BadRadio:
We were just friends... we decided to hang out on a sunday evening at an eatery, we got talking... she was narrating the story of her life to me... she got emotional and teary as she slowly stressed on each sentence... I told her to say no more...went and sat closer to her... she placed her head on my shoulder... sobbing... I wrapped my arms around her and told her it's all going to be fine... I dropped her off at home and left.

That night I couldn't sleep... I kept on pondering on all that she had told me and it was really giving me reasons for concern... I felt I could help her but at desame time I am catching feelings for this lady and I dont know what to call it... I have been thinking about her, like a 100 times a day, thoughts of her occupies my head everyday and I barely sleep every night.

I get emotional everytime her story plays through my head. I feel I can make her pain go away. I feel I can make her happy. I feel I can give her all the attention she deserves. I feel I can care for her.

What do u advice guys... how can u describe my situation with her?

My dear brother, na so e take dey start. See as u fall HELPLESSLY in Love. Love is a beautiful thing, and as u don fall in LOVE, what else can i say than "HAPPY LOVING", treat your woman with LOVE & RESPECT, anytime she start to demand for URGENT 2k, run away from her without thinking twice.

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I don't know the content of what she has gone through but man...I've heard enough. I have seen many drama queens who wouldn't mind playing the Beauty to rob the Beast.

There are many genuine. There are many players.


Did she also tell you she was raped until a third time by sb she truly loved? A third time?

Whatever happened to keeping the feminine pride then!

Yawns.

I pray she's genuine and not smoke and mirrors.

Your mind will begin to play the you-are-in-love trick now. You aren't! You are only attracted to a pity story ...because your conscience was the jury.


Love isn't of pity.

Love shouldn't be selfish!

I am strongly against premarital sex.

Are you ready to settle down?

You should love sb because she has a potential of being your dream wife..and not because the story is made to fit you in as the Clark Kent.

Would you look at the outer appearance while choosing a car? How much more a wife!

You need to understand what you want in life.

Have a nice century.

BadRadio:
lol... thanks

Making Sense

macho44:


My dear brother, na so e take dey start. See as u fall HELPLESSLY in Love. Love is a beautiful thing, and as u don fall in LOVE, what else can i say than "HAPPY LOVING", treat your woman with LOVE & RESPECT, anytime she start to demand for URGENT 2k, run away from her without thinking twice.

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hehe

Cholls:
my brother nah! Not at all! That's actually how the game should be played

Did you say "The game"?

chatinent:
I don't know the content of what she has gone through but man...I've heard enough. I have seen many drama queens who wouldn't mind playing the Beauty to rob the Beast.

There are many genuine. There are many players.


Did she also tell you she was raped until a third time by sb she truly loved? A third time?

Whatever happened to keeping the feminine pride then!

Yawns.

I pray she's genuine and not smoke and mirrors.

Your mind will begin to play the you-are-in-love trick now. You aren't! You are only attracted to a pity story ...because your conscience was the jury.


Love isn't of pity.

Love shouldn't be selfish!

I am strongly against premarital sex.

Are you ready to settle down?

You should love sb because she has a potential of being your dream wife..and not because the story is made to fit you in as the Clark Kent.

Would you look at the outer appearance while choosing a car? How much more a wife!

You need to understand what you want in life.

Have a nice century.

wow... this is inspiring... thanks boss

BadRadio:
We were just friends... we decided to hang out on a sunday evening at an eatery, we got talking... she was narrating the story of her life to me... she got emotional and teary as she slowly stressed on each sentence... I told her to say no more...went and sat closer to her... she placed her head on my shoulder... sobbing... I wrapped my arms around her and told her it's all going to be fine... I dropped her off at home and left.

That night I couldn't sleep... I kept on pondering on all that she had told me and it was really giving me reasons for concern... I felt I could help her but at desame time I am catching feelings for this lady and I dont know what to call it... I have been thinking about her, like a 100 times a day, thoughts of her occupies my head everyday and I barely sleep every night.

I get emotional everytime her story plays through my head. I feel I can make her pain go away. I feel I can make her happy. I feel I can give her all the attention she deserves. I feel I can care for her.

What do u advice guys... how can u describe my situation with her?

Don't love someone out of pity help her and be generous if you have too. Tell your intentions but don't get in a relationship with her

Brunosamel:
Don't love someone out of pity help her and be generous if you have too. Tell your intentions but don't get in a relationship with her

wow... thanks boss

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she was narrating the story of her life to me...
.. she got emotional and teary...
*think am bro, is this not an emotional trap?*

BadRadio:
Did you say "The game"?

my brother yes

Cholls:
my brother yes

so I should approach it as a game right?

BadRadio:
so I should approach it as a game right?

my brother yup!

Cholls:
my brother yup!

y?

BadRadio:
y?

my brother that is bcuz it is what it is

Cholls:
my brother that is bcuz it is what it is

tell me... what it is...

Is a trap bro

BadRadio:
wow... thanks boss

you're welcome

BadRadio:
tell me... what it is...

my brother I will explain if this should hit front page

Cholls:
my brother I will explain if this should hit front page

it will... lalasticlala is busy with his side chick... when he's done he will move this piece to FP

She doesn't need a relationship what she needs is a therapist or shrink. If you re not one pls stick to friendzone and move on. It's not every damsel in distress that you will run to rescue. Point her in the direction of a professional and save ur mental health.