pocohantas:


Toxicity is subjective. I have seen men almost have cardiac arrest because a woman said she can’t cook. They will call her a feminist. In reality, men are marrying women who can’t cook. Once again, focus on your wonderful woman. Treat her right. Don’t cheat on her. Give her the world. Rub it in the faces of these evil toxic feminists…

Maybe, just maybe, they would see the dividends of being a woman like your woman and being with men like you.

pocohantas:


I honestly do not understand why you are barking. If there is anything she has done, she has walked the talk, but you are still not satisfied. You have somehow made it about her age, which shows your problem is just to cause ruckus at every given time.

First, I hope we (including her) all know the difference between the BRIDE PRICE and MARRIAGE LIST. Two different things.

To the topic, BRIDE PRICE and marriage list is not about her, it is about the Umunna. The last time I checked, the BRIDE PRICE is not given to the bride, but to her father. The content of the list is also not given to her, but to the Umunna, Umuada and youths.

Even the bible says, give what belongs to Caesar to Caesar. A core Igbo man would be very restless if he doesn’t pay bride price, because he knows what is waiting for him in the front. Who even gave her drink to give him when BRIDE PRICE hasn’t been paid?

I do hope she had a unanimous agreement with her people on this. She won’t be the first woman to marry without her BRIDE PRICE being paid. However, they all pay it at some point, maybe when she dies.

I have seen women being treated badly and they said it is because they shamefully followed a man who didn't pay their BRIDE PRICE. I have also seen the ones treated badly and they still say it is because he BOUGHT them. Bride price where I come from is N10 and it is SYMBOLIC, not an EXTORTION, not SELLING THE LADY. The presence or absence if it is also not a guarantee he would treat you fairly. That one is dependent on the man and his ideologies.

Thank you

SlayerForever:



Yes toxicity is subjective. The man-hating types take the crown for toxicity any day though.

And yes blissful unions are supposed to encourage those with doubts to try. However, on a personal note I have encountered feminists who when shown blissful unions they reply that the woman is just showing a happy front to the society. That she is in pains.

That is to say, marriage can never be happy? Does man-hating and toxicity go lower than that?

So you see even if there are blissful unions everywhere those with a twisted view will still find excuses. The issue in most cases is from within. Our people say it is hard to wake up one who is pretending to sleep.

PataAlhajaKeji:
I'm an advocate of feminism.

I'm a feminist too.

Women shouldn't be subjugated in the name of marriage.

As a matter of fact, women shouldn't change their surnames, all in the name of marriage.

I wish her a blissful married life.

pocohantas:


This seems to be a Nigerian problem. I say Nigeria because I can’t speak of other countries. I have noticed Nigerians love to assume and wish people the worst. This includes male and females. If she seems happily married, she is pretending. If he seems happily married, he is a simp that is being controlled by his wife.

Maybe it is jealousy, bitterness, cruise or a mental problem.

pocohantas:


I honestly do not understand why you are barking. If there is anything she has done, she has walked the talk, but you are still not satisfied. You have somehow made it about her age, which shows your problem is just to cause ruckus at every given time.

First, I hope we (including her) all know the difference between the BRIDE PRICE and MARRIAGE LIST. Two different things.

To the topic, BRIDE PRICE and marriage list is not about her, it is about the Umunna. The last time I checked, the BRIDE PRICE is not given to the bride, but to her father. The content of the list is also not given to her, but to the Umunna, Umuada and youths.

Even the bible says, give what belongs to Caesar to Caesar. A core Igbo man would be very restless if he doesn’t pay bride price, because he knows what is waiting for him in the front. Who even gave her drink to give him when BRIDE PRICE hasn’t been paid?

I do hope she had a unanimous agreement with her people on this. She won’t be the first woman to marry without her BRIDE PRICE being paid. However, they all pay it at some point, maybe when she dies.

I have seen women being treated badly and they said it is because they shamefully followed a man who didn't pay their BRIDE PRICE. I have also seen the ones treated badly and they still say it is because he BOUGHT them. Bride price where I come from is N10 and it is SYMBOLIC, not an EXTORTION, not SELLING THE LADY. The presence or absence if it is also not a guarantee he would treat you fairly. That one is dependent on the man and his ideologies.

Thank you

crazymommy:
Lol... If wishes were horses ......keep fooling yourself.....

larryjonze:




only emirs will ride, yu beta leave ur hubby house b4 e decieve yu again. baby no 4

Onyi22:
Free wife

Ishilove:
Whoever did her makeup should be jailed in Kirikiri and fed diarrhea inducing beans. Wtf!!

Dalil8:


I thought she was gonna marry a woman instead.

Feminists should be left to marry fellow feminists and enjoy their femimism.

A fat fugly evening newspaper feeling important. That's all i see here. Spits>>

ebukajay184:
"No Bride Price Was Paid" - Social Media Feminist, Nkechi Bianze Gets Married (Photos)

Popular Facebook Feminist, Nkechi Bianze recently had her traditional wedding in her hometown to seal her union with her lover, IgbereTV reports.

As a proud feminist, Nkechi said her bride price wasn't paid and that she didn't kneel down to give her husband drink.


It's not true, I know this gal on twitter. Those why attended the wedding said she knelt down, and her dowry was paid. Chai...all these online feminist ee..I pity those they deceive.
Sharing the photos of her marriage on Facebook, she wrote;


https://www.facebook.com/746102194/posts/10160529650552195/?app=fbl

emonis88:

B educated, all other rights r not just add-ons o!! The umunna price list can change, if d father and mother let go of somethings that r supposed to be their right , but u see d umunna own , e go complete o! D father can tell his inlaw to give him 10 naira for Bride price to show his in-laws dat his is not selling his daughter. It is symbolically dat he has paid d bride price, it is solely d perogative of the Father. It comes last after d umunna ve bn settled. After all u can't enter a man's compound jumping d fence , enter through the gate. Na thief dey jump fence.

ebukajay184:
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Sterope:
It would be inconceivable to your forefathers what this world has become. Why should it be inconceivable that a woman can have a proper marriage without bride price?

elonmuskbaby:
so is it possible for a traditional marriage to hold and the Umunna will accept the fact that bride price will not be exchanged at the same time accept that the bride has been handed over to the groom to be his wife?

donbenie:
NOBODY is forcing her to have a traditional wedding..
She can as well go to the church and wed..
Or better still..
Let her go and have a court wedding..
That way..
Her FEMINIST IDEALS would protected..
As long as she's having a traditional wedding..
Some ceremonies are sacrosanct..
For TODAY..
YOU can't have a traditional wedding..
Without the payment of the bride price in Igboland..
I don't know about tomorrow..
But that is how it is TODAY..

donbenie:
Payment of the bride price is SYMBOLIC..
It is what LITERALLY signifies the commencement of marriage..
Most fathers and Ụmụnna would rather accept the bride price and then RETURN it to the Groom's family..
To signify that they are not selling their daughters..
I am yet to hear of one where the bride price is not paid at all..
It connotes that no marriage happened in the first instance..

pocohantas:


I am not looking for, I have one.

You are not a rich man, how exactly did you convince yourself you know what they want?

Sterope:
Commencement of marriage can also be 'do you want to marry this man/woman?'