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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by pek(m): 5:31pm On Sep 28, 2021
Bamzyriches451:
Bros op, you're a Simpson but I'll still give you tips on how to move on
1. Cry very well, cry all the cry you want to cry
2. Then listen to heartbreak songs from Aurora to alessia cara
3. Order Amala and gbegiri, make shakki and roundabout, don't forget to add ponmo.
4. Then listen to Mercy chinwo's excess love to remind yourself of God's love and nobody love can be better............

Enjoy and thank me later...
Have a nice day too
What if he doesn't know what that is or doesn't eat it?
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by tunize(m): 5:33pm On Sep 28, 2021
UTILITYMAY:
I hope you were not crying while typing this, because I read your story imagining someone crying telling me this story. Anyways, you are free to cry, but make sure you don't remain there. Buy Chilled Pepsi and any snack of your choice, enjoy that moment and sleep. When you wake and you are still feeling heartbroken, repeat the same process. Keep doing that for the next two weeks. You will just realize YOU HAVE MOVED ON!
He should be drinking pepsi and snacks for two weeks u wan kill am or are you related to the girl hehehehe??

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by samology2000: 5:36pm On Sep 28, 2021
Bro you have to let go. it seems you gave her upper hand. And from the look of things she dont really like you. please dont try to manage any relationship. if she loves you she will not go to the extend of blocking your number etc. Put yourself together and find a girl that loves you for who you are and not what you have. Peace........
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Gee64: 5:44pm On Sep 28, 2021
Money don finish methinks.
She moves to another sucker!
Danielomisco:
Send her 200k
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by poweredcom(m): 5:56pm On Sep 28, 2021
@Op

You are acting like a beech ass niggas begging a naija girl that has noting to offer your life

The truth is two of you used your self and she found hance to fly to another man

That girls for you ...you de love you just de waste ur time

@womenareapess come see broda wey mumu
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Innobee99(m): 5:58pm On Sep 28, 2021
Solofresh2:
You can continue wailing for all I care
Go to the zoo bro

Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Solofresh2: 6:01pm On Sep 28, 2021
Innobee99:
Go to the zoo bro

Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Siberry: 6:20pm On Sep 28, 2021
Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.

Hey OP, cry if you can. Men are allowed to cry.

This phase shall pass soon. Many of us have all been there. Soon, you will look back to this day and ask yourself what were you even thinking working yourself up like that. You may end up praising God for removing her from your life.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by aniblue(m): 6:20pm On Sep 28, 2021
You've said it all.
Best advice!

chatinent:

Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by IJEYdiamond(f): 6:27pm On Sep 28, 2021
I never knew there r guys who still love these days.... when people out there marry those that they dont love and live loveless lives.......


Its well....!!!
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Truvelisback(m): 7:41pm On Sep 28, 2021
Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.
U caused all these. U monitor her too much. As a lady, whether she likes it or not guys will definitely approach her or try to make friend with her. Besides, u haven't married her yet. If u are having trust issues, then leave her?
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Eastcaostboy: 7:50pm On Sep 28, 2021
chatinent:

Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

well, not good in reading much. Just glance, though I ve comprehend. Boy, keeping a girl and having sex up and down with her whenever you wish, you ar killing yourself and it's a sin that holds back success. You need to upgrade yourself and forget that low lifestyle, focus on your self on how to better your life, if worst come to worst you want to have fun, plan for it with a girl that will satisfy you, have it to the fullest pay for a hotel get yourself satisfied. Then come back and continue your hustle, that's the real deal

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Nobody: 7:54pm On Sep 28, 2021
qtguru:


We all take an L at one point in life. this is for character development.
Thanks, I needed this although I am not the op.
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Innobee99(m): 8:30pm On Sep 28, 2021
[quote author=Solofresh2 post=106257634][/quote]No wonder, Ur village people are tired of u

Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by peedeeasobie(m): 8:52pm On Sep 28, 2021
Go to the radio and TV stations and announce your love for her.

You are too immature to get married. If you do in this your childish and sheepish condition, the lady will finish you completely.

Someone is cheating on you and you are calling and begging?

Who raised you? Were you not brought up with an atom of dignity and self respect?

She is a classic manipulator and you are falling for it

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Solofresh2: 8:58pm On Sep 28, 2021
Innobee99:
No wonder, Ur village people are tired of u
Abeg get lost from my mention jare!
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Solofresh2: 9:00pm On Sep 28, 2021
Innobee99:
No wonder, Ur village people are tired of u
The truth is always bitter
Am telling you now, you dey do srong head
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Bamzyriches451: 9:04pm On Sep 28, 2021
pek:
What if he doesn't know what that is or doesn't eat it?
He can go with Eba and egusi soup with catfish and ponmo....... Na another mad combo be that

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by torqque7(m): 9:07pm On Sep 28, 2021
Bloody looser SIMP..regardless of how many stories they hear or see,the SIMP will remain a foolish SIMP and be used by the girl as she pleases.
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Paulianfa(m): 9:09pm On Sep 28, 2021
Send her 200k

No nah, u can't do this to ur fellow human being, this man is out of his mind, heartbroken! He needs support not adding salt to injury.
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by qtguru(m): 9:18pm On Sep 28, 2021
theForth:

Thanks, I needed this although I am not the op.

Happy Birthday bro

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Innobee99(m): 10:07pm On Sep 28, 2021
Solofresh2:
The truth is always bitter
Am telling you now, you dey do srong head
Strong head say u dey pray bad prayer for me abi which one?



Satan break ur d!ck, u dey jons

Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Ugandatales: 10:19pm On Sep 28, 2021
UTILITYMAY:
I hope you were not crying while typing this, because I read your story imagining someone crying telling me this story. Anyways, you are free to cry, but make sure you don't remain there. Buy Chilled Pepsi and any snack of your choice, enjoy that moment and sleep. When you wake and you are still feeling heartbroken, repeat the same process. Keep doing that for the next two weeks. You will just realize YOU HAVE MOVED ON!

HAHAHAHA!!! You made me laugh. grin

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by hkidola00(m): 10:45pm On Sep 28, 2021
EXLOVER:
I stopped taking relationship serious matter serious even though I'm over ripe for marriage.

After i saw my then ex girlfriend chat, i confronted her about it, and in her voice "So baby you think you're the only one enjoying this pvssy"?


I sat down and i thought about it, she's right. I later let myself enjoy the pvssy for a while, then i call it quit when she didn't expected it. I can't be calling you my girlfriend, when other guys are enjoying your kini, i can be walking with her, and another guy that has climbed her several times will see us, that will be very disrespectful to me, I'm a titled man.


Bro you should be happy for what God has done to you. Let go of that pvssy, move ahead, improve in yourself, increase your account balance. And enjoy your bachelor life.

Woman problem can mess with your mental health, it's not worth it...
bro,u are motivating me
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by OLRAYS(m): 10:56pm On Sep 28, 2021
Rhozabeth:


Bros u go move on naa ni!
She'd been looking for that opportunity to get rid of u and u finally presented that opportunity to her.
Aswearugod!
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Moz22: 10:58pm On Sep 28, 2021
chatinent:

Ok o.


Maybe it is the word you used but I put it to you, once I am feeling uncomfortable with a relationship and get knocked off for serious questions, it's a red flag.


That friend or bestie that cannot be your partner makes me wonder if some people really know what they are doing most times.


Yeah, I also keep my cool when I am about to leave you to keep dating yourself or move on.


Awwwn, just like a ramseynoah-ogeokoye love.


Angry or needing an excuse for the nearest exit?


I am thinking to say this is good news. Let me wait to read what you have to say.



Hello brotherman,

I won't mince words with you but I'll be considerate by incorporating myself into your love story.

If I were the you-figure, I would walk away. Maybe I would have done so long ago when the signs were no longer glistening as greenish as it earlier illuminated.

I have to walk away from people I also love sometimes, not because I didn't try enough, but because of self respect.

If that's the only reasons she clung unto to end your four-year love internship, oh, so sorry...you were only the finance guy! My apology if I used hard words.

I strongly advise sponsoring only a wife in school, or anything...and not the other way round! Your case is one of the many cases hovering over the angry always-recurring blue moon in the minds of many guys who were once gentlemen. There have been many cases where a gentleman had to finance a woman's education and she married some other course-mate, or got impregnated by sb deemed better...making her sponsor's efforts come to waste!

Love is a beautiful thing... but it mostly turns out that the best person who'd hurt you is that one person you truly love...and that hurts the most.

Don't feel too bad. Move on. Heartbreak is like cloud storms...with time, it will fade. But you have to nurture your heart to repel against heartbreaks too. Of course, you also have to learn not to transfer aggression to the next honest girl who comes by. You know, it isn't a gender fight. It's the person not the gender.
So, we aren't preaching retaliation...we only have to forgive people who hurt us, forget their hurt, but not forgetting the lesson it taught us.

Moving forward....I think you should stop begging. You are worth more than that. Yeah, I know we have to try to reunite with people we love. I've done that too...some times, I apologize not because I am wrong, but because I value the relationship than being right. If my efforts are not respected, I stop doing them..and it's gone forever.

Men cry too....but make sure no bi relationship matter dey make you invent river benue.


This is a stage of your life you will begin to see changes and understand there is more to your being than what you have been. Build on it. What she is rejecting in you may be envied by others!

Keep squares out of your circles. Avoid toxic people and relationships...and next time, date when you are about to marry.

I liKe the man you'll become.

You are welcome.

you get time sha
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Josephkabila12: 10:58pm On Sep 28, 2021
Take heart
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Ellegacy(m): 11:29pm On Sep 28, 2021
The best thing to do is change environment. Associate with people that loves you.

Lastly, never ever beg for Love.

I assure you, give your self time. You will heal.
Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by obinna58(m): 11:50pm On Sep 28, 2021
Ikemoney:
good evening all, please i need a serious advice from you guys with out insuit, Please.

have been dating this girl for close to 4 years now, and am madly in love with her, at first i never love her, she did everything for me to love which i am now, have done everything a man could do for woman, i assisted her in setting up her business, i alway ensure she is okay,her family knows me.

we have already start making plan on getting married, before now have been having trust issues with her, when ever her phone is close to me or it rings she is not comfortable, anytime i ask questions she knock it off,she will say they are just friends, at a point i was monitoring her, she knew,friends will call me they saw my girl with some one guy ,that same guy usually do call, have ask her who is the guy, she said they just friends , it was clear she was cheating her attitude towards me change, yet i kept cool for peace to reign and for what i feel for her.

To cut the story short, spoke to her family about it and her brother abroad, now she is angry and she does not want the relationship anymore,have beg her have also send people to beg her, she said never that she has move on, am confuse i really do love her, the worst part she block me on watsup and messager and she is not picking my calls, i feel she dislike me now.

when even i rmember my labour in this i feel so bad with my self, i really don't know how to move on.
I was once in your situation, first I never loved her but then as time goes by you realize you're now fond of her and before you could understand what's really happening you're already in love.

I loved her so much but I can't show it, I let her go with my respect fully intact. I think about her everyday and love we shared but I can't be committed when I know I have a mountains to climb. Never show women you're desperately wanting them, they'll start using it to their advantage
I have no regrets


At the end you'll have lot of women at your disposal


Hustle!

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by ezewealth(m): 12:19am On Sep 29, 2021
I rather sit on a giant cactus, then give a relationship advices to a simp. It will all be a waste.

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Re: I Am Suffering From Heart Break, How Do I Move On by Sunnyski: 3:56am On Sep 29, 2021
Move on move on
Don't be frighten
Lord Jesus understands
It shall be well.
Try to get your mind off her and I bet you with time you will be free from that bondage called love.

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