You Dodged a BULLET.....Time heals everything!!!

You too, ignore her completely, as in, TOTALY.

Block her on all you SM handles
Block and delete her and her family's contact in your phone.
Work harder to improve yourself
Relocate to a better area, if you can.
Invest in business and career that will guarantee financial security.
Make new sets of good friend that have sense.
You will be fine, but don't go into another relationship just yet.
Incase she comes begging, tell her you're okay with being just friends but don't stay in touch.

What's her own sef

Move on Brother.
With time you will get over it

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

nurez305:
My beneficial advice have little insult in it or should I keep my advice then ?


On a serious note, is there another app call whatsup or they are referring to the same WhatsApp. Many people including my boss at work call it whatsup just like this OP and I keep wondering if am the one that is wrong so that I can join them calling it whatsup

They are two different apps. There is also another one called Wazzap

Oga it might surprise you to know that she might not be cheating and the reason why she broke up with you is because you are being insecure and childish.

You lost track of who you are the moment you started being so emotionally dependent on her, you made her your center, your sense of self worth.

All these tend to turn her off.

In fact bringing it online to seek opinion just re emphasized your immaturity.

Most men always fail at this stage of their life, when they are in a committed relationship, some scale through, that is the intelligent ones, others don’t.

Now is the time to fvck off and go resolve your issues with her without involving anyone or her family members.

Stop shitting in your pants and put yourself together. Grow some balls nigga.

You can fix this relationship by fixing yourself first.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Called breakfast my brother, majority of the guys have all been there. Some might have even done more for a girl than you what you did, however, bottomline is, you’ll be fine and you’ll meet who appreciate you. I have personally experience this first hand , quite similar story too
Take a break from work, go hang out with family or friends for a while. It’ll ease the pain at least

Just take your mind off from her for 2 straight weeks and thank me later...

TabletMan:
I detest fools and they irritates me too much.
You're begging her to love you or marry you?
So if the girl comes back to you, how do you feel the relationship will be like? You will beg her to stay with you throughout your marital life.


My friend pick yourself up and move on.

Brotherly, you are getting it wrong in relationship women are always perfect in fact they can never make wrong decisions also cases of paternity fraud are as a result of baby switching in offices, schools, clinics, hospitals and maternity homes etc thus, women should not b hold to accountability.

Tell op to man up and summon courage to treat the girl right by begging her more so as to complete his stupidity he doesn’t want to graduate from...

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Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

I didn't know guys like you still exist. You don't know how to move on..?

Dey there dey simp dey go.

The best way to move on is to replace her sharp sharp unless you be dull guy man �

Oga.those periods she wasn't comfortable to pickup her calls in your presence was the red signals.The love wasn't there from the onset,she was using you as a spare hereby flowing along.
Candy advice; move on n find a female friend to talk to, listen to inspiration tape,play cool music, always make yourself happy.You are in charge of your happiness mind you.Let her go,your perfect woman will surface soon.
Lastly;pray for a good life partner.Guy high your moral!!!
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[img][/img] My only take on this

When a lady does not love you, she does not love you.

Spending money will not change that fact.
It will only give you easy sex but not love.

The best thing you can do is to recognise it early and leave that relationship.

She may later fall in love with you, but that is only after you have proven that you can do without her.

Saga bloda

He who builds on community land will have omonile to contend with. This is not about land

Weak men everywhere.

Started a business for someone you haven't married, have you started a business for your mom?, Or Dad or siblings yet?. People who have your back and cared for you.

You have always been a placeholder boyfriend and she has always been looking for a way to break it off with you, without feeling bad, she's found an opportunity and that's it.

My advice , count your losses and move on

Sonnobax15:

Op,so you wanna kill yourself Simply because of that?

The kind people wey I dey share this my masculinity with these days dey shock me

So as you tell us now, make we start to dey fast ehn

I feel you brother because I was once in your shoe. Mine happened while I was on sick bed, iit added to that sickness, depression upon depression, almost lost my life but thank GOD because am up and doing right now. My self determination helped me to conquer the ugly situation though it wasn't easy but I came out much stronger than before. Just like your case, I tried begging her and I invited people to beg her despite that she was at fault. I started building hatred feels for her, after I had exhausted every possible means of appealing to her. To GOD be the glory, there have been tremendous improvement in my life since she has left me. Financially, am much more better than before. Now, I have so many beautiful ladies around me to choose from, eventhou am finding it difficult to love again.

Please learn from the above, it will help you a lot.

He said 'good evening'
We've indeed lost a brother. Gather your shit up and move on bro. Just learn to make yourself happy

Look for a bigger life changing problem. Be disciplined not to reach her or family members again. Go back to school, learn another skill or language. Meet new people.
Change your location and place of residence. Do not seek revenge please. She will find you, I promise.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Men need to learn how to switch off the connection they have to unresponsive women.

Women that is only interested in your money anytime you talk.

Women that is always occupied with one man or the other.

Just let her go.

It's painful, but you can learn it.

Sonnobax15:

Op,so you wanna kill yourself Simply because of that?

The kind people wey I dey share this my masculinity with these days dey shock me

Bros the thing dey tire me sha. Some things I read online I begin to wonder if these dudes don't have any self pride.

To the Op: move on bro, it hurts but the truth is the girl has moved on. You need to do the same

Find another girl and date to get rid of the past

Danielomisco:
Send her 200k

[b]She has Moved On. She Used You.
Crying and begging will solve nothing.
YOU MUST MOve On.
Be SUccessful, Look Good and Work Hard.
Expect a lot more dissapointments in life.
Keep Good Friends & Money in the Bank.
All WIll Be Well[

Fkforyou:
Oga it might surprise you to know that she might not be cheating and the reason why she broke up with you is because you are being insecure and childish.

You lost track of who you are the moment you started being so emotionally dependent on her, you made her your center, your sense of self worth.

All these tend to turn her off.

In fact bringing it online to seek opinion just re emphasized your immaturity.

Most men always fail at this stage of their life, when they are in a committed relationship, some scale through, that is the intelligent ones, others don’t.

Now is the time to fvck off and go resolve your issues with her without involving anyone or her family members.

Stop shitting in your pants and put yourself together. Grow some balls nigga.

You can fix this relationship by fixing yourself first.

No apologies anyone who typed this is a fool.

The man did nothing wrong by letting his concerns known.

Damnnnn niggarr
Bloody SIMPle boy....
You know the answer to your silly question.....

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

I would have given you a different advice if you had not begged or sent people to beg her,I would have asked you to ignore her and watch her miss you ..But now that you have done that nothing else will matter except time..let time heal you .

Women forget easily....Never ever invest in them.

And lastly never ever take them serious. They are meant to satisfy your sexual urge. Just see them like this and don't stress yourself beyond. The 21st century woman is not worth it

@OP ...your Redpill journey starts from here. Better man up and stop simping