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How Should I Handle This Situation by Softboy001: 7:33pm On Aug 30, 2021
My present girlfriend is frustrated and I don't blame her, she thinks something is wrong with me, I don't know if something is wrong with me but I know that even if it is. It is not medically. I don't think I have any medical condition.



My d*ck works perfectly. How do I know ?. I still get sexual urges (toward ladies) and masturbate. My sperm is okay. (Good quality quantity). So there is absolutely nothing wrong with me medically.

But for over 1 year now I haven't had sex. Going to 2 years now. It's not like I haven't had chances. I have but on every occasion. I always walk out of it. I have had 3 major chances. But each time I want to something always stops me.

First one. I didn't just walk out. I ran out for 3 major reasons.
1. The girl was too young, she was 19. It felt somehow for me, I just couldn't.
2. And she was dirty also. Too dirty for me cos I know some men will jump into it.
3. She was a virgin...

Like I said, I have had chances but there is also one reason on the other stop me from doing it. And it's not like I don't do it before. There was a time back in uni days. It's was back to back. Everyday thing for me. But it seems I have lost interest now.

My main issue is how to handle my girlfriend, it's not like I care o but she is just suspecting and cooking up stories about why we haven't had sex since. My issue with her is that she is a virgin, and I don't want to have sex with a virgin. I don't just know why but I prefer non virgin than virgin

How do you guys think I should handle the situation because I don't think I want to have sex with anybody right talkless of a virgin

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Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by Xenry: 7:34pm On Aug 30, 2021
If your girlfriend is disturbing you for séx and you refuse to satisfy her, just forget it; she will definitely get it from another guy. And you can be sure of this — she's already telling her friends that you are impotent.
So, agree to her "terms and conditions" in the relationship, or you break-up with her. Easy peasy.
She's a virgin? Dude, don't tell me you really believed her tongue, just DON'T . . . We ain't in the 90s anymore.

BTW If you are single, then you don't know what God has done for you. The peace that comes with being single is underrated.

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Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by Spider20: 7:39pm On Aug 30, 2021
Softboy001:
My present girlfriend is frustrated and I don't blame her, she thinks something is wrong with me, I don't know if something is wrong with me but I know that even if it is. It is not medically. I don't think I have any medical condition.



My d*ck works perfectly. How do I know ?. I still get sexual urges (toward ladies) and masturbate. My sperm is okay. (Good quality quantity). So there is absolutely nothing wrong with me medically.

But for over 1 year now I haven't had sex. Going to 2 years now. It's not like I haven't had chances. I have but on every occasion. I always walk out of it. I have had 3 major chances. But each time I want to something always stops me.

First one. I didn't just walk out. I ran out for 3 major reasons.
1. The girl was too young, she was 19. It felt somehow for me, I just couldn't.
2. And she was dirty also. Too dirty for me cos I know some men will jump into it.
3. She was a virgin...

Like I said, I have had chances but there is also one reason on the other stop me from doing it. And it's not like I don't do it before. There was a time back in uni days. It's was back to back. Everyday thing for me. But it seems I have lost interest now.

My main issue is how to handle my girlfriend, it's not like I care o but she is just suspecting and cooking up stories about why we haven't had sex since. My issue with her is that she is a virgin, and I don't want to have sex with a virgin. I don't just know why but I prefer non virgin than virgin

How do you guys think I should handle the situation because I don't think I want to have sex with anybody right talkless of a virgin

Abeg getaaaat.................
What a useless post!!!!!!!!!!
Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by Lalami3232(m): 7:42pm On Aug 30, 2021
Do u want an honest opinion from me?
Well, I've nothing to say
Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by Veryfoolishboy: 7:43pm On Aug 30, 2021
Do you want to hear the truth from me? You are planning to fail as a man. One of a man's social, physical and spiritual significance to a lady is sex (apart from protection).

If you are not sexually attracted to the girl, let her know. Don't let her go and be telling people you are a eunch

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Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by Ekakamba: 7:49pm On Aug 30, 2021
Please for your own good, take the following points from me:

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Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by lilvicky68: 7:59pm On Aug 30, 2021
Well I just have 2 things to say..
1) things
2)things

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Re: How Should I Handle This Situation by HRHQueenPhil(f): 8:20pm On Aug 30, 2021
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Someone is seriously praying over your destiny, holy spirit and his angels have gone into serious work to make sure d prayers are answered... alleluia...this is what am still trusting God for ..
Alright, look for an excuse and break up with your woman, then make sure u stay away from women until u see d one that causes u ur man hood to stand at atention

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