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I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Ruke1989: 1:20am On Aug 06, 2021
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 080.50.23.96.36

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by b3llo(m): 1:24am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989:
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 080.50.23.96.36

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result
This is a serious case n the man in question needs to be punished seriously.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Akwaibomdude(m): 1:54am On Aug 06, 2021
[/b] I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response
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That girl knows what she isn't telling you...leave woman Abeg

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Ruke1989: 2:04am On Aug 06, 2021
Akwaibomdude:


That girl knows what she isn't telling you...leave woman Abeg

That's why I broke up first to be on a safe side. Please call that man, he is not picking my calls. I need him called out and exposed

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by lanre9ja(m): 2:34am On Aug 06, 2021
This man need to be seriously punish for this crime

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Peaceadebu: 2:47am On Aug 06, 2021
I reject your kind of Fiance in Jesus name. I mean this is her trying time and all you could think of in that your empty skull is a break up. Who does that?��. And as for that Man hmmmmm. Heaven and Earth will surely be against him. Brother better go back to your girlfriend and be her support system now
Ruke1989:
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 080.50.23.96.36

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by jollenbaba(m): 2:55am On Aug 06, 2021
Speechless lipsrsealed maybe the next elder will have something to say
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Authoreety: 3:32am On Aug 06, 2021
Let me also hand the mic over to the next elder

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by dontrulee: 3:45am On Aug 06, 2021
Before I hand over the mic to the next elder, let me talk small.
This is quite a tricky situation. As far as I know, she may be lying or telling a half truth or a whole truth. That's ladies for you. But there is a high chance that she was raped if not the middle aged man would not be rejecting your call. Anyways, move on with your life. You'll meet another person

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by chukwuibuipob: 4:25am On Aug 06, 2021
sad How/who opened the door for him to enter sad?.She hit on his head after he SLOT IN his DISC plate, released sore akamu inside sad? Pity sad? Ibadan that I know well,u can't scream and one/5 pipu nor rush there sad? Impossible undecided.@ Op sad,who told u that the next girl u'll date never do am b4/she's a saint sad? .If u can forgive her,she quit the hospital and u both relocate outside Ibadan and settle down while will bombard the baztard number.No vex biko undecided

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Mekudi: 4:38am On Aug 06, 2021
Nonsense ,why did she gave that man the description to her house after you've warned her earlier and knowing fully well that the man is interested in her.people shouldn't smell what they won't eat.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by abouzaid: 4:57am On Aug 06, 2021
Until we force that man to say his own side of the story, we would never know the truth. Your girl's story doesn't sound credible, it's not easy to forcibly strip a lady naked and penetrate her no matter how strong the man is talkless, a middle aged man.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Coolliot: 5:43am On Aug 06, 2021
Peaceadebu:
I reject your kind of Fiance in Jesus name. I mean this is her trying time and all you could think of in that your empty skull is a break up. Who does that?��. And as for that Man hmmmmm. Heaven and Earth will surely be against him. Brother better go back to your girlfriend and be her support system now

I agree with you oooo, but before he comes the man he ought to be in such situation, his did he know her house?.
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by gsmphoneseller: 6:20am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989:


That's why I broke up first to be on a safe side. Please call that man, he is not picking my calls. I need him called out and exposed

The girl lied to you.

Why didn't she inform you the moment he arrived her apartment?

Nonsensical story.
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by gsmphoneseller: 6:23am On Aug 06, 2021
Secondly, the terrorist man may also have transmitted std or HIV to her.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by FatherCHRISTMAS: 6:28am On Aug 06, 2021
How did he know her house, her room to the extent of entering her house. Don't fall for it man, tell her you both should go to the police station to report the man and see her countenance.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by GOFRONT(m): 7:03am On Aug 06, 2021
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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Sonnobax15(m): 7:25am On Aug 06, 2021
cheesy
Some men cha.....E just be like say devil dey learn work for where dem dey...

I still dey imagine am,like is there any pleasure that rapists derive from raping under age girls? undecided

Because personally, lashing be like stress to me....Talk more of forcing someone to do it.... It's a big NO NO for me.....

Dear op,I think that lady of yours need your help at this stage of her life..... Because I can vow with my two precious hairy balls that she's currently passing through depression now..... Breaking up with her isn't a nice idea...

But that her story get k-leg cha...She didn't inform you immediately....who showed him her apartment?.....who opened the door for him undecided

I won't bash you for believing her tomfoolery8). Cus despite the lies that are very obvious,still, I hate to hear of rape cases like these undecided

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by chukwuibuipob: 7:27am On Aug 06, 2021
sad
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Ruke1989: 7:36am On Aug 06, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
How did he know her house, her room to the extent of entering her house. Don't fall for it man, tell her you both should go to the police station to report the man and see her countenance.
thanks. I have once sighted a message on her phone from the man saying I am honey. She didn't tell me I saw it and confronted her. She just waved it as that yeye man. I was a bit confused what could bring up such sex message. That was the reason i warned her never to let him come to her house or know the house or follow him home under any trick. Being a church girl I tried to believe it. But the impression she gives me anytime i try to caution is that she avoids the man, doesn't pick his call or even give him the attention. That's why my next question of how did he know your house has no response. How did you let him enter in when you know you are alone? I also think she wasn't communicating me about the Mans subsequent calls except when I ask

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Bekind123: 7:40am On Aug 06, 2021
Coolliot:


I agree with you oooo, but before he comes the man he ought to be in such situation, his did he know her house?.
May he followed her home from work without her knowing. All these desperate shameless old men.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by AmgMakanaki(m): 7:43am On Aug 06, 2021
You self. You just broke up easily.. Won’t you follow up the case. Breaking up means you don’t have conscience at all

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Betboss(m): 7:44am On Aug 06, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
How did he know her house, her room to the extent of entering her house. Don't fall for it man, tell her you both should go to the police station to report the man and see her countenance.

I'm fully in support of your suggestion. Lay a complain at the station. The man will be arrested and investigations will commence.

As per the story, the girl could be telling the truth. Perhaps, the man traced where she leaves, knocked on the door, she opens the door, it's him. She didn't shout immediately, probably because he didn't grab her immediately. Why are you here she ask? He answers, won't you let me in first. She let's him in, so the door was closed and the man was sure of that before attacking her. She shouted, but he covered her mouth, so her voice wasn't too loud. And considering that she is a poor girl, her neighbourhood would most likely be noisy.

In my opinion, if she wasn't forced, she wouldn't have told you. Was she a virgin, and feared you will probably find out. If she wasn't a virgin, but still told you then OGA THAT GIRL WAS RAPED. SHE TOLD YOU 3 DAYS LATER because SHE WAS PROBABLY TRAUMATISED.

On the flip side, the man promised to give her money and she allowed him... this doesn't fly. because if she agreed to sex with this man, it will not happen in her house, and even it happened in her house, you'll never hear about it.

I know what it feels like being a poor girl in Nigeria. The pressure and harassment is something else. I have witnessed where a girl was harrased in a public bus.

This your girl does she leave alone? If she does, then a rape is most likely.

MY VERDICT: IF SHE TOLD YOU SHE WAS RAPED WITHOUT YOU BEING TIPPED OFF BY ANY SIGN, THEN SHE WAS RAPED!

WAY FORWARD: YOU MUST HELP THIS GIRL BY SEEKING THE HELP OF THE LAW ENFORCEMENT. I KNOW YOUR EGO IS SHATTERED, BUT WHAT ABOUT A GIRL THAT WAS RAPED SIMPLY because THE MAN THINKS SHE HAS NO ONE TO DEFEND HER. DEFEND HER AND YOU WILL FIND PEACE. STOP CALLING THE MAN, REPORT THIS MATTER TO RELEVANT AUTHORITIES; POLICE, HUMAN RIGHTS AND IF POSSIBLE ARMY.

Imagine this girl was your little sister, and some animal had carnal knowledge of her without her consent. If you don't defend that girl, then indeed you're not a man but a BIG COWARD.

Cc: lalasticlala cc: mynd44 cc: Rocktation, cc: Frank please move this to front page, this girl deserves justice.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by AmgMakanaki(m): 7:45am On Aug 06, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
How did he know her house, her room to the extent of entering her house. Don't fall for it man, tell her you both should go to the police station to report the man and see her countenance.

Good
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Temmylee02: 7:52am On Aug 06, 2021
Local man cannot can

Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Ruke1989: 7:55am On Aug 06, 2021
Sonnobax15:
cheesy
Some men cha.....E just be like say devil dey learn work for where dem dey...

I still dey imagine am,like is there any pleasure that rapists derive from raping under age girls? undecided

Because personally, lashing be like stress to me....Talk more of forcing someone to do it.... It's a big NO NO for me.....

Dear op,I think that lady of yours need your help at this stage of her life..... Because I can vow with my two precious hairy balls that she's currently passing through depression now..... Breaking up with her isn't a nice idea...

But that her story get k-leg cha...She didn't inform you immediately....who showed him her apartment?.....who opened the door for him undecided

I won't bash you for believing her tomfoolery8). Cus despite the lies that are very obvious,still, I hate to hear of rape cases like these undecided
I don't want to be emotionally manipulated by a lady. I know she needs help but there is nothing I can for. If she broke my instruction not to bring that man home or follow him home and kept me in the dark about their ongoing friendship until this
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Temmylee02: 7:58am On Aug 06, 2021
Ruke1989:
I don't want to be emotionally manipulated by a lady. I know she needs help but there is nothing I can for. If she broke my instruction not to bring that man home or follow him home and kept me in the dark about their ongoing friendship until this
you're a the definition of thegidredpiller
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by Ruke1989: 8:04am On Aug 06, 2021
Bekind123:
May he followed her home from work without her knowing. All these desperate shameless old men.
she takes public transport of about N150 before getting home. There is no way she won't notice if they are in the same buss and there is no way his vehicle may not be overtaken on the way with the stop overseas. Also on surprisingly seeing such man, her instinct shoulders smell danger and lock him out or leave the room for him
Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by nokspos: 8:06am On Aug 06, 2021
She was rapped, since he wanted it at all cost , a middle aged man could probably used black power to gain her consent and she realized after the did was done, if it was a consensual sex , she wouldn't tell you. and as for the chats , girls love to talk dirty, even when they won't do it. i once met a lady who could send me all messages and pictures but would never agree to have the real sex coz she was in a relationship, that gender has a different design from ours.

She's innocent, tell us what you need to investigate the case, you can go to police yourself , what else do you need, please let us know and i'm ready to support, it could be your sister or our unborn children. I love sex but it has to be consensual, i hate rape.

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by TheGidRedpiller(m): 8:44am On Aug 06, 2021
SHE IS NOT TELLING THE FULL STORY!

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Re: I Broke Up With My Fiancee Who Got Raped By A Middle Aged Man by BritishAirways: 8:47am On Aug 06, 2021
Bro forget it, she has alot she ain't telling you

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