Good morning N.L.
There is something bothering me about this Lady am dating, we met April this year and everything was going well between us, not until she came to visit me last Monday.

She came to see me after I travelled for a while, when she came, she was showing me her pictures she snapped on her phone and when I was going through the gallery I found a video of her self on bed with a guy she usually tells me is her friend and nothing is between them, on seeing that video, she quickly collect the phone from me but I couldn't react that very moment until she left my place, I later reacted over that on WhatsApp when she gets to her place and asked her some questions she said she can't reply me there but we'll meet face to face before we talk, I told her that I must watch that video all and said I won't take it been deleted as an excuse and she said to be she deleted it already at a spot

Please N.L I need your advice on her to Handle her. I have the intention of marrying her, should I forgive her or should just keep her for fun and dump her later on ?

Nothing sweet like a life free of STDs and HIV.

It's like asking how can you tame a scorpion

Scientific research reveals a lot about the unknown. It aims to uncover and explain how and why certain events occur. But since 9000BC all research conducted to explain why girls cheat and how to handle them have all failed and proven ineffective..

But in 2016 a scientist came up with a law that describe the relationship between cheating by girls and the forces acting on it.

Okafor's Law states that if you have mind blowing sex with a woman once, you get a free pass to always have sex with her.

In conclusion there's nothing you can do to stop cheating a partner..

Use your head o

I need your advice on her to Handle her. I have the intention of marrying her, should I forgive her or should just keep her for fun and dump her later on

Knowing about that guy alone, is a red flag. However, God loves you so much that he decided to let you see the second red flag seeing that same guy in bed with her. tor... I don't know maybe untill you see porn film of her with the dude on her fone, that's when you'll decide to leave her or till God sends angle 2u before you know.

Oga are you telling me that you can't see the "Red Flag" in front of you.


I hate it when people see "Red Flags" right before their eyes and they're still pretending to be blind.

"suffer no dey tire you"?

Op,I almost mistake your moniker for MANNA before

Back to the topic:::You should count yourself lucky for at least knowing on time that you've got a co-husband Not everyman is always lucky enough just like you.. That's why we've kept on hearing of men fathering other men's kids

you are asking who what to do when your creator revealed the most expensive mistake you are about to make Pele . A lady that did that when you were not around could definitely bring bastards to your home, don't come here then to ask if you should do DNA use your right senses!!!!!

......And you expect me to take any girl who tells me she has a male friend Serious?? Not again o.

Naso dem go talk say "He is my bestfriend, just friend and nothing more"..

Op, see them now. They have gone under the duvet, and before you know, pant don shift be that oo....

DaddyRochie1642:
Oga are you telling me that you can't see the "Red Flag" in front of you.


I hate it when people see "Red Flags" right before their eyes and they're still pretending to be blind.

Seriously I was shocked bcs d lady claims been good and can't cheat.

GOFRONT:
......And you expect me to take any girl who tells me she has a male friend Serious?? Not again o.

Naso dem go talk say "He is my bestfriend, just friend and nothing more"..

Op, see them now. They have gone under the duvet, and before you know, pant don shift be that oo....

Very possible de did it already bfr making video of themselves on same bed.

Sonnobax15:

Op,I almost mistake your moniker for MANNA before

Back to the topic:::You should count yourself lucky for at least knowing on time that you've got a co-husband Not everyman is always lucky enough just like you.. That's why we've kept on hearing of men fathering other men's kids

Thanks sir, I actually choose to practice a faithful life style in my relationship till marriage, despite the available kpesu in my apartment but I turn it down bcs of this lady and she knows it

MARSHALDEMSA202:


Thanks sir, I actually choose to practice a faithful life style in my relationship till marriage, despite the available kpesu in my apartment but I turn it down bcs of this lady and she knows it

Op,be a man and move on with your life..No go kill yourself for nothing... Personally I can tolerate anything but a cheating banny,I can't for one bit..

MARSHALDEMSA202:


Seriously I was shocked bcs d lady claims been good and can't cheat.

Have you ever seen a lady that claims to be bad and agrees that she always cheat

MARSHALDEMSA202

I deslike this romance section of Nairaland because many of Una nor get sense at all.

Only you go use your hands take go carry problem into your life.

Dont forget : HIV is rapant

MARSHALDEMSA202:


Seriously I was shocked bcs d lady claims been good and can't cheat.

lol,you be learner...

Why are some men mentally slow? You are asking whether to keep her? You were even asking to watch the video... You mumu die!

Someone you should have given a brain resetting slap on the spot and chased away from your house when you saw the video. I am sure you will foolishly forgive her and marry her.

Foolish men keeping women with male "sex buddies" called friends.