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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by akposking(m): 9:01am On Sep 12
Houseofglam7:
undecided
my nl baby.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 12:30pm On Sep 12
BluntCrazeMan:
It is mostly the ladies that usually talk about this first love of a thing.
And when they talk about the “Forget”, they are not talking about the hurting. They are actually still in love deep inside. And they can even cheat inside their marriage with the so-called first-love, all that it requires is just for the first-love to come around and show sings of love again and let her have some flashbacks of those days of first experiences.
I believe you. One side chick I'm lashing Was telling me how special her first love is... That anytime they meet there's this connection. I already know what she meant. Thank God she's just a side chick

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 12:31pm On Sep 12
phemmyfour:
First love not first girlfriend. The girl that really touched your heart is your first love. You ll always know from the Chemistry between you guys.

My first was amazing, we were practically inseparable
I love this. This is making so much sense

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 12:33pm On Sep 12
Toks2008:


Ladies are the ones who have strong attachment to their first love.

The one wey sey I be her first love still dey my neck after 20years lol!

When you hear a ladies speak about thier first love just watch the spark in their eyes.

A lady can date a number of men but may not love them but that first guy she truly loves will be her true love for life even if she ends up marrying another man.
This is the kind of truth that hurts

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Kobojunkie: 12:33pm On Sep 12
Acidosis:

So that guy is only permitted to love one person throughout his life time? Once you have a first love, the first must stick so badly that you can't have a second, third, fourth, etc.? The second and third love must be so bad and useless that you will always have to remember the first even though you now have a fifth love?

The so called first love will prevent you from loving another in a better way? Nah, no man or woman should be in this terrible situation.

Love doesn't work that way.
You are still not making any sense to me and this because of your warped Idea of what a "first love" refers to..

"First love" doesn't mean you will only love one person for life. undecided

"First love" does not mean you can't have a second, third, fourth or fifth.... undecided

"First love" simply refers to the first one you ever loved. undecided

For some folks their "first cut" is the deepest. For others, not so much. undecided

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 12:34pm On Sep 12
Akinbahm:


At the emboldened is your first love, trust me if she knocks your door tomorrow morning am sure you will gladly accept her.

In a nutshell the first girl u love unconditionally is termed your first love not all those release tanks u dey use relieve body....
grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 12:35pm On Sep 12
Kobojunkie:
Your "first love" really refers to the first one you truly or ever loved, not the one you first dated. undecided
You are right
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by freshalien: 12:46pm On Sep 12
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.

You have never forgotten her because she shocked you with how she stuck to her decision to dump you due to your irresponsible action of dating/fvcking multiple ladies other than her. You took her for granted and thought if she finds out she would be easy to win back only to get the shock of a life time when she dumped you and stuck to her decision despite your pleas and “change of attitude”. You never expected it and you felt your ego heavily bruised by her actions, hence you have never forgotten her since then.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 1:28pm On Sep 12
freshalien:


You have never forgotten her because she shocked you with how she stuck to her decision to dump you due to your irresponsible action of dating/fvcking multiple ladies other than her. You took her for granted and thought if she finds out she would be easy to win back only to get the shock of a life time when she dumped you and stuck to her decision despite your pleas and “change of attitude”. You never expected it and you felt your ego heavily bruised by her actions, hence you have never forgotten her since then.
I feel attacked cheesy
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by babavik: 5:35pm On Sep 12
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
What!? Then I must get myself a virgin.

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 6:59pm On Sep 12
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
This is deep. Will u do that
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 7:09pm On Sep 12
koyyess:
It's always males coming online to talk about relationships. Later they will say it's women that need men so they can win the game of reverse psychology.

Op, I like the two ladies that dumped your player a$$. Keep being pained.

Girls are wicked. I was a player before I met her. When I met her I decided to change
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Nobody: 7:18pm On Sep 12
Help2020:
And in your post earlier you regretted not meeting your current boyfriend earlier. Nigeria girl make una dey talk truth abeg.
grin
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by debbydams(f): 7:21pm On Sep 12
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.
there's nothing like that in my dico

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Sep 12
angry
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Lamanii22(f): 12:05am On Sep 13
henrybangs44:

This is deep. Will u do that

Neverr! I love my husband too much...

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 7:05am On Sep 13
Lamanii22:


Neverr! I love my husband too much...
Even though u love him... According to u . if the guy that deflowered u ll show up there's a possibility you ll lash him
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by gunsnroses: 7:08am On Sep 13
Kobojunkie:
Your "first love" really refers to the first one you truly or ever loved, not the one you first dated. undecided

I agree!!! Dating and love for me are completely different phases. Just because you're dating doesn't mean you "love" the person. Maybe you're just dating for fun. First love hits different.
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Houseofglam7(f): 12:53pm On Sep 13
akposking:
my nl baby.

kiss

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by Lamanii22(f): 3:16pm On Sep 13
henrybangs44:

Even though u love him... According to u . if the guy that deflowered u ll show up there's a possibility you ll lash him


My husband deflowered me....
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 11:38pm On Sep 13
Lamanii22:



My husband deflowered me....
Then you have no experience and in no position to conclude such. If u tatse a Coke sweeter than your husband's I'm telling u ll know there are sweet parts of this life u never knew... Forget
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by DonroxyII: 1:01pm On Sep 16
henrybangs44:
I don't know why I never seem to understand what's special about first love.

Everyday people talk about how first love is impossible to forget but I don't get it. Is there any love that you can forget? Can you forget the love you had with you 6th, 7th or Nth Love?

The first girl I dated was when I was in secondary school and even my teachers knew about her because I was good in class so she was like "the celebrity girlfriend".

But she's not even the girl that broke my heart the most even though she was the one that ended the relationship.

The one that broke my heart was even during my NYSC. She discovered I was a player and decided to end everything and never looked back. I did everything to win her back, I changed, started behaving well but na, she was adamant. I had over 10 girlfriends after her but she's still the one that hurts me the most

I believe the deepest heartbreak mustn't come from first love. It can come from any love and I think this " first love" issue is overrated.
First love is the first exposure to romantic affairs .... We hardly forget our first love, first mistakes , first errors .......

My first girl still dey shack me till tomorrow but the lesson I learnt is that there is no reason to date or romantic relationship except you are ready to marry ....
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by DonroxyII: 1:03pm On Sep 16
Lamanii22:
Maybe cause you're a guy, but a lady most times cherishes their "first" love.... Especially if he was the one that deflowered them.... Takes the grace of God to not run to them after you must have been married...
Aswear, Especially when the relationship/Situationship was a sweet memorable one but immaturity lead to the breakup ..... Just run away from each other when you both become matured because una go wreck homes !

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 8:50pm On Sep 16
DonroxyII:
First love is the first exposure to romantic affairs .... We hardly forget our first love, first mistakes , first errors .......

My first girl still dey shack me till tomorrow but the lesson I learnt is that there is no reason to date or romantic relationship except you are ready to marry ....
So u forget the other relationships you had?
Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by DonroxyII: 4:24am On Sep 17
henrybangs44:

So u forget the other relationships you had?
That's was my first and last relationship (I only had female friends).... Once it scattered within 2 years, I see no reason for romantic relationship unless you are ready for marriage or babies ......

No reason to put your heart on Seesaw Jangilova especially when you know you ain't ready for a home ..... Face your Hustles!!

Date and get marry in few months ... c' est fini...

Why should you and someone be dating for 5years, 10years with lots of up and down ... I no fit ... I guard my heartz like craze ......

3months -6months- 12Months max (Too much sef) ..... Date when you are ready to marry or make babies .... That's my own oo .... !!

Date and settle within a year once compatibility test is a "Yes" if not ... drop each other and check next one ......

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by henrybangs44(m): 7:22am On Sep 17
DonroxyII:
That's was my first and last relationship (I only had female friends).... Once it scattered within 2 years, I see no reason for romantic relationship unless you are ready for marriage or babies ......

No reason to put your heart on Seesaw Jangilova especially when you know you ain't ready for a home ..... Face your Hustles!!

Date and get marry in few months ... c' est fini...
You are real odogwu

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Re: What's Special About "First Love"? by akeeng: 7:09am On Sep 20
Ginaz:
I’m still with my first love, we have probably broken up more than 20times but always find way to come back to each other .

It’s been 10 crazy years but I still do love him like the first day I met him. Even though sometimes I do tell everyone what a jerk he is, especially when he got me upset but he’s still the one who knows best how to make me happy.

We have been through the teenage days, both bad and worse days. Days we both did hurtful things and days we both had nothing but laugher , tears and happiness.

The more we quarrel, the stronger the love. We haven’t aged one bit, we still play like spoilt teenagers. Lol . He still carries me on his back , like he did when he was 18 , and I would giggled like I did, when I was 17.

I’m his first love too.
stop lying Safia

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