line, I have to unblock her. Last week, she told me she wants to come around to Ife by the weekend, I declined, now the same thing is happening presently. After declining again, she's threatening me that she would come to Ife tomorrow, that I wouldn't want her to get hurt by not seeing her, I blatantly told her NO, but she's been pleading and crying

Honestly, I've never seen anything like this before, I like the girl in question, but I don't love her, more so, I'm not looking for any relationship at the moment.
Please what can I do to send her away forever? I've tried my best but she's not yielding

I've been there a million times , its strange to understand why this happens or why they always refuse to leave no matter what u do or how angry you get. Out of the 5/7girls I've experienced this with, the one that gave up earliest took 1 month. Sorry bro, it shall pass, I know how much burden you're feeling

BaEnki:
Boning no dey work o, I don bone tire, calls upon calls. Blocking self no work.

Yeah, she doesn't know where I stay on Ife, although I have this feeling she would come, I think she's a maniac kind of.

Big boy eh?? I'm not a big boy oo, and I don't even overdo things/or do things to impress anyone. I love simplicity.

Like I said just ignore her calls and text, if she wanna die let her die then......

Lol this stuff really happens... It had happened to me before... countless calls and love messages....
Sometimes when she calls, I give the phone to my junior sister for her to claim she is my woman ...This girl didn't relent... Anyway the only luck I had is that she didn't know where I was staying...
Lol anyway I was the one that caused everything , if I didn't call her when slipped her number on paper to me.... she wouldn't have gotten my number to worry my peaceful life

Tell her to come to ife then switch off your phone

Lee99:
Drop her number here

SECONDED.

We'll teach you how it's done boy

Uncle93:


I've been there a million times , its strange to understand why this happens or why they always refuse to leave no matter what u do or how angry you get. Out of the 5/7girls I've experienced this with, the one that gave you earliest took 1 month. Sorry bro, it shall pass, I know how much burden you're feeling

Na so

Lee99:
Drop her number here

A well respected elder have spoken
Now do the needful mr man!

Some have food but cannot eat

Some can eat but have no food

It is well

When they show love una go say dem dey disturb

Na when una jam the wicked ones una go appreciate

I'll keep ignoring her then, seems like that's the best advice so far.

For those asking for her number, it would be immature of me and also denigrating to her personality by posting it here. I respect my privacy so much, so I go respect her own too.

Phazotron, there's a wide margin between love and infatuation, this is infatuation at its best, I may be proved wrong though.

BaEnki:
I'll keep ignoring her then, seems like that's the best advice so far.

For those asking for her number, it would be immature of me and also denigrating to her personality by posting it here. I respect my privacy so much, so I go respect her own too.

Phazotron, there's a wide margin between love and infatuation, this is infatuation at its best, I may be proved wrong though.

I understand.

The irony of life is that the person who you like is treating you the same way you're treating her.

Life doesn't always give us what our imagination wants

I guess she's ugly, na so one ugly babe worry me, I taught to myself should I knack her or not, but las las I no knack, I just ignored her and she tire for me by force.

BaEnki:
I'd try to make this short.

Background story: I met this lady I met on my way from Lagos to Ibadan, we sat next to each other in the bus, along the way we started talking(I didn't initiate the convoy as I wasn't really ready to talk/chat. But we conversed anyways, she was to stop at the bus stop that leads to UI( I've forgotten the name, she's a UI student) but followed our bus to Iwo road and stood by me until I boarded Ife bus, on our parting I made this mistake of exchanging phone numbers with her.
#End

Now here's the problem guys, ever since that day we exchanged numbers(it would be exactly two weeks tomorrow), her calls & IM messages have peaked above 300(no exaggeration) she's now my daily alarm. Two days after we met, she proposed her love for me, I told her that I'm not in and gave her my reasons, but she won't stop.

I blocked her early this week and she begins to call me with her friend's line, I have to unblock her. Last week, she told me she wants to come around to Ife by the weekend, I declined, now the same thing is happening presently. After declining again, she's threatening me that she would come to Ife tomorrow, that I wouldn't want her to get hurt by not seeing her, I blatantly told her NO, but she's been pleading and crying

Honestly, I've never seen anything like this before, I like the girl in question, but I don't love her, more so, I'm not looking for any relationship at the moment.
Please what can I do to send her away forever? I've tried my best but she's not yielding

Op you Dey whine my nippple abi, drop your chat

phazotron:


I understand.

The irony of life is that the person who you like is treating you the same way you're treating her.

Life doesn't always give us what our imagination wants

Yeah, irony of life, someone giving me the same treatment? Not on the table, never was!

I’m not even giving her any treatment, just keeping my distance. I don't know her motives.

Obakashdee:
Op you Dey whine my nippple abi, drop your chat

I dey whine yah sacs

I wonder if she sleeps at all.

Ororocelemi:
I guess she's ugly, na so one ugly babe worry me, I taught to myself should I knack her or not, but las las I no knack, I just ignored her and she tire for me by force.

Hahaha, strange girls, this one def ain't ugly.

I've had so many encounters with these girls, honestly, it's been so difficult to truly love one ever since I lost my girl.

Op she wan come destroy you... Them send her ... Don't give in

BaEnki:


I dey whine yah sacs

I wonder if she sleeps at all.

Omo this one no be whining oo
Just Dey harrass you anyhow

BaEnki:



Hahaha, strange girls, this one def ain't ugly.

I've had so many encounters with these girls, honestly, it's been so difficult to truly love one ever since I lost my girl.

Mad ooo, I fear this one to ooo

It's simple, just give the phone to any female friend of yours to pose as your girlfriend asin she should be the one always taking her calls

Lee99:
Drop her number here

as an African man u're not suppose to eat dead meat u eat the meat u killed with ur own hands