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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 10:57am On Sep 10, 2021
Kobojunkiee:
The man here is telling you that mentally he no longer finds his wife attractive. Obviously, he is mentally stressed and in need of help finding his MOJO again. undecided

Asking him to go see a therapist is what I would anyone who is struggling with stressor. Why you think that will confuse him, I don't understand. undecided

Do you see him say anything about stress. That's exactly what I mean by confuse him. The man says he no longer finds his wife sexually attractive and they'll start talking about stress. Simple: don't focus on your wife, focus on whatever you find sexually arousing, then transfer it to your wife. Same principle that makes masturbation possible

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by FreeIgboho: 10:59am On Sep 10, 2021
mariahAngel:


That you no longer find your wife attractive doesn’t mean other men don’t find her attractive.
If you keep making her beg for (what is hers) your attention, a time will come when she will stop.
Don’t come complaining when she eventually gets tired of your shakara and starts accepting the attention freely offered to her elsewhere.
By then, she no go send you again!

And what if he doesn't care, then what?

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Mystery9(m): 11:49am On Sep 10, 2021
FreeIgboho:
Easy. Find some girl image you find very arousing (maybe through porn - just once) then think that image to get aroused to bleep. No need to go outside
Stupid counsel

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Lexusgs430: 11:50am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.


The attention/distraction, you are receiving from that new lady in your life ......... KILL IT ...... cheesy

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Nobody: 11:50am On Sep 10, 2021
Spending few days with my ex-gf left me with no other conclusion than 'sex is tiring'. We need to have a tangible reason for marriage. Some people don't have a rethink about who they are seeing & rush into marriage in order to avoid premarital sex.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Joshrob(m): 11:51am On Sep 10, 2021
Buy her some new cloths you do find attractive on ladies outside,take her out sometimes (especially to that place you do see beautiful ladies).
Take some beautiful and sexy pictures together(pictures that you will view anytime and your dick will erect).
Tell her to stop tying wrapper everyday ad she should be taking her bath every morning and look good even if she's not going anywhere.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by blamingthedevil: 11:51am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Mystery9(m): 11:51am On Sep 10, 2021
Cast that evil spirit that is trying to destroy your home away. How can your wife be begging you for sex, what nonsense. You better work on yourself b4 you will come and start complaining of adultery here.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by nonix22(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
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ahnie:

Save your breathe...he has already gone outside.
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by AntagonistKKK(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
Were you forced to marry her by your community after.... you know. grin

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by afamaustin(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
Give me ur wife number one of my guy will be helping u to do ur work.very soon ur wife go the bleep outside ur marriage is very near to clash if u didn't do anything about it.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Hassanmaye(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.
Oh God you are very lucky sir, something some men are looking for in a wife, this life no balance. Just yesterday someone gave a thread his wife is denying him sex.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Skillsnigeria: 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
grin marry a second wife

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:52am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice whait could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.
Pastor kumuyi said it's your fault in the suceeding thread on front-page. You can read the thread and apply the solutions provided

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by OBA117(m): 11:53am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.


Please take responsibility....that means you already have another eye somewhere else. Please stop starving that innocent woman before you push her to do what you will not find funny undecided

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by suffering: 11:54am On Sep 10, 2021
These situations are too easy to counsel and make me wonder if they are real to begin with. If you don’t find her attractive, buy a cane and register her to a gym. Two months in and she’ll be the one posting here that she’s stopped finding you attractive. An alternative is to find her a yoga coach. That one is even better because she’ll move sexy at whatever size she finds herself.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Babaolose: 11:54am On Sep 10, 2021
He should pray to God
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by babadee1(m): 11:55am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.

Are you cheating on her with another woman? Are you watching porn? Are you doing masturbation? These are some of the things that may be responsible. Once you're getting your sexual satisfaction through another means then your wife will not be as sexually attractive to you anymore. If it's not these things then maybe she has changed too much either in her physical appearance or in her attitude. Talk to her about it and pray about it. God bless.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Klass99(f): 11:55am On Sep 10, 2021
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Kunleop: 11:55am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.


Bros,

Just get attracted to her because there is no any attractive lady outside there..

Someone have given a beautiful daughter yet you are not attractive to her..

Pls when u going home today branch at any restaurant and boutique, get her a very nice and sexy Cloths and perf with a nice cream, get her some nice food.

Tell her you love her so much and wait for the nice smile she will give you with a nice hug. Bros once again you will fall in love and get attract to her again..

Thanks

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by falcon01: 11:55am On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.
Damn bruh!! This is the stage we font wanna reach. Pretty sure there's a big decline in her hygiene, Physical fitness, and sense of fashion. Spice things up a little Tell her how you feel Try new things and if she aint up to it sorry!! that's it buddy you either stay with her like that or bounce out for new adventures.
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Mac2016(m): 11:56am On Sep 10, 2021
FreeIgboho:


How ya know? No need to AT ALL. Sex is 95% mental
What about the friction induced sweet heat and warmth? I doubt your submission, bro or sis.
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by vanhelsing1(m): 11:58am On Sep 10, 2021
dahmie2013:

OP, be more specific. Answer the above questions
social man...u asked the most intelligent questions any psychologist would ask him...u r simply intelligent but the one who claims he finds his wife sexually unattractive is not..He married her out of infatuation...and nothing more ..
don't waste ur time advicing a swine who wod later bathe in the mire..
thanks

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Goldenheart(m): 11:59am On Sep 10, 2021
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by JONSYN7154: 12:00pm On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.
Am sure you're comparing her with another woman that's why you lost interest in her.

No look at the what made you fall in love with her that made you married her. Try to rekindle that scenario and you'll find yourself loving her afresh like the morning dew.

I wish you well.
Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by JONSYN7154: 12:01pm On Sep 10, 2021
vanhelsing1:

social man...u asked the most intelligent questions any psychologist would ask him...u r simply intelligent but the one who claims he finds his wife sexually unattractive is not..He married her out of infatuation...and nothing more ..
don't waste ur time advicing a swine who wod later bathe in the mire..
thanks
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by SenatePresdo(m): 12:01pm On Sep 10, 2021
isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.

Stop sleeping in the same room with her.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by ghidhehorn(m): 12:02pm On Sep 10, 2021
Cut ties with other girls outside...that's the cause bro

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by Patented: 12:03pm On Sep 10, 2021
Work on yourself my Brother. I experienced something like that within the first year of my marriage.
What i did was to pray about it, regularly talk with my wife about our early meeting days and dating years to remind me of what attracted me initially.reminded myself that i cant look outside, did a lot of hanging out with her too. the prayer plenty ooo.

this is my experience so you can filter it according to situation.

isaacology3000:
I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.

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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by thickkpomo(m): 12:04pm On Sep 10, 2021
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folake4u:


Only an Edo man says "sonor".
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Re: I Don't Find My Wife Sexually Attractive. Please Help by ahnie: 12:06pm On Sep 10, 2021
nonix22:
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Yes now..Daddy must have gotten his balls screwed by any of those choristers and he expects mummy to be like aunty.

Do people even have erection in times like these?when there's always money to be made
Left to me...I rather have money than libido.

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