NotFarFrom:
I've been married for years.... it's the woman that designs the sex timetable, because if you're not responsible, you can't force her to have sex

donbachi:
Just get ready to cheat on her.cos most women will never act like they want it.

Excuses like "its too hot,its too cold,is dat all u think,its too late,its too early,my monthly flow just started,mind my hair,my stomach is biting me,i'm tired,kids are still awake,u are drunk again" and so on.

Aammee77:

True, but I won't marry such.

abiolamitodun:
lets discuss

drdrey7:


See ehnnn...

We need to understand 2 things on this matter.

1. Don't Seek SEX (Sexual Intercourse) With Your Wife!: She go dey run for you or she will give it you whenever she likes. It's because you don't understand how women thinks yet. You need to seek this in a different way...

Lemme help you understand better...

- The first thing is, YOU ARE MARRIED (una be husband and wife, right?). So, seeking to or having sexual intercourse with your wife is NO MORE sex!. Having this mindset (seeing SEX this way in your marriage) is your #1 problem because women DON'T just want sex...

Get this, your wife is not a prostitute or s3x toy. She's your second part (your soul mate and life partner).

So, what you need to seek from her is LOVE MAKING (the sex you wanted).

If you understand this, and you know how to lay the bed for love making (I will share that below later) -- she will give it to you fully well, you will have enough of it, and you will be well satisfied.

This is what you want, right?

To achieve this, then you need to...

2. Understand How Women Thinks: Women (your wife) will ONLY be careless to make love to you when there is privacy and security -- that's women nature.

By privacy I mean, where its cool, no disturbance or distraction...just the two of you.
By security I mean, she has this peace of mind that her home is well catered for, her marriage is stable, future is well laid and planned at, etc.

Then, in order to get the love making I talked about in the #1 above...you need to set the bed for it by...

3. Showering Her With More Love: You need to know how to speak your wife's love language. Speak more of her love language, shower her with love...

This will put her in the mood,
She will start throwing advances at you,
She will beg you for it,
She will give it to you real good.

So, stop aiming sex... because all you will be doing will be a turn off for her -- you will look unromantic and selfish to her. Her body will not respond -- she go dry well well...

The word is enough for the wise.

Lemme come and be going....see you later.