Objectively speaking, it is bad when an adult has a mouth-to-mouth kiss with an infant. It exposes the life of the baby to all sorts of oral infection. Please let's be guided. Give reasons to your wife why she should stop, I hope she reasons along with you.

Kobojunkie:
Nope, and I have kissed quite a few of them.

Ofcourse we can list many potential dangers but how many have actually been killed as a result of being kissed.

So unless it is fatal any other bad effect is okay?
How thick?
Don't just conclude there has been no deaths simply because you don't know about it.
Go check statistics of infant mortality from the General Medical Council UK as a result of infections from kissing before you make such ignorant claims.

Also read this one happened in the US. Don't be thick.

https://www.google.com/search?q=number+of+infant+deaths+from+kissing&oq=number+of+infant+deaths+from+kissing&aqs=chrome..69i57j33i160l2.24409j0j7&client=ms-android-samsung-gj-rev1&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8

Cnach:
Let's be truthful to our selves, can a man be sexually abused?

Yes!

Kobojunkie:
Nope, and I have kissed quite a few of them.

Ofcourse we can list many potential dangers but how many have actually been killed by their mother's kiss? .

Ignorance is not bliss.

AfroKnight:


Honestly I never even considered this a problem until today. I never thought it would happen in my own home, but after seeing the dûmb way some people have justified it on this thread, I am going to raise this as a first date question going forward. I certainly don’t want to end up with a wife who does that to my kids.

I support your argument

TUANKU:

So unless it is fatal any other bad effect is okay?
How thick?
Don't just conclude there has been no deaths simply because you don't know about it.
Go check statistics of infant mortality from the General Medical Council UK as a result of infections from kissing before you make such ignorant claims.

Also read this one happened in the US.

Nope! Simply saying that we cannot cross it simply out out fear that something might go wrong.... mothers can instead be asked to proceed cautiously.

Kobojunkie:
I wouldn't even know where to begin with this since I am at a loss as to how there is a link between walking around in one's underwear in front of babies and pornography.

Is it also wrong to wear bathing suit when you go swimming with your kid?

If you open your mind to learning maybe this will add to your reservoir of knowledge. It's a choice though

TUANKU:

Ignorance is not bliss.

It is not ignorance... instead I am refusing to let fears cause me to seek to override nature in this.

Great6Pack:

If you open your mind to learning maybe this will add to your reservoir of knowledge. It's a choice though

Again....I wouldn't even know where to begin with this since I am at a loss as to how there is a link between walking around in one's underwear in front of babies and pornography.

Is it also wrong to wear bathing suit when you go swimming with your kid?

bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

, a woman cant kiss a son she carried for 9months ? Whar kind of human beings do we have In Africa?

Zoharariel:


OP - I did not want to comment on this issue but I just couldn’t restrain myself due to the enormous stupidity & foolishness I’m reading from these disgusting comments on the first page.

You see all these morally decadent imbeciles telling you “it’s not a big deal” or “it’s normal” are the reason Nigeria is currently irredeemably hopeless.

I swear by Sango, a good number of the males have DEFINITELY slept with their own mothers while the females have also been fvcked by their fathers.

In Nigeria, misery loves company, majority of them would naturally mislead you so that your own family too can become as unfortunate & cursed like theirs.

If not, why would anyone be encouraging such sacrilegious acts in the name of civilization and copying what they watch on T.V?

I don’t know where you come from but let me be clear. In Yoruba land, it is a veritable taboo for a mother to kiss her son mouth-to-mouth or a father kissing her daughter mouth-to-mouth.

From mouth-to-mouth kissing, what do you think would follow that? The useless mother asking the son to massage her pubic hair or the bastard father asking the daughter to massage his schlong.

If you don’t know, majority of the people you see in Nigeria have been defiled by their parents and that’s why they don’t see it as a big deal.

If I were in your shoes, and the woman still refuses to heed my repeated warnings, I would retrieve my son & kick her out of my house to the gutter from whence she came.

Sango in collabo with Ogun will obliterate any bastard that quotes me to say rubbish.

I also was disgusted when I read through the front page. may God bless you bros.

the annoying part is, most of those useless comments supporting the woman were made by so called men.
let's even forget "if the table is turned," that's, it's the man and his daughter. those godforsaken simps will hang him.

back to the story nigerians are the reason why most people around them are hypocrite. "y will I express my self when I know u will definitely use it against me"
all of them are asking the op to see a doctor none of them is interested in the part where he said there's a little girl staying in their house who sees this and might want to try

useless people everywhere

Cnach:
Let's be truthful to our selves, can a man be sexually abused? Unless when u are tired and u are still forced to continue doing if not i have reasoned the meaning of sexually abusing man and I'm failing. That's by the way.
To ur yelling, as for me u don't really love ur wife any more. it could be her fault, it could be ur fault but that love it not there again. I think u should work on that.
How can I tell a wife I kiss everyday to stop kissing her son but allow her to be breast feeding her? Guy reason am nah. Breast feeding and kissing which should be more sexually related? U are not wrong trying to protect ur child, but senior I think u are going the wrong way, count this one out. Ose

Oga don't say what you don't know, when I was 7, I was abused by a certain girl in our compound. I couldn't tell anyone about it. I was so scared of this girl. She always appears when am alone, I begged her but she refused listen to my pleas. I hav been searching for her and I know one day I will get her and pay her in her own coins, if she like make she done marry with kids, I must make her feel the way I felt.

Kingpin1000:

Oga don't say what you don't know, when I was 7, I was abused by a certain girl in our compound. I couldn't tell anyone about it. I was so scared of this girl. She always appears when am alone, I begged her but she refused listen to my pleas. I hav been searching for her and I know one day I will get her and pay her in her own coins, if she like make she done marry with kids, I must make her feel the way I felt.

Wow! You are searching for her!

I can understand your reason though.

Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

Is it wrong if he’s the one kissing his daughter on her lips??
I guess everyone love the feel of baby lips right?

You are overreacting
I kiss my son on the lips it’s like a brief contact so does my husband
My son even kisses his father to welcome him
My son is 2years
This is innocent and is the love between parents and their children
I don’t know why you should be annoyed

tsmith:


You've got some childhood trauma that's marred your thinking. This is your cross to bear and deal with, not on others to feel the brunt.

Also, whilst you're sorting out your childhood trauma issues with a qualified therapist (highly recommended) also sort out your control, misogynistic and entitled (me, me, me) issues.

Your narrative includes some very worrying use of language

My baby - it's equally her baby, even more her's than yours

Told my wife: you don't tell a grown ass adult how to act

Need to take serious actions - oga principal wetin you wan do, beat her? Send her packing?? Or perhaps take the child away

You've got plenty issues dude, get them sorted

Babe, I hope u are not serious. That a man is wrong in all path doesn't make him wrong in paths, calm down when u are talking to guys and don't belong to the family of "Oya come and beat me"
is u guys that are abusing the privilege given to ladies not to beat or man handle them even when everybody knows t they almost deserve the same spanking given to a child but nature has chosen to respect them at least for their age and their faithfulness to humanity.
But if all talks like u just did, a generation to come may revoke and revolt that privilege. Pls be calming down. I beg u shaa o

fineboynl:
My friend who is almost 40years now him and her mother still kiss in the mouth. He is a spoiled child. Who sleep with anything in skirts. He doesn't even select class.

Then when he was 35. He was sick and I when to see him. I saw the mother kissing him In the mouth. It was so disgusted.

Your kid will get use to that kissing which is bad

You're loco.

Officialgarri:
You speak like one who is married to a full time house wife who contributes nothing to the house other than cook, sex and take care of the baby.

I mean, what do you mean by "my son" as though the child belongs to you alone while she's only there to breast feed him and nothing more...

what has he said that u v brought out gun..

OP leave your wife and her son to bond abeg .

LilMissFavvy:
Bad idea, unless you don't mind being dumped on the first date.

Lol. From the way I talk you’d know I don’t mind ending things on the first date.

eniolaamos7:

I support your argument

Thank you boss.

It is worrisome how people cannot see that such behaviour may be disgusting or offensive to others.

Kingpin1000:

Oga don't say what you don't know, when I was 7, I was abused by a certain girl in our compound. I couldn't tell anyone about it. I was so scared of this girl. She always appears when am alone, I begged her but she refused listen to my pleas. I hav been searching for her and I know one day I will get her and pay her in her own coins, if she like make she done marry with kids, I must make her feel the way I felt.

U know I left that question to learn. Like u said I shouldn't say what I don't know. Whole heartedly I know nothing there. Bc people like me were even looking for girls when we were small so how come u saw them and it was problem? What was she doing to u and how was she doing it

It's not right to kiss your babies on the face , you should kiss them on their feet.
According to timesofindia.com
"Newborns have a weak immune system, which makes it crucial to take extra care of them in the first few weeks. Exposure to any kind of virus and bacteria can put their life at risk. It is always said that one must wash their hands nicely before touching kids as our hands are home to thousands of pathogens. Similarly, even our face is covered with thousands of microscopic organisms and when we kiss, these pathogens get transferred to the little one’s skin."

Kobojunkie:
Yes!

Have u experienced it, what did she do and how was she doing it?

Kobojunkie:
It is not ignorance... instead I am refusing to let fears cause me to seek to override nature in this.

Ok. It may not have a high death rate but it is still dangerous to infants since their immune system is not fully developed.
Just imagine someone after giving head/BJ then proceeds to kiss an infant
Prevention is the best bro.

Kobojunkie:
Nope! Simply saying that we cannot cross it simply out out fear that something might go wrong.... mothers can instead be asked to proceed cautiously.

You have a point but personally i will prefer a peck to a kiss on the lips.
If you see the average adult mouth under microscope e no far from toilet seat

Now imagine if it's the husband kissing their 6 months daughter, the same people siding with the woman will be the first to hang him out to dry.

We are not sincere in this country.

The woman should stop kissing the child, period.

Oga! Do u think your wife will commit incest with your son at home? Oga! Just rest.

Kobojunkie:
Wow! You are searching for her!

I can understand your reason though.

I never knew how to explain what was happening to me to my parents, if I were a girl my parents would have noticed. The day I catches her, her life will never remain thesame, I will make fear her best friend.

Sir it is normal. Kids lip is very lovely to kiss, the kissing will stop when the child grow older

TUANKU:

You have a point but personally i will prefer a peck to a kiss on the lips.
If you see the average adult mouth under microscope e no far from toilet seat

You don't dictate to nature... nature instead does the dictating.

And nature has it that mothers form that bond with their babies from birth and kissing is one of the ways that relationship is solidified. Women who don't show affection in such manners tend not to form that bond and it tends to have devastating consequences on the development of the child.

Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

If you really read this thread, you will see a lot of wrong doing in what the woman is doing, she do it always and in front of their maid, what if the maid start doing the same thing?