barnyamclee:

that group sounds very interesting tbh, i am always looking for such groups, although they are very rare

BigBrother54321:
[s]I happen to belong to a circle of liberals and upwardly mobile young people. We discuss anything any everything.

Over the weekend we started talking about incest and my ears were full. But I remember one time when I was 7 or thereabouts, I had my little sister pinned to the wall and my mom found us. I almost died that day from the beating. Infact the beating was why I will never forget that day. And one of my elders sisters use to make moves on me then but I didn’t like her. If my mom hadn’t caught us or I allowed my other sister, it could have been a different story today.

My point is, these things happen. One lady said she learned how to kiss and suck dick by practicing on her brother. Her elder sister was dis virgin Ed by her father. One said he had sex with his sister twice. Guy! My ear full.

I now know these things are more common than it is. They had stories of many others to share.

If you got yours let’s hear it.

Modification - I trust my people to come with the bashing. I expected worse, its the African way. I’m a Christian and like to pride myself as a child of God. This post is not to glorify incest or the devil. We don’t learn or teach each other by bottling things up and because you have refused to share your experiences don’t mean you are clean. Everyday social media and news space is awash with fathers getting daughters pregnant (especially in Ogun, Lol) but you all think this discussion must not be had.

If most you here were told to sleep with your mother or father for wealth, you’d jump on the idea immediately but the people in this group of friends sharing these experiences will never try such. Learn to understand that when people share certain experience freely it may be because they’ve moved away from the ideology. Try not to be judgmental.

If you’re a person reading this and involved in incest please stop it. Its not worth it. If you have such thoughts now, look for ways to kill them, else you’ll end up regretting it. You’re not wrong, or evil, or cursed for having these thoughts. Its the power of the mind. Many have had these thoughts before you & more will after you. Jettison the idea.

Parents tend to watch their kids when they’re out with others but hardly do so when their kids are with each other, bad idea. These things happen mostly when kids are young & not fully conscious. Adult siblings hardly make moves on each other so please watch your kids closely.

I’m sorry if the topic disgusts you or insults your sensitivities. I’m actively on Quora and Reddit. These are topics we thrash extensively over there. Forgive me.[/s]

ikllbrokehoes:
Who's this mentally deranged person? Pls get dah eff out of here, what nonsense.

MufasaLion:


I really don't wanna picture this scene in my head. Disgusting!

Vinnie2000:



Lol..
This Thing happened oo!! In our Neighborhood, those days!

Dats y as a Guy, when you have kids, teach Dem sex education!
Or@least, Do morning devotions/prayers for Dem Everyday !

BigBrother54321:

No. We don’t think it’s a grand idea. Liberal only because we can share our experiences and others can learn. The average African will bottle things up.

People have lost their bearing in life because they think they’re evil or cursed or wired oddly for having these experiences. If we let them know they’re not alone they might be able to pick their life up, forge ahead, do better.

Talking about animals. Back in boarding school, a group of JSS boys were caught having sex with a goat. The leader of the gang is the owner of a leading tech company in Nigeria today. Knock yourself out.

BigBrother54321:

Tadeknkeepcalm

I decided not to quote your post so as not to create long mess. Thanks for taking your time to reply to me. First, when communicating understand context & scope. Its important else you’ll go of course and be boring or irritating.

I don’t care about pedophiles and what they do. This isn’t about pedophilia per say if you reread you would get it. I’m talking incest, sex in the family and my main focus was kid vs kid, both of whom are not fully conscious and aware and act out of impulse or curiosity.

I’m not Mr. Save the World but I do my bit and it’s doesn’t or must not be in your preferred format. By talking about this we’re drawing awareness to it. Most parents may know of incest but completely ignore or believe in their hearts that their children will never do such. By sharing stories we are making them more aware to know it could happen with any kids if they’re not properly trained and monitored.

By sharing stories, anyone would learn of instances when these acts might be suggested or begin to grow and if they find traces can quickly nip it in the bud.

I could go on and on but there’s really no downside to discussing issues like this. A lot of people were caught as kids involved in incest and live with the stigma today. A lot of people are products of incest. They’re victims if we’re being fair, so if I try to encourage them and make them feel no less does it mean that I’m encouraging other kids to go and do it

Your angle is neat but coming at me with it or the subtle attack on people in the group you don’t even know is unnecessary. You could create a thread that covers it or just put it down under this for others to see. You want to put people down for the mistakes they made as kids, well I have a different approach.

The post about the Tech guy was obviously to banter someone who was being silly.

You really need to understand context & how it works. You’re stressing me.

Tadeknkeepcalm:

This just proves you did not read the post. If you did, you wouldn't have said half what you just did.
Where exactly did I say put the kids down for what they did. In fact, I specifically said the opposite of that.

Again, if you read my previous post or at least, try to understand the context you claim I do not understand. You wouldn't have said half what you just did.

Even the point I was driving at by mentioning pedophilia (which could very well be categorised as an incestual relationship) was completely missed and twisted to me claiming you were talking about pedophilia

Also, Your original post did not mention anything about ameliorating the situation. Only that "we should share" as if we are couple of friends simply talking about football in a bar. So you should understand if people do not understand the "angle you're coming from" (which is still unclear by the way).

"You're stressing me"

I don't even know how to respond to that.

ChasinGood:
The sad reality is that these crazy stuff really happens in this our clime also. You know how close some siblings can be, sleeping on the same bed when they're still teens and all that. If parents don't get enlightened bout this stuff they'll obviously let things slide and it can breed some messed up family traits but as 'Africans' wey we be, we'd always condemn op for trying to create awareness for most parents and other elderly folks reading this stuff to pay keen attention to the actions of their little ones so as to prevent the had I known line.

BigBrother54321:

Create yours that ameliorates. Anyone can create a new topic and at no charge. All the time you have spent replying me to no end, you could have written a new topic with all of what you feel I didn’t write, to suit your agenda, just how you want it.

That’s easier and should do everything you think my post can’t. All the back and forth is unnecessary.

krushdripper:
I was still under 15 when I once caught my neighbors, two brothers of same parents one late evening, the elder one who was about a year or two younger than me was giving his younger brother a Mouth Action a ward robe. A sudden heaviness filled my chest as they broke free on seeing me...

Is this also called incest or is there another word to call it?

BigBrother54321:



‘I kill broke hoes’

You definitely come from a lineage of mentally deranged people. You’re cursed.

ikllbrokehoes:
The same way your lineages are cursed, damned and extremely deranged

Who in his right sense will create such a stupid thread? I wonder why séun don't screen people before allowing them to register on this forum, you are really a fvcked up negro

03072001hen:
i hvnt told this to anyone before, it hs been a secret i hv been keeping for years bt lt me use ds as an opportunity to let it out, wen i ws 9 or younger, there ws a man dt promised me a memory card cos i asked him if he had a memory card dt he is nt usin, d day he gave me d memory card my broda ws there, we put d card in my phone n found out dt it contains porn, we watched it a little bit n deleted it so dt we wont watch it again, bt after dt, i ws nt myself anymore, dt ws d moment i started getting sexual urges, we normally play a lot in our house wen our parents re nt around n since i watched dt video i started playin wit my broda naked. after som time i stopped n stated masturbating. my broda once caught me in d act which made me stop, bt after som time, i also caught him in d act, we were kids den so we ddnt hv knowledge of wt we were doin. as time goes on i started getting sexual imaginations n for no reason, i get turned on by anything i see to d extent dt i masturbated wit my mum's wrapper, i hardly sleep in d night cos i found it as d best opportunity to masturbate, my mom almost caught me bt anytime i notice ha coming, i pretend like am doin somtin else n she wil always tel me to go to bed. wen i entered secondary school, i watched d video again in my classmate's phone n ds time i couldnt get my eyes off it cos it ws all over me. i came back frm school 1 day n opened d door to our room n mistakenly saw my sis naked cos she ws changin ha cloth n forgot to lock d door. frm dt day, i got tempted to d extent dt i masturbated on ha while she ws asleep in d night cos ha bed ws close to our bed, i regretted wt i dd, i ws filled wit so much guilt dt i promised myself nt to do it again. 1 day, my parents caught me playing with my younger sis bt in a different way, n beat d hell out of me. i once had a sexual urge for my cousin usually wen i see ha wearing somtin sexy, bt by den i hv already understood d meaning of incest n made sure nt to hv dt urge again. apart frm dt, i stl masturbate bt its been lng i dd it, am trying my best to get my mind off it, i am trying to stopped watching porn n make sure dt my mind stays positive, becos i found out dt negative thoughts trigger it expecially wen am alone. d truth is dt i neva enjoyed any of it cos at d end i regret, i no all i dd ws wrong n i pray dt God forgive me frm d ones i hv done n wash me from all my sins

Benwallt:
You must be typing from hell

krushdripper:
I was still under 15 when I once caught my neighbors, two brothers of same parents one late evening, the elder one who was about a year or two younger than me was giving his younger brother a Mouth Action a ward robe. A sudden heaviness filled my chest as they broke free on seeing me...

Is this also called incest or is there another word to call it?

BigBrother54321:


[s]If there was a screening how will ‘I kill broke hows’ make it Lol Ode

You think it’s everyone you meet online you’re run your mouth on.

You’re a raging lunatic. You’re from a lineage of bastards and deranged animals. You will never amount to anything in this world. You will die miserable and poor. Hence, you have seized to be fruitful both biologically and financially. You shall cry and sweat & the wind of mercy will never reach you. Amen.

Mark this date.[/s]

Bunmhi:
Abomination

BigBrother54321:

Thanks for this. You were young and didn’t know what you were doing. Now you are wiser and know better. As long as your request for forgiveness is genuine, you are forgiven. Shed the guilt and embrace life without any inhibitions or drawback baggage.

God bless you.
thank u so much, i appreciate dt

krushdripper:
I was still under 15 when I once caught my neighbors, two brothers of same parents one late evening, the elder one who was about a year or two younger than me was giving his younger brother a Mouth Action a ward robe. A sudden heaviness filled my chest as they broke free on seeing me...

Is this also called incest or is there another word to call it?

Pumpumking:



errm Bunmhi am getin yor chrissmas present.. do u were thong? wot colourr & size?

Luby913:
03072001hen how old were u then when imaginations creept in to masturbate though?

Its nt ur fault,sexual exposure at young ages leads the mind to idle thoughts and vague sexual responses,i fear for the next gen in this sexualized World