Megatron77:
Am kinda confused...maybe she was pregnant for more than a year

Megatron77:
Ooh dah! yousef...your baby was born in september which means you got pregnant december 2019 (if you were pregnant for 10months) or january 2020 how come your impregnator disappeared before you took in?

Megatron77:
Ooh dah! yousef...your baby was born in september which means you got pregnant december 2019 (if you were pregnant for 10months) or january 2020 how come your impregnator disappeared before you took in?

Redpillar:


Or she was never pregnant.

Megatron77:
Am kinda confused...maybe she was pregnant for more than a year

AutoChick4U:
Yea Dec 2019.

Megatron77:
I know you're just catching cruise from the way you reply to every comment so rockon...greet your daughter for me. bye!

Megatron77:
Ooh dah! yousef...your baby was born in september which means you got pregnant december 2019 (if you were pregnant for 10months) or january 2020 how come your impregnator disappeared before you took in?

InspectorIawaI:
are you from AKS?

AutoChick4U:
Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.

Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over.

I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I sooo need someone to talk to.

Location is Abuja in case of any business or jib connection.

Megatron77:
Nope

Michelle55:

Bros fear God oh. Does it mean that you can't render any financial assistance and connection to work without asking for sex in return?
It's really unfair oh

galantjoe:


I do help people without expecting any return from them.

Here, I need her service as much she needs mine. Otherwise she will still fall into another wrong hands. I don't like monkey dey working , babu dey chop. Where you work is where you chop.

I

AutoChick4U:
He's Dead. Do I go to his grave to call him up?
Be kind pls

galantjoe:


I do help people without expecting any return from them.

Here, I need her service as much she needs mine. Otherwise she will still fall into another wrong hands. I don't like monkey dey working , babu dey chop. Where you work is where you chop.

I

AutoChick4U:
i so doubt this thread would have gotten these kinda awful replies like 11 years ago when Nairaland was still Nairaland. Its well o

AutoChick4U:
Probably when I was experiencing post-partum depression I so reasoned on giving away the Lil cute baby to a willing family for adoption but then, I'd always pull myself out of such thought process. Of a truth having a baby really sets on back cos you gotta nurse and care for d Lil one.
I stay alone with my baby,no help nothing so I gotta do everything on my own. Yea i learnt to be strong. Even at 8 months I'd still travel far to transact business so its not like I'm lazy.

Cherez:


Well done and GOD BLESS YOU

AutoChick4U:
Wow, it ain't easy at all, it weakens my very soul that all I've worked for have really gone and no way of making ends meet for now.

Do I regret bringing another being into this world? Perhaps I do when I'm down and emotionally at my lowest but I've learnt to be strong atleast for my kid. Unfortunately finding a love interest to serve as that emotional anchor ain't even easy in our society, once you tell them, faim! Its all over.

I'm probably feeling depressed but I still hope on loving and being loved. Hoping on God wiping away my silent tears, hoping on a shoulder to lean on and a listening ear. I sooo need someone to talk to.

Location is Abuja in case of any business or job connection.

Tickles001:


Why the bolded happens is because single mom always put their child first. Sometimes unknowingly.
How would you feel being in a relationship where a child that is not even yours gets 80% of the attention.
You definitely wouldn't like to keep up with such. Right?

Your case is a bit different because the child didn't come from promiscuity. So most men will overlook that, if you will minimize how you prioritize the child in the relationship.

Your story got me. I know how it feels to provide solace for other people, but there's no one giving it when you need it so badly.

Tickles001:
Reading further. I discovered the credibility of your story is questionable, as most people have taken time to point out some inconsistencies.

It is too bad if you could lie so convincingly. And declare someone dead simply because you've not seen him for long.
Going by what I read here. It also seemed you were never even married, but simply had the child out of wedlock.

I'm beginning to doubt your story myself.

AutoChick4U:
Well, I definitely don't think that will be an issue with me though

AutoChick4U:
Everything I posted is d truth.

Tickles001:

Is the death of the dad also true?

Tickles001:


You might actually be doing like that, but you wouldn't know you're doing it. Unless there are other reasons that makes them leave.

AutoChick4U:
Last heard or saw 2019 after he traveled, friends and family didn't even know d whereabouts. Till today nothing, number unavailable so I simply stopped hoping at some point. Who knows what happened

Tickles001:


That categorizes him more as missing. 2 years is too soon to conclude that someone must have died.
And some replies you gave people somewhat points that you may not have been married to him, maybe just his girlfriend. But let's leave it at that.

I'll advise next time you try to create a thread that both the story and the replies doesn't lack in consistency.
Otherwise, most serious minded people that could render significant help would not take you serious.