EXLOVER:
I stopped taking relationship serious matter serious even though I'm over ripe for marriage.

After i saw my then ex girlfriend chat, i confronted her about it, and in her voice "So baby you think you're the only one enjoying this pvssy"?


I sat down and i thought about it, she's right. I later let myself enjoy the pvssy for a while, then i call it quit when she didn't expected it. I can't be calling you my girlfriend, when other guys are enjoying your kini, i can be walking with her, and another guy that has climbed her several times will see us, that will be very disrespectful to me, I'm a titled man.


Bro you should be happy for what God has done to you. Let go of that pvssy, move ahead, improve in yourself, increase your account balance. And enjoy your bachelor life.

Woman problem can mess with your mental health, it's not worth it...

chusks:
Before opening the thread, I said to myself:

It must be a guy!
Guess what?


Sorry OP no insult intended, but is it that guys are becoming more stupid and girls are being smarter?

Almost every heartbreaking story is always from the male folks. Make una find something to they do with una time, abeg...

FalseProphet1:
I see you going to beg her, I see her insulting you and calling you degrading names, I see her asking you to compensate her for accusing her wrongly, I see you emptying your life savings to give to her, I see her sending her wedding IV to you afterwards, I see you landing in the hospital.

This I have seen.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

TabletMan:
Guy If this stupid OP is my brother, i would have disown him because only vegetable laced with love portion will make a man behave this stupid way. I don't even comment on relationship thread just that I don't know how I end up commenting on this topic.

FalseProphet1:
I see you going to beg her, I see her insulting you and calling you degrading names, I see her asking you to compensate her for accusing her wrongly, I see you emptying your life savings to give to her, I see her sending her wedding IV to you afterwards, I see you landing in the hospital.

This I have seen.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Fkforyou:
Oga it might surprise you to know that she might not be cheating and the reason why she broke up with you is because you are being insecure and childish.

You lost track of who you are the moment you started being so emotionally dependent on her, you made her your center, your sense of self worth.

All these tend to turn her off.

In fact bringing it online to seek opinion just re emphasized your immaturity.

Most men always fail at this stage of their life, when they are in a committed relationship, some scale through, that is the intelligent ones, others don’t.

Now is the time to fvck off and go resolve your issues with her without involving anyone or her family members.

Stop shitting in your pants and put yourself together. Grow some balls nigga.

You can fix this relationship by fixing yourself first.

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Ammishaddai:
OP, the relationship is over . And the sooner you realise this the easier it will be to move on . And besides , you were foolish to invest in woman who can decide to change today and be another person tomorrow.

Perhaps this will be lesson to you and all the other gullible simps out there

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

chatinent:

Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

Sonnobax15:

Op,so you wanna kill yourself Simply because of that?

The kind people wey I dey share this my masculinity with these days dey shock me

Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.