1. You believe if you are nice to people and to gals, girls will also be nice to you. That seems like a common belief you've be conditioned to believe by society and religion, including nice Well, it doesn't work in dating world. Disabuse your mind from such belief. Being nice to a gal unnecesary can make her see u like a low value person who is trying hard to get her.
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2 Your Christian upbringing....
This is one of the most difficult to overcome. Your religion condition ur mind to be serious and responsible so that in future u will meet a responsible woman who will give u a happy home and love u..lol. To shock you...Life is not that straight forward, and people don't have manuals for living...
....If u apply Christianity to how ladies behave, u will only suffer ursef. So u have to learn the game. Ladies don't live by Christian moral rules when they date. E no concern them.
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3. You believe you can buy attraction or make a gal like u by being nice. A woman automatically respond to certain appearance, behavior, talking pattern and carriage in a man...if u lack it, even if u use money, ladies won't find u attractive, at best they will eat ur money and go. You have to learn that mannerism, body language and way of interracting that women find attractive. That's the difference btw guys that get gals easily and the ones that are always frustrated.
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4. You are too serious when u meet a woman: Very common for people who are desperate about getting galfriend. When you show desperation and seriousness, ladies run away..lol. you must have experienced it.
You have to be jovial, openminded, not giving a fvck and good at making fun of ladies to easily get their attention. Other than acting like a pastor who is serious to cast out demon when praying..lol
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5. You don't want to annoy a lady so u are being too careful and u apologize like a thief at little mistake...some guys will intentionally annoy a lady and laugh over it, and still find a way to talk calmness into her..and they continue where they stopped. So no big deal making her angry..the point is to know how to strike the balance and not acting like a jerk.
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6. You believe a woman is an angel, is too beautiful, is too perfect, is too decent, is too this, is too different..lol...all those bullshit to scam yasef. No matter how she presents herself..always believe someone had fvvcked her doggy in the past...Even if she's virgin....always believe she's doing sexchat with a random guy on internet...so stop making her look like an angel that u have to give all ur attention and money to impress
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simps are needed in this world so real women know who the real men out there are...

When I was still a teenage simp

A girl once asked me that, do I ever get angry?

She said why don't I even shout on her once in a while

I still SIMPly said, No o, I can't shout on u o, u know I love u nah...

The girl no dey give me face again after some time lol

I don't know why but I've never simped right from onset. Back then my babes do ask why I don't talk much even after sex. They said silent guys could be dangerous.
Back then after knacks with babes I'll light up my weed. But they were all loving my doings so they kept coming for more

MrBrownJay1:
simps are needed in this world so real women know who the real men out there are...

So you are no more a proud simp? Or am I mistaken you for someone else ?

Themainboy22:
So you are no more a proud simp? Or am I mistaken you for someone else ?

pls dont mistake a real man with a simp... just because i dont abide by some immature childish notion that some deluded redpillers spew on NL. i dont hate women (or see them as the enemy), like many of them clueless redpillers.

MrBrownJay1:


pls dont mistake a real man with a simp... just because i dont abide by some immature childish notion that some deluded redpillers spew on NL. i dont hate women (or see them as the enemy), like many of them clueless redpillers.

What is the difference between a real man and a simp sir.

MrBrownJay1:


pls dont mistake a real man with a simp... just because i dont abide by some immature childish notion that some deluded redpillers spew on NL. i dont hate women (or see them as the enemy), like many of them clueless redpillers.

What do you have against Redpillers. I believe they know some stuff u don't know

AntiSimp:
What do you have against Redpillers. I believe they know some stuff u don't know

i believe redpillers have lost the main issue/msg... the minute a man hates all women is the minute he has lost the plot, and might as well become gay... furthermore, the fact that you automatically "wrongly assume" that they know more than me, without even listen/knowing my full message, shows exactly what i am talking about. you've been brainwashed!!!!! make your own mind, use your brain and decide whats right or wrong in ANYONE's msg... dont just follow follow everything a redpiller says, especially the garbage that some of them are spewing on NL.

MrBrownJay1:


i believe redpillers have lost the main issue/msg... the minute a man hates all women is the minute he has lost the plot, and might as well become gay... furthermore, the fact that you automatically "wrongly assume" that they know more than me, without even listen/knowing my full message, shows exactly what i am talking about. you've been brainwashed!!!!! make your own mind, use your brain and decide whats right or wrong in ANYONE's msg... dont just follow follow everything a redpiller says, especially the garbage that some of them are spewing on NL.

I dint say they know more than you... I said I believe they know "SOME" stuff u don't know..
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Meanwhile, u may hate redpillers here for being loud and tenacious about their gospel...Likeness is a matter of choice
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.But hope you don't hate "The redpill" as a message for men sexual strategy?

Another SIMPly spotted.

MrBrownJay1:


i believe redpillers have lost the main issue/msg... the minute a man hates all women is the minute he has lost the plot, and might as well become gay... furthermore, the fact that you automatically "wrongly assume" that they know more than me, without even listen/knowing my full message, shows exactly what i am talking about. you've been brainwashed!!!!! make your own mind, use your brain and decide whats right or wrong in ANYONE's msg... dont just follow follow everything a redpiller says, especially the garbage that some of them are spewing on NL.

Redpillers dont hate women

Delete that false mindset from your mind

Themainboy22:
What is the difference between a real man and a simp sir.

- a real man is a person who is not afraid to tell a woman what time it is...a simp will instead go along with any nonsense a woman tells him to do/be (whether he likes it or not)
- a real man stands for what he believes in while a simp always stands for what would make a woman happy.
- a real man is not afraid to be fully honest with his emotions/feeling, a simp simply does/says what women wants.
- a real man understands the need of a woman in his life without being desperate for a woman... a simp cant live without a woman and therefore would do anything (aka lower himself, his self respect and/or his beliefs) to be with a woman.
- a real man doesnt need to throw money at a woman to attract/entice her into his life, while a simp will solely use money to attract/entice women into his life, then afterwards be surprised that this "pay as you go" olosho left him for a richer man.
.- a real man will never take shiit from an ungrateful/disrespectful/unfaithful woman, while a simp will instead find excuses as to why this woman is the way she is (and probably blame himself for it)

...i can go ON and ON on the subject!

SeekerofTruth1:
Redpillers dont hate women

Delete that false mindset from your mind

let me take "you" as an example (you can go dig up the countless discussions i had with NL redpillers on the subject)... you are quick to say that men shouldnt take love advice from women, while i believe that the minute you dismiss ALL women's views (simply because a few of them are donkeys) makes me believe you hate women. the fact that you would even believe that no women could give you a proper r/ship advice, says a lot about your mindset towards women.

as i always say: women are not the enemy, the good for nothing broke aaass begging disrespectful/ungrateful/unfaithful ones are!

There are different types of girls and we use different styles for them. All girls are not the same.

[quote author=MrBrownJay1 post=103813927]

Women are different same way Men are.
All women are not the same, same way all men are not the same.

MrBrownJay1:


- a real man is a person who is not afraid to tell a woman what time it is...a simp will instead go along with any nonsense a woman tells him to do/be (whether he likes it or not)
- a real man stands for what he believes in while a simp always stands for what would make a woman happy.
- a real man is not afraid to be fully honest with his emotions/feeling, a simp simply does/says what women wants.
- a real man understands the need of a woman in his life without being desperate for a woman... a simp cant live without a woman and therefore would do anything (aka lower himself, his self respect and/or his beliefs) to be with a woman.
[b][color=#990000]- a real man doesnt need to throw money at a woman to attract/entice her into his life, while a simp will solely use money to...

Don't you think your explanation have some connotations with the tenets of of the redpill?, And lastly how does the repillers hate on women?.

Themainboy22:
Don't you think your explanation have some connotations with the tenets of of the redpill?, And lastly how does the repillers hate on women?.

of course we do... but as i said, many NL redpillers have lost the main issue/msg and instead turn against (dismiss) all women completely.

LegitGuy22:
Women are different same way Men are.
All women are not the same, same way all men are not the same.

... thus my definition of real men VS simps, or good women VS pay as you go oloshos disguised as GF

MrBrownJay1:


... thus my definition of real men VS simps, or good women VS pay as you go oloshos disguised as GF

No man is a simp, u are too negative, u are too insultive, change your Mr. Proud mindset.
Spread love and encouragement.

LegitGuy22:
No man is a simp, u are too negative, u are too insultive, change your Mr. Proud mindset.
Spread love and encouragement.

its called NO SUGAR COATING i will always call a spade A SPADE and as much as many men (like yourself) may not like my above message/statement.. that is indeed "my" opinion on the subject, just as you have the right to believe that no man is a simp.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!