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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Ussycool(m): 11:03pm On Sep 11
You must hold him/her with high esteem even after break up.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by ForestHill: 11:03pm On Sep 11
They're eye openers grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Akinbahm(m): 11:04pm On Sep 11
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.

At the emboldened is your first love, trust me if she knocks your door tomorrow morning am sure you will gladly accept her.

In a nutshell the first girl u love unconditionally is termed your first love not all those release tanks u dey use relieve body....

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by SimplyFacts: 11:08pm On Sep 11
No deflowering, no first love, abeg.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by techWriter1: 11:13pm On Sep 11
Your "first hate" really alludes to the first two you truly hated, not the two you first issued.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by arthurwillia(m): 11:15pm On Sep 11
Mtchew
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Mercychen(f): 11:15pm On Sep 11
Nothing.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by ModestGal(f): 11:16pm On Sep 11
Nothing

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Lightway: 11:18pm On Sep 11
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...

Are you trying to say you cherish your first love more you cherish your husband?

Chai.... Women are complicated ooo.

If I marry, make I whine ooooooooo

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by samuel051: 11:20pm On Sep 11
U get time o..my first don born for old man after she almost trap me with people papa pregnancy after 15 years of breakup, thank God say I no dey reason kpenkus like some simps by now I for dey liable to unowned child now.. once I move..me, myself and I don meuuuve..

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by vince96w2: 11:25pm On Sep 11
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
stop using flower for such acts... grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 11:25pm On Sep 11
samuel051:
U get time o..my first don born for old man after she almost trap me with people papa pregnancy after 15 years of breakup, thank God say I no dey reason kpenkus like some simps by now I for dey liable to unowned child now.. once I move..me, myself and I don meuuuve..
Yet you remember her...? undecided

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by bmdmix11: 11:26pm On Sep 11
second love is fairly used
first one is brand new.

any other question

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Elzazzi: 11:28pm On Sep 11
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...

Hmm. I still know of a girl dat still hangs around her so called Ex even after they had broken up so many times. Even if she has a new guy this Ex is still there. I think even if she gets married this guy will still be fuckin her.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by samuel051: 11:29pm On Sep 11
Kobojunkie:
Yet you remember her...? undecided
person begin send me money say make we reconcile while sapa dey play me for another state,wetin u expect,na wen she begin pressure me say she won resign from her job to come stay with me for my rural village I know say something dey sup. Na she sue for d reconciliation with cash gift o,no be me o.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 11:34pm On Sep 11
samuel051:
person begin send me money say make we reconcile while sapa dey play me for another state,wetin u expect,na wen she begin pressure me say she won resign from her job to come stay with me for my rural village I know say something dey sup. Na she sue for d reconciliation with cash gift o,no be me o.
The main is you remember her and details of her. undecided

If you were not her first love, she may have even forgotten about you. undecided
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by b3llo(m): 11:35pm On Sep 11
Na them dey pop cherry.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by koyyess: 11:40pm On Sep 11
It's always males coming online to talk about relationships. Later they will say it's women that need men so they can win the game of reverse psychology.

Op, I like the two ladies that dumped your player a$$. Keep being pained.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Toks2008(m): 11:41pm On Sep 11
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.

Ladies are the ones who have strong attachment to their first love.

The one wey sey I be her first love still dey my neck after 20years lol!

When you hear ladies speak about thier first love just watch the spark in their eyes.

A lady can date a number of men but may not love them but that first guy she truly loves will be her true love for life even if she ends up marrying another man.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by moneyissweet(m): 11:41pm On Sep 11
I don't remember my first love
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by samuel051: 11:42pm On Sep 11
Kobojunkie:
The main is you remember her and details of her. undecided

If you were not her first love, she may have even forgotten about you. undecided
read again o bros.. even d person dat rescued u d day u need as small as 10naira to complete a payment when u re broke will forever be in ur memory when something that leads to similar events pops up compare to who instantly gives u 20k now and u give him back in few minutes time,it doesn't mean such person is occupying the front sit in your thoughts..we meet and leave humans everyday, irrespective of who dey are to us,we only make those with good memories linger forever no matter d position they appear in our lives.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Toks2008(m): 11:44pm On Sep 11
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...

I talk am!

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by stasius: 11:45pm On Sep 11
First love is exceptional.

It happens when you are still naive... A novice... Usually you fall for someone who is experienced. When the break up happens, you feel it most because your partner is ur first.
He/she may not necessarily feel same except you are also his/her first love.
First love is the best and truest love.
The break up from your first love hurt most. Subsequent ones don't hurt as much because u have had an experience.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 11:47pm On Sep 11
samuel051:
read again o bros.. even d person dat rescued u d day u need as small as 10naira to complete a payment when u re broke will forever be in ur memory when something that leads to similar events pops up compare to who instantly gives u 20k now and u give him back in few minutes time , it doesn't mean such person is occupying the front sit in your thoughts..we meet and leave humans everyday, irrespective of who dey are to us,we only make those with good memories linger forever no matter d position they appear in our lives.
we are talking here of first loves... the moment it is mentioned, even if in passing, that person pops right back into your head.n undecided
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Hoodyrich(m): 11:47pm On Sep 11
The chemistry is so deep in a way i can't explain, peharps it could be first experience stuff playing out.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kenneth10110(m): 11:48pm On Sep 11
We dey look first big money you dey talk first love. mtcheww

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Toks2008(m): 11:50pm On Sep 11
moneyissweet:
I don't remember my first love

Guys don't do that first love thing.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by chatinent: 11:54pm On Sep 11
I've dated couple of girls but none was my first love.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 11:56pm On Sep 11
moneyissweet:
I don't remember my first love
Probably because you haven't had one yet. undecided
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Help2020: 11:56pm On Sep 11
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
And in your post earlier you regretted not meeting your current boyfriend earlier. Nigeria girl make una dey talk truth abeg.

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