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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by witworth(m): 1:50am On Sep 12
First lust, wetin be love.
Or you can say first victim, customer, client, partner and so on.
But remove the love abeg

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Rastaramsey: 1:58am On Sep 12
Damnnnn niggarr
There is nothing special about first love....
I don't believe in the word *love*, it should be rather stressed as infatuation.....
We bleep almost everyday, drink, kush, bomb all day ���, cus there is no love in the jungle, even ur future wife might decide to marry you just to settle down and avoid unnecessary gossips
There is nothing like love....just enjoy her, bleep her as much as u can cus it's ur damn turn..

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Cocoalicious: 2:05am On Sep 12
I thought first love is, the first person you ever fell truly in love with, not necessarily the first person you dated or felt like you loved.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Acidosis(m): 2:26am On Sep 12
I barely remember that I dated or 'loved' anyone in the past. My memory isn't for stuff like that. It would take the grace of God and maybe a deep conversation for me to even remember any name. When it comes to love matters, I live for the present and the future.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Acidosis(m): 2:46am On Sep 12
Kobojunkie:
Which means you have probably not had a first love. undecided

It doesn't happen to all and it doesn't happen only when you are young. undecided

So that guy is only permitted to love one person throughout his life time? Once you have a first love, the first must stick so badly that you can't have a second, third, fourth, etc.? The second and third love must be so bad and useless that you will always have to remember the first even though you now have a fifth love?

The so called first love will prevent you from loving another in a better way? Nah, no man or woman should be in this terrible situation.

Love doesn't work that way.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kzeex(m): 2:53am On Sep 12
Alaye just make money and forget love.... When you don Hamma, u fit dey play dem make dem dey give you pass & assist join grin

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 2:57am On Sep 12
Acidosis:

So that guy is only permitted to love one person throughout his life time? Once you have a first love, the first must stick so badly that you can't have a second, third, fourth, etc.? The second and third love must be so bad and useless that you will always have to remember the first even though you now have a fifth love?

The so called first love will prevent you from loving another in a better way? Nah, no man or woman should be in this terrible situation.

Love doesn't work that way.
Maybe it is more the case that you don't understand what "first love" means. It simply refers to the first one you ever loved... nothing more. undecided

Of course you can have a second, third, fourth and so on, but the first is the first. undecided
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by fredoooooo: 3:20am On Sep 12
Na 1st madness o ... grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by MALIGNANTGuest: 3:23am On Sep 12
FIRST LOVE was a Terrible Leech.
But I treated her in the language she was able to understand.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by 2undeee(m): 3:33am On Sep 12
First love no b who u date first na d first person u where committed to so it can be even the middle one u date or the last person self
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by calcal: 4:21am On Sep 12
My first, I couldn't find the hole until she help put the thing inside grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by phemmyfour: 4:52am On Sep 12
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.
First love not first girlfriend. The girl that really touched your heart is your first love. You ll always know from the Chemistry between you guys.

My first was amazing, we were practically inseparable

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:15am On Sep 12
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.
It is mostly the ladies that usually talk about this first love of a thing.
And when they talk about the “Forget”, they are not talking about the hurting. They are actually still in love deep inside. And they can even cheat inside their marriage with the so-called first-love, all that it requires is just for the first-love to come around and show sings of love again and let her have some flashbacks of those days of first experiences.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by kuntash: 5:16am On Sep 12
Impregnable101:
I couldn't date my first love. She rejected me.

Looked back fee years later & was glad she rejected me else i for mumu for that girl die!!!!

Since then(2004), i vowed never to fall in love. heck, i am not sure if i have that much love for my wife but i will do anything to spend the rest of my life with my wife

PS: I have dated more than 60 girls b4 i met my wife

Datng 60 girls before marriage na award ni ? What if you realize say your current wife dated that much before meeting you , how you go feel ?

There are some things you need not say online , you might think it would earn you praise whence it's actually derogatory to you and others ....

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:17am On Sep 12
phemmyfour:
First love not first girlfriend. The girl that really touched your heart is your first love. You ll always know from the Chemistry between you guys.

My first was amazing, we were practically inseparable
No matter the chemistry, the relationship can still end.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by BluntCrazeMan: 5:27am On Sep 12
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
When it comes to first love, I have actually lost 2 relationships because of that.
They would be describing him as an Ex. Telling all demonic stories about him.
Next thing, they're back together.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Impregnable101: 6:12am On Sep 12
kuntash:


Datng 60 girls before marriage na award ni ? What if you realize say your current wife dated that much before meeting you , how you go feel ?

There are some things you need not say online , you might think it would earn you praise whence it's actually derogatory to you and others ....
that's why it's a faceless forum bro
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by phemmyfour: 6:43am On Sep 12
BluntCrazeMan:
No matter the chemistry, the relationship can still end.
It's not about the end but quality of the relationship
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by IpobKiller: 6:51am On Sep 12
harley88:
Myself and my baby are each other’s first loves, we have broken up with each other 5 times in the past one year now and yet we still keep coming back together. Me sef know say na ment but the attachment ehnnn

Ps: it’s first love not first date or first sex

You people be confusing people.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by IpobKiller: 6:54am On Sep 12
witworth:
First lust, wetin be love.
Or you can say first victim, customer, client, partner and so on.
But remove the love abeg

grin grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:06am On Sep 12
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...

That's why I still insist that getting to marry a virgin is the right way to go. cool

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Busymike: 7:07am On Sep 12
I don't even know my first love

Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:15am On Sep 12
Kobojunkie:
5 times in just one year! Yeah, I can believe meaningless shaite like that happens with some folks! undecided


grin cool
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:17am On Sep 12
Help2020:
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Internet do not forget. cool
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:19am On Sep 12
FarukuWadata12:
I'm 28 and never been in love in my entire life... I spent most of my life playing video games, watching sports and movies and reading newspapers. When I see how my friends are being betrayed, manipulated and fooled in the name of love, I quickly thank God for my amazing life.
But in the next 16 months after completing my house which is almost completed, I will be in search of my soulmate. Hopefully that will be my first and last.

I pray you find true love that's if they aren't attracted to the house you're building. cool

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:20am On Sep 12
suffering:
Okay. Compose a diary detailing all the experiences. The first love is special to most people because they go through only a handful of relationships. You’re on your tenth plus so the first love is a distant memory. Some girls I hooked up with only had flings throughout their lives so envisioned getting married to their first ever boyfriends.

Deep! cool
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by sylve11: 7:23am On Sep 12
MALIGNANTGuest:
FIRST LOVE was a Terrible Leech.
But I treated her in the language she was able to understand.


grin grin cool
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by 1onebigman(m): 7:24am On Sep 12
A woman loves in percentages they always reserve some for a spare tire.this lines ehn e get where e touch
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Help2020: 7:31am On Sep 12
sylve11:


Internet do not forget. cool
Lol.Exactly.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Jamesbiodun(m): 7:44am On Sep 12
First love is not special in anyway to me, its just like a random person, some people just can't forget their past grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by uthlaw(m): 8:03am On Sep 12
FarukuWadata12:
I'm 28 and never been in love in my entire life... I spent most of my life playing video games, watching sports and movies and reading newspapers. When I see how my friends are being betrayed, manipulated and fooled in the name of love, I quickly thank God for my amazing life.
But in the next 16 months after completing my house which is almost completed, I will be in search of my soulmate. Hopefully that will be my first and last.
make sure you get married to a lady that are parent are okay,no marry liability..... I'm staying in arkilla but currently in kaduna....where are you staying in sokoto!
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by annayawchee: 8:58am On Sep 12
Lol.... I've dated about 3 girls so far but I haven't actually felt all those love thing...

Na cruise..

Maybe someday I will find the love but for now we meuve

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