Esthered:

What would then happen to us?

How are will going to survive bayi?

Una wey get strength to de with women wey no get leg financially de try. Or to go marry from family wey poor scatter. Na God go help una.

I cant say i have money but am okay but to see a woman who will just love u base on your personality is like finding a needle in a haystack. Now knowing this. How could i love any woman when i know the reason why she was with me. Last last i leave her.
It is true they say you can either love a woman or understand them, u cant do both.

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

Chief, abeg come give reason for this last born matter wey you talk ooo. I understand that of first born, but last born, abeg throw more light.

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

abi o

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

More like your last line was a message to me

pretydiva:

You attract what you are

You Get It Wrong Dear, Many Ladies hate good guys

dhameelare:

Na true talk oo

Na u go turn atm for her younger sibilings

why not lastborns??

saphiere:
Is Paul Okoye not having money?
You must be sick if you think money can keep a woman.

Nor mind them with this their 'money is everything' mindset

Clown �� this comment off me

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

No truer word have been said

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

which families are disturbing her for money? Are they immune to money making? Na una get time for girls from poor homes. Where them dey when others dey hustle?

The confessions on this thread tho...
For the very first time on this APP, there wasn't much outright insult to the female gender.

Wahala for who no get money ooo

Caramia2020:
Money is like fuel, as relationship is like a car, it's highly needed in order to avoid unusual frustration.

Paul and Lola on my mind

pansophist:
Una wey get strength to de with women wey no get leg financially de try. Or to go marry from family wey poor scatter. Na God go help una.

The thing tire me o! People wey begin hustle before them born me,dey wait for me to bring money because of one poor dirty girl?
I won't even date a lady who does not have her own car or apartment and I'm giving her family no help because they should be helping us stand financially instead.

god abeg ooooo

pansophist:


Lastborn nko?

Last Born never reach to dey enter relationship

Starz825:
Na only fool go say wetin op talk na lie

Guys forget about the bad things we say about Nigerian girls this Nigerian girls that...
Guy if you no get money you no fit enjoy life let alone a relationship...
Abegii

So shouldn't women too try to get money

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

Dear Nigerian gals, keep making yourself a reward for success and not part of the success. Later you go come dey complain, na time go tell shaa.

you're mad

Carchoice:
Bread and tea wey everybody dey manage for breakfast, e reach your turn, you turn adviser Onuwabhagbe.

Hmmm

Love sweet but money make am sweeter... Op just described the story of thousands of guys losing there first love

Omo, Naija guys dey really suffer. You go dey date girl and her family's financial struggles at the same time.

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

I'm a living witness

Vaiki:
The thing tire me o! People wey begin hustle before them born me,dey wait for me to bring money because of one poor dirty girl?
I won't even date a lady who does not have her own car or apartment and I'm giving her family no help because they should be helping us stand financially instead.

This is how it should be.

Usually parents should be like a tree, that no matter how broke, exhausted and downtrodden their children are, they should be strong enough to be their landing ground, refuel them, so they can relaunch and be their best self. It makes no sense for parents that lived longer than me to depend on me. If the parent have planted a tree decades ago, they should have just enough for themselves, and for their children.

Thr story of the prodigal son in the bible where the son went and spent all his fortune, and his father was strong enough to be his resting place. This is what parenting should be like. But trust Nigerian parents to always tell about how you should obey them, but not how they should have planted a tree in the past, to make your life easier right now.

For your mind

Polynek:
It depends, Moni no b everything in relationship

Akuruoulo:

Paul and Lola on my mind

Motor still need oil na

pansophist:


This is how it should be.

Usually parents should be like a tree, that no matter how broke, exhausted and down their children are, they should be strong enough to be their landing ground, refuel them, so they can relaunch and be the best self. It makes no sense for parents that lived longer than me to depend on me.

Thr story of the prodigal son in the bible where the son went and spent all his fortune, and his father was strong enough to be his resting place. This is what parenting should be like. No matter how we sin reach, God forgives us. So any wife parents that is looking to embezzle me, go old. I no send am

Bro. This parents matter is a story for another day, there are so many hidden truths we Nigerians don't want to tell ourselves about Nigerian parents.
Oneday I will write about it without unbaised truth, anyone that wants to cry should cry him/herself to death

tepes:
Another thing don't date an only daughter of any family. The stress and problems that comes with it is too much. I'm currently dating one and I'm getting fed up with everything.

I will tell her

Who says " money can't buy love" that person doesn't know what to use money to buy.

Bouz:
You have an inferior mindset, that's why you think you must have money to stay in a relationship, there are women that provide for the house, to keep it going.i guess you've been hanging out with hungry ladies. Relationship needs both parties effort both financially. Stop feeling you have the burden of providing alone. Every body cannot make money in this life, but with two head, a family won't lack basic needs.

If you like don't listen to a simple advice. Weather you marry a supportive partner or not, make sure you have your own money. He get why.

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

Take it