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Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by esthel(f): 12:04pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Most times people get help from outsiders than from family members, she needs to step out of that zone and get help elsewhere. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by phenomental40(m): 12:05pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Coz they dont care 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Mustiboy(m): 12:05pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
The problem with you people is the entitlement mentality you have, expecting everyone to ask after you all the time and render help. I can't remember the last time any of my family or relatives called to ask about my wellbeing, but I don't get angry over it or blame anyone. They all are hustling and have their own hurdles to face. The question we should ask ourselves before judging anyone is, "When last have I myself checked on anyone or even rendered any help to them?" I'm in my early twenties, and, as young as I am, I render help every now and then to my cousins who call almost everytime to breath down on my neck. What about helping friends and strangers? I've done so many that I can't even remember. I don't help because I might get a return help in the future if their lives get better; nah, my own life will surely get better too. I help because it's the right thing to do and when I'm comfortable doing so. Many of you expecting people to help you don't joke with your #50. Many people are that stingy. My point is, nobody owes you all the bullshit y'all clamour for. Yes, I know family are supposed to help and love truly, but if you see anyone amongst them who's well-to-do and doesn't help regardless, forget their ass and move on with your life. Not everyone has a good heart, and you need to understand this. There are good and bad family members and friends. It's that simple. 26 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by tunary(m): 12:06pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Hmmm |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by kirn(m): 12:06pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
K o |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Melvis100(m): 12:07pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Honestly... E no easy for everybody... Or u ain't in their good book.. Nobody totally wicked |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Yamprince(m): 12:07pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Your family members do not owe you, we need to stop this feeling of entitlement. Any help your family member extends to you is just a privilege and not your right. Please go and hustle and stop waiting on man. 17 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by seyz91(m): 12:08pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Confirm! Pweetiedude: |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Nobody: 12:08pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
You can't help everyone na |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by seyz91(m): 12:08pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
True sunshineV: |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Komu1048(m): 12:09pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: Be specific, igbos n south south help themselves. It's Yorubas that lead that chat of not giving a flying fck, me set don't know the reason. Perhaps they want to remain the head. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by oyeb15: 12:09pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Inborn rivalry. If the eldest child is the first millionaire in the family, he/she won't want the younger ones to reach that feat so that they will remain at his/her mercy as the leader. But,If the younger or youngest child is the first millionaire, the family will balance like the case of the Obi cubanas , emoney etc 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by yusufu16: 12:10pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: Your uncle doesnt owe you anything. In fact the world doesnt owe anybody anything. Everyone for himself in this world. Hustle and change your story. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by INCREDIBLE007(m): 12:10pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
pathetic |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by whytediamond(m): 12:11pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
slawormiir: are you any different from the bolded? |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by afroxyz: 12:11pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Why not strive and make it so that nobody would say I helped you and take your glory? The earlier you realize that nobody owes you anything, the better for you. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Nobody: 12:11pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: There's competition in that family. Also the man doesn't want to loose what he enjoys see her down. If she can disappear from his circle for sometime and make a little progress. He will come around. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by BigDawsNet: 12:13pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
You need to understand if God doesn't Destin your uncle to help you even if his a billionaire...he will not ... Some people today receive blessings,favour, scholarships, great offer from someone they have no connection with or related to ... Just be prayerful and ask God to direct your helper to you.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by OkCornel(m): 12:13pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
We need to hear the full story. It’s a multinational, not Nigerian public sector or Nigerian owned business that does man know man stuff. Is this friend of yours qualified to meet the minimum criteria in the big organisation her uncle works? Did she pass their aptitude tests? Or she’s expecting uncle to wave a magic wand. There’s more to this story, when your friend is ready to give full gist, let us know. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by MansoryMX(m): 12:14pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: The very day you stop expecting favors or helps from Families and close friends, you become independent and self sustainable. You began to grow beyond your wildest imagination. Take it or leave it 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Peppysco: 12:14pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
I have forgotten the Yoruba adage that could have explicitly explained what I want to say but, I will translate in English and I know people who remember will quote it. 'The fact that you were born together or someone is your brother is not a guarantee that he will come good for you in you moment of needs but whoever God has directed to show you mercy will surely do'. This happens a lot and most of us can actually attest to this but for me ooo, I nor dey send them again. Na them dey even call me say I nor dey call again, my answer, na busy I busy and now, dem see say bobo don step up too 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by HeavenlyHolines(m): 12:16pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
True family are not related by blood but by love. If your friends treat you with love and your own siblings doesn't, that friend is your true family 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by FADEO: 12:16pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Beancounter94: This is so on point. I hope people will understand but they don't until they get to that stage in life and realize how it is easy for the family to take undue advantage of the situation. You also don't know if the man signed a conflict of interest at work too where he can't help his family member with his position as it will be termed abuse of office. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by aragonchuks(m): 12:17pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Life is hard Op stop being entitled, no one owes you or your friend a penny |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Lee99: 12:19pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
If theres one thing I've learned its to never depend on family. Just work hard on yourself, it'll all end well 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Olayetan(m): 12:24pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
This is the problem with nigerians, Always waiting for someone to help them, so if he doesn't help you, will you blame him for your failure? 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by DeRay98(m): 12:25pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Shayron: Calm down, don't swallow panadol for your friend's headache. You don't know their family history. You don't the rich relative got to where he is, if your friend's were once in a position to help but failed to do same, if he's source of wealth is not clean and he doesn't want the curse to remain his family except him alone etc. Let your friend hustle for herself and break through without the rich relative then in the future she'll be grateful to God and not "Uncle", then she'll be in a better position to judge later. Cool down friend. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by Kobicove(m): 12:25pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
People always assume they have some entitlement to the money of a wealthy relative |
Re: Why Do Some Family Members Act Like They Don't Care by MrMcJay(m): 12:25pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
Those you think will help you won't help you. Even if they promise, they will fail you. Help usually arises from unexpected sources. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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