Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,150,656 members, 7,809,481 topics. Date: Friday, 26 April 2024 at 10:21 AM

I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? - Family (6) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? (32047 Views)

I Am Scared! My Wedding Is This Month & I Haven't Told My Fiancé About My 3 Kids / I Told My Husband That I Cheated On Him. Now He Wants A Divorce. / Father From Anambra Disowns His Son On Newspaper (Photo) (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by jaxxy(m): 4:43pm On Sep 29, 2021
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

Ure being paranoid based on the fear generated from ur experience. It’s not bad but don’t take it out on ur wife for doing the normal things a mother would do.

As for the little gal staying with u watch her to know the kind of mindset she has then u can know how to handle the situation with her and taking care of ur kid.
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:43pm On Sep 29, 2021
Aidejay:

I'm not saying kissing is unnatural,
But you know there are parts of the world were kissing is forbidden?
Some reasons for that include that they find it dirty or because of superstitious reasons.

For example, in places like sudan, it is believed that the mouth is the portal to the soul, so they do not want to invite death or have their spirit taken. Meaning that kissing is not a universal act or concept. and many societies see it as improper. Despite kissing being widespread, in some parts of the world it is still taboo to kiss publicly and is often banned in films or in other media in countries like the UAE for instance.

This however doesn't traunticate the biological arguments of the origins of kissing it just suggests that down the line as far as cultures are concerned kissing is largely shaped by our cultural genes. Just like everything thing else.
Kissing is natural.... animals do it. undecided

That there are parts of the world where it is forbidden instead means those cultures and Societies in question have chosen to have issues with it. undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by orion7: 4:44pm On Sep 29, 2021
What kind of foolish man is this,?
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by nedekid: 4:44pm On Sep 29, 2021
mariahAngel:
Did you tell your wife your reason for not wanting her to kiss your child?
Does she know about your experience?

As for the kiss, I doubt it is as perverted as you’re making seem.
Does she kiss the child deep in the mouth?
I am supprise people have not decoded op.
He knows what he does with his wife and her mouth hence he does not want her to kiss the baby. grin
If you know, you know cool

1 Like 1 Share

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by hardon1(m): 4:45pm On Sep 29, 2021
Telling a woman not to kiss her new born is like asking someone to fry bole without tasting it.
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:47pm On Sep 29, 2021
TUANKU:

There's a lot wrong, one can easily give the child an infection.
E get why doctors advice against it plus i have seen the effects.
Do a Google search and see the results.
Just curious. How many baby deaths have been recorded as a result of mothers kissing their young. undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Paulianfa(m): 4:48pm On Sep 29, 2021
Only married people, I move!
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by TUANKU(m): 4:49pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
How many baby deaths have been recorded as a result of mothers kissing their young. undecided
I don't wish to engage you, you can find that information online easily.
Go get a microscopic image of your mouth and see the mess grin

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:50pm On Sep 29, 2021
TUANKU:

I don't wish to engage you, you can find that information online easily.
Go get a microscopic image of your mouth and see the mess grin
No baby has ever died or been infected as a result of my kissing it. So? undecided

Here's another question, does the mouth of a mother penguin contains lesser harmful bacteria than the mouth of a human? undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by AfroKnight: 4:50pm On Sep 29, 2021
LilMissFavvy:
Hmmm, yes, I guess people may see my opinion as old fashioned. Giving a child a peck on the cheek would have been better, as for kissing on the mouth, i don't just like it.

Honestly I never even considered this a problem until today. I never thought it would happen in my own home, but after seeing the dûmb way some people have justified it on this thread, I am going to raise this as a first date question going forward. I certainly don’t want to end up with a wife who does that to my kids.

3 Likes

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by LifePortConnect: 4:52pm On Sep 29, 2021
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.


For medical reasons and health of the child, it is not advised to kiss a child on the lips. Probably you should study about this and bring to her knowledge.

I'm sorry you went through abuse. You're still hurt. You need to heal. This is making you to take it more seriously than you should. You need to talk to a therapist.

May the Lord grant you the wisdom to navigate this issue and heal you perfectly from within.

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Great6Pack(m): 4:52pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I think you are being overly paranoid. A mother walking around in underwear in front of her babies, you tie that to pornography? undecided

I think you don't know what you are saying. Walking in underwear in a house where you have babies?

I think we have too many problems to deal with in Nigeria than this
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Great6Pack(m): 4:53pm On Sep 29, 2021
@OP I understand your plight. Many who do not understand what causes incest, early child exposure to sexuality and the resultant effects in later life will not understand your point.

I think more parents need to go for counseling as it relates to handling children in their formative years. There are dos and don't people!

You can inbox me let's talk. I think I can help.

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by TUANKU(m): 4:53pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
No baby has ever died or been infected as a result of my kissing it. So? undecided
No baby has ever died? You have proof to back up your claim?
Read this
https://www.pedseast.com/blog/posts/the-dangers-of-kissing-babies
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by ITDarrell(m): 4:53pm On Sep 29, 2021
Bornsinner7:
I see nothing wrong as it is her child.. that you were sexualy abused have left a scar in your memory but you have to deal with it..

Maybe you should let her understand your point of view rather than just prohibiting her authoritatively from the act...

Everybody loves the feel of the lips of babies bro.. don't be mad..

To me, it's very wrong medically!!!
A kiss on the cheek is enough!!
Protect the BOY Child!!!
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by TemmyT002(m): 4:54pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Where? undecided

Google it.
Doctors on Twitter post about it all the time
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:55pm On Sep 29, 2021
Great6Pack:
I think you don't know what you are saying. Walking in underwear in a house where you have babies?

I think we have too many problems to deal with in Nigeria than this
I am particularly interested in how you tie it to pornography. undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by tsmith(f): 4:55pm On Sep 29, 2021
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

You've got some childhood trauma that's marred your thinking. This is your cross to bear and deal with, not on others to feel the brunt.

Also, whilst you're sorting out your childhood trauma issues with a qualified therapist (highly recommended) also sort out your control, misogynistic and entitled (me, me, me) issues.

Your narrative includes some very worrying use of language

My baby - it's equally her baby, even more her's than yours

Told my wife: you don't tell a grown ass adult how to act

Need to take serious actions - oga principal wetin you wan do, beat her? Send her packing?? Or perhaps take the child away

You've got plenty issues dude, get them sorted

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by TUANKU(m): 4:56pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
No baby has ever died or been infected as a result of my kissing it. So? undecided

Here's another question, does the mouth of a mother penguin contains lesser harmful bacteria than the mouth of a human? undecided

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by rita25(f): 4:56pm On Sep 29, 2021
you no g sense oh oga her and her child again?
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 4:56pm On Sep 29, 2021
TUANKU:

No baby has ever died? You have proof to back up your claim?
Read this
https://www.pedseast.com/blog/posts/the-dangers-of-kissing-babies
Nope, and I have kissed quite a few of them. undecided

Ofcourse we can list many potential dangers but how many have actually been killed by their mother's kiss? . undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Bluffly: 4:57pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Perceptions of whom? Those in the household or those who you believe are out to judge your every moves? undecided

People will always have an opinion but so long as your conscience is clear, why worry? undecided
In the home. Let us stop playing card. Common changing diaper for the baby girl, they may come and say you are fingering. Averagely women are more insecured than men. No need of double standard and no one is ready to do surgery to know what is on your mind or intentions when the eye is seeing be it right or wrong

2 Likes 1 Share

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Great6Pack(m): 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2021
Kobojunkie:
I am particularly interested in how you tie it to pornography. undecided

You can do well to read up on it sir. Search for something like "how to avoid pornography at home." God bless you
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by TUANKU(m): 4:58pm On Sep 29, 2021
There's a lot wrong. From herpes to RSV and more .

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by HRMK: 4:59pm On Sep 29, 2021
dont u kiss her and the boy?is she not the biological mother? YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS AT ALL!
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by LilMissFavvy(f): 5:00pm On Sep 29, 2021
Bad idea, unless you don't mind being dumped on the first date.
AfroKnight:

I am going to raise this as a first date question going forward.

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by damilarea2(m): 5:01pm On Sep 29, 2021
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

Infact I had to log in and comment on this topic
I dislike this attitude alot. People will just carry a new born baby and start peaking or kissing them with their infectious mouth.

It's not good at all. And I even advice some couple to stop the attitude cos the baby will be prone to infection.

Not even in this era..
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 5:01pm On Sep 29, 2021
Bluffly:

In the home. Let us stop playing card. Common changing diaper for the baby girl, they may come and say you are fingering. Averagely women are more insecured than men. No need of double standard and no one is ready to do surgery to know what is in your mind or intentions when the eye is seeing be it right or wrong
Well, if your wife stops you from changing baby diapers because she is insecure, it means something is wrong and help is needed. undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by SOPIGO: 5:02pm On Sep 29, 2021
Guy go check yourself.... I am a man, my Son is Three years... I still kiss and peck him. Even my wife still kiss and peck him.... I think you grow up in a home where affection is not shown. It's Affecting you.
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kobojunkie: 5:03pm On Sep 29, 2021
Great6Pack:
You can do well to read up on it sir. Search for something like "how to avoid pornography at home." God bless you
I wouldn't even know where to begin with this since I am at a loss as to how there is a link between walking around in one's underwear in front of babies and pornography. undecided

Is it also wrong to wear bathing suit when you go swimming with your kid? undecided

1 Like

Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Cnach: 5:03pm On Sep 29, 2021
Let's be truthful to our selves, can a man be sexually abused? Unless when u are tired and u are still forced to continue doing if not i have reasoned the meaning of sexually abusing man and I'm failing. That's by the way.
To ur yelling, as for me u don't really love ur wife any more. it could be her fault, it could be ur fault but that love it not there again. I think u should work on that.
How can I tell a wife I kiss everyday to stop kissing her son but allow her to be breast feeding her? Guy reason am nah. Breast feeding and kissing which should be more sexually related? U are not wrong trying to protect ur child, but senior I think u are going the wrong way, count this one out. Ose
Re: I Told My Wife Not To Kiss My 6-Month-Old Son On The Mouth: Am I Wrong? by Kingpin1000: 5:04pm On Sep 29, 2021
bobontop:
My wife is fond of kissing my 6months boy in the mouth. I personally don't like this and I have told her to stop it but she refused.

This issue in causing a serious argument in my home and I want to take a serious action since she has refused to stop it.

Please I need advice from experienced parents.

I was abused sexual as a child by a cousin staying with us and there are cases of incest around me. I don't want any of this to happen to my son.

The teenage girl staying with us always sees my wife kissing my son in the mouth and I am afraid she my copy it and start doing it.

Please am I wrong? Am I over reacting? Is it a normal practice? Please advise me.
How are you sure the baby is even yours?

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (12) (Reply)

Divide ₦100,000 Between Your Parents. / My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage / Dad Begs For Forgiveness For Defiling His Daughters.

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 65
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.